Guest guest Posted February 22, 2010 Report Share Posted February 22, 2010 , I am so sorry that you have the pain and I am hurting also. If we could wish away our pain, we could. I had to be very careful about who I talked to at work, as I found several were going behind my back and saying bad things about me when I was asking for assistance. I chose one other person who had what I had and I did say anything else but come here and vent. My friends do not come around as I cannot do for them and I found out who my real friends are. Hope you get to feeling better and I am thinking of you. Bennie wrote: > I usually do not talk about my pain to anyone anymore. At a meeting I like to go to this week I had to keep shaking my leg to bear the pain. I could not hold still and I wondered if anyone noticed or was bothered and what they thought. Later, when I did talk to a person I thought I could trust about my pain, she gently suggested I ask myself what I get out of my disability and pain. I think she was suggesting that if I knew, I could give myself that and not be in pain anymore. Wow. Have any of you had this experience? My two best friends are into the new physics and creating your own reality. I really feel they love me and do not judge me, but I feel sometimes like I am failing them or myself for not creating a better reality for myself (?!). What I focus my mind on I will get more of, etc. Yikes! I do not know how not to focus on the pain when the pain is overwhelming. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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