Guest guest Posted July 14, 2010 Report Share Posted July 14, 2010 Dear friends, As a kind of antidote to my recent purge, I wanted to share something more positive with you. I came across this check-list in a little health magazine and I have found myself referring to it quite a lot the past few days. It is the " choose " strategy by Dr Sharp, psychologist and founder of the Happiness Institute. In sharing this with you, I don't wish to diminish or attach any moral judgement to the emotions that you may be experiencing. Neither do I wish to suggest that happiness can or should be our perpetual state. The day to day struggles that many of us here face are complex as are the emotions that come with them and they are valid and necessary part of all of our journeys. At the moment I find myself without answers and struggling to rise above my turmoil so that it doesn't continue to permeate into the precious time I spend with my partner, new baby, friends and family. I am trying to accept this will always be a part of who I am and to learn to be in the moment so to speak, regardless of whether I have received a nasty sms today or not. I guess I am trying to count my blessings. This is, in many ways very simple and I feel it's almost too blatantly obvious to share, but it is precisely its simplicity that appeals to me at the moment as coping with all of this is just so utterly perplexing at times, to say the very least!! Anyway, here it is: Daily happiness check-list: 1. I've reminded myself of my life purpose 2. I'm clear on my priorities for the day 3. I've engaged in exercise 4. I've planned to eat healthily 5. I intend to practise meditation relaxation 6. I will not accept unhelpful, negative thoughts 7. I'm confident today will be a good day 8. I'm hopeful for the future 9. I'm grateful to the people in my life 10. I intend to praise at least one person today 11. I'm determined to find ways to use my strengths 12. I'm going to have fun 13. I will laugh and smile 14. I will endeavour to be in the moment as much as possible 15. I'll savour all positive experiences I hope it helps. Love and light to you all. With warmth, Lynda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2010 Report Share Posted July 14, 2010 Hi Lynda, I think this is great- it's kind of like daily affirmations, which my T tells me works wonders (If you stick with it, which I have not). This gave me the motivation to start them up again. Thanks! > > Dear friends, As a kind of antidote to my recent purge, I wanted to share something more positive with you. I came across this check-list in a little health magazine and I have found myself referring to it quite a lot the past few days. It is the " choose " strategy by Dr Sharp, psychologist and founder of the Happiness Institute. > > In sharing this with you, I don't wish to diminish or attach any moral judgement to the emotions that you may be experiencing. > Neither do I wish to suggest that happiness can or should be our perpetual state. The day to day struggles that many of us here face are complex as are the emotions that come with them and they are valid and necessary part of all of our journeys. > > At the moment I find myself without answers and struggling to rise above my turmoil so that it doesn't continue to permeate into the precious time I spend with my partner, new baby, friends and family. I am trying to accept this will always be a part of who I am and to learn to be in the moment so to speak, regardless of whether I have received a nasty sms today or not. > > I guess I am trying to count my blessings. > > > This is, in many ways very simple and I feel it's almost too blatantly obvious to share, but it is precisely its simplicity that appeals to me at the moment as coping with all of this is just so utterly perplexing at times, to say the very least!! > > Anyway, here it is: > > Daily happiness check-list: > > 1. I've reminded myself of my life purpose > > 2. I'm clear on my priorities for the day > > 3. I've engaged in exercise > > 4. I've planned to eat healthily > > 5. I intend to practise meditation relaxation > > 6. I will not accept unhelpful, negative thoughts > > 7. I'm confident today will be a good day > > 8. I'm hopeful for the future > > 9. I'm grateful to the people in my life > > 10. I intend to praise at least one person today > > 11. I'm determined to find ways to use my strengths > > 12. I'm going to have fun > > 13. I will laugh and smile > > 14. I will endeavour to be in the moment as much as possible > > 15. I'll savour all positive experiences > > I hope it helps. Love and light to you all. > > With warmth, > > Lynda > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 15, 2010 Report Share Posted July 15, 2010 I do appreciate this post. I may just print it out too. Thanks for sharing. I believe genuine happiness is the best revenge.... ~V Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2010 Report Share Posted July 16, 2010 thanks, Lynda! this is awesome. I need to focus more on what's right in my life. > > Dear friends, As a kind of antidote to my recent purge, I wanted to share something more positive with you. I came across this check-list in a little health magazine and I have found myself referring to it quite a lot the past few days. It is the " choose " strategy by Dr Sharp, psychologist and founder of the Happiness Institute. > > In sharing this with you, I don't wish to diminish or attach any moral judgement to the emotions that you may be experiencing. > Neither do I wish to suggest that happiness can or should be our perpetual state. The day to day struggles that many of us here face are complex as are the emotions that come with them and they are valid and necessary part of all of our journeys. > > At the moment I find myself without answers and struggling to rise above my turmoil so that it doesn't continue to permeate into the precious time I spend with my partner, new baby, friends and family. I am trying to accept this will always be a part of who I am and to learn to be in the moment so to speak, regardless of whether I have received a nasty sms today or not. > > I guess I am trying to count my blessings. > > > This is, in many ways very simple and I feel it's almost too blatantly obvious to share, but it is precisely its simplicity that appeals to me at the moment as coping with all of this is just so utterly perplexing at times, to say the very least!! > > Anyway, here it is: > > Daily happiness check-list: > > 1. I've reminded myself of my life purpose > > 2. I'm clear on my priorities for the day > > 3. I've engaged in exercise > > 4. I've planned to eat healthily > > 5. I intend to practise meditation relaxation > > 6. I will not accept unhelpful, negative thoughts > > 7. I'm confident today will be a good day > > 8. I'm hopeful for the future > > 9. I'm grateful to the people in my life > > 10. I intend to praise at least one person today > > 11. I'm determined to find ways to use my strengths > > 12. I'm going to have fun > > 13. I will laugh and smile > > 14. I will endeavour to be in the moment as much as possible > > 15. I'll savour all positive experiences > > I hope it helps. Love and light to you all. > > With warmth, > > Lynda > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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