Fairness (Re: difficult people and their influence on my mental state)

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> I somewhat agree with his point, but please let me try to sum it up in a much

simpler statement: Don't look outward for proof of humanity,kindness, and

integrity, look inward. If you are dealing with business, there is a thing

called 'the fair trade act' to protect your money, assets, or labor. There is NO

SUCH THING when it comes to human morality.(Although God knows there should be!)

Unfortunately, God gave us the free will to decide how we are going to treat

others.I truly believe that God is going to even things out in the end. We

survivors are screaming for retribution, someone to say, 'Hey, what happened to

you was UNFAIR!' Why do we survivors seem to be the only ones screaming about

how UNFAIR our treatment was? Why does it seem that the perpetrators always get

away with such appalling behavior? I think it's only natural that we need some

closure. We unfortunately tend to look for it here on earth. We are ultra aware

of everyone else's unfair behavior. If you can, tell yourself that God has a

doosie of a plan for the abusers, and boy are we survivors gonna have cake and

ice cream! It will help you to feel more closure and retribution. Then you can

" let go and let God. " Much love.

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I SO agree with this philosophy. I would go even further, and state that I

personally feel that suffering (as long as you can survive it) has a purifying

effect on people, and that there will be an evening out of rewards and

punishments in the afterlife.