Re: I finally have someone to talk too.

[Guest guest]

Hello,

My husband did (sometimes still does) act the exact same way.  He acts like I

have no medical issues at all. I finally took him to see my counselor and after

that he at least started acting like he got it. Its not that I wanted sympathy,

just someone that actually understood a little of what I am going through.

If you don't already see a counselor or therapist, I would recommend one.

Sometimes it takes some of the pressure off the spouse if we have someone else

to vent to. This group does help too. Its hard to see the people we love

suffering and maybe that is just his way of dealing, like my husband, is just

denial.

Good luck,

Caitlin

I was diagnosed with firbromyalgia 2 yrs ago, I suspect I have had it for about

9.  I was wondering how can I get my husband to understand that some days I hurt

so bad I want to stay in bed all day and not be touched.  He just ignores it all

like it is not happening.  What can I do?

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