Guest guest Posted July 1, 2010 Report Share Posted July 1, 2010 I am going through a death in my family and have had to temporarily break NC. I have no desire to speak to certain members of my family that are my nada's " Flying Monkeys " and choose to surround myself around the positive family and friends (basically those that my nada isolated me from my entire life). My nada has been incessantly calling me. Sometimes, I choose to answer(only if there are funeral arrangements that I need) but other times I choose to ignore. After nearly 3 months of NC, my nada is leaving messages saying " Why aren't you there for us? " " We are all alone. " " I can't believe you haven't come over to see how we are doing. " Ummm....does my nada get it? After a HUGE rage my nada went into around Easter (and some nasty, horrible, vile things that she said to me), I have stopped all contact with her since. And NOW she is asking me to " Be there for her!? " Are you kidding me? I was wondering if any of you that are NC have ever had your nada just give up or " get it " that you want to stay away? Does she ever quit? AJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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