Guest guest Posted December 5, 2008 Report Share Posted December 5, 2008 This conversation has got me to wondering: Has anyone else's doctor, when putting them on a pain medication regimen, discussed with them the differece between ADDICTION and DEPENDENCE? (sorry to yell those words, but it seems many doctors don't think about the differences when dealing with pain patients!) My husband and I have the same doctor, and he had this conversation with us both when putting us on opiod meds. He explained the difference between being dependent, which we were choosing to enter into by taking the meds, and being addicted. He made sure that we understood this before he would allow us to put pen to paper on our pain management contracts, and reviews it each time we change dosages or which medications we take. And he's not even a pain specialist! It seems that, if doctors are going to risk putting us on these drugs, that they'd at least want a basic understanding of these two concepts. I agree: you should find a new doctor quickly. in Oregon --- Robyn Montgomery wrote: > If you have chronic pain then what good will it do to reduce or take away your meds? That just going to make you miserable. I would find another doctor, as Kaylene said, and I'd do it today! >> Kris wrote: I have been too afraid to call the Dr., because he has capitalized the fact that I am an addict and that they want to get me off the meds altogether (which is a joke since my condition is chronic > and degenerative and is not going to get better on it's own.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 5, 2008 Report Share Posted December 5, 2008 Well, I was forced to sign a contract before they even discussed what meds they were going to put me on. They said " Well, we want to get you off the meds you are currently on, but if what we give you doesn't work, we will switch you back. Here, you have to sign this before we will treat you. Oh, by the way, here's what we are putting you on, you have to live with that. You are not allowed to take any other controlled substances, see any other doctors for treatment of this condition, or go to the hospital for treatment of this condition without consulting us first, or you will be blacklisted. " That was pretty much it, they screwed me over big time, never kept their original promise, and have been giving me lower and lower doses of meds every time I tell them the ones I am on aren't enough. They are forcing me to live in severe pain. I am going to discuss with my primary doc if he won't take over my pain management then I want a different referral to another pain doc that will give a crap about how much pain I am in and not just how they might somehow be sued if I am on too high a dose or something. ~*Kris wrote: This conversation has got me to wondering: Has anyone else's doctor, when putting them on a pain medication regimen, discussed with them the differece between ADDICTION and DEPENDENCE? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2008 Report Share Posted December 8, 2008 > > Kris wrote: > > Well, I was forced to sign a contract before they even > > discussed what meds they were going to put me on. My doc, who's not a pain management specialist but a regular GP, settles my dose and/or drug before doing a contract. Maybe he's just trying to cut down on paperwork? in Oregon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2008 Report Share Posted December 8, 2008 Hi Caitlin: First of all, a comment and then the answer to your question. You feel that docs who make you sign the pain contract before talking to you are a bit more " unstable " than those who do not. As someone who is in the medical profession, I'm sorry, but I have to respectfully disagree. While I certainly agree that they should talk to you and discuss the pain contract with you in detail before you are asked to sign it, I do not agree that this should be brought up only after the patient and doc have discussed narcotic medications for the relief of the patient's pain. If I were a doctor, I would certainly discuss it first. I would state that this was my policy, here are the rules, here are your responsibilities, my responsibilities and the consequences should the agreement not be met. Then, and *only then*, would I discuss narcotic medications. This is how my doctor did things and I found it very professional. I also found him to be completely stable. The answer to your question about obtaining pain meds from another doc is a bit complex. It depends on your pain doc's definition of " obtain " . My contract specifically states that I will not obtain pain medications from another doctor unless it is an emergency. " Emergency " according to my doc, also includes " flares " , " pain crisis " , " pain emergency " and other such terminology. In other words, if I end up in an ER, I am within the bounds of my contract to receive a shot and even a prescription if needed. It also helps that I tell both the ER doc about my pain doc and the other way around. If I go to the ER, I tell my pain doc. I tell him exactly what was said, what was given, etc. I want him to know so that there are no surprises. I am also happy to give the ER doc my doc's number so that if he has any questions about my treatment, (nine schedule II opioids), he can call my doc and ask. Now, some docs do not allow their patient's such lattitude. I think the appropriate thing for you to do in this situation, if you are concerned, is to simply ask. Explain how you were wondering about it and ask what your doc would want you to do should an emergency ever come up... Hope this helps, -- Dodge Read my blog at: http://jumpthis.wordpress.com http://www.yahoogroups.com/groups/a_different_reality ---- Caitlin Kennedy wrote: ============= My Pain Dr. made me sign the form before we even talked at all. I thought that was very strange, like he knew he was going to give me pain meds before even seeing me. I think Dr. that do this tend to be a little more unstable (not sure if that is correct way to put it) than ones that actually talk to you and go through the pain contract with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2008 Report Share Posted December 8, 2008 No, I told them the first few times I needed a shot, then I didn't bother, I just tell them afterwords, when I go to my next appt. They sometimes ask me if I had any accidents or went to the ER. ~*Kris Caitlin wrote: What do you all do when it says to not get pain meds from any other Dr. and you have to go to the hospital or emergency room? Does the hospital Dr. have to get a hold of the Pain Dr. before you can get any meds? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2008 Report Share Posted December 8, 2008 --- Caitlin wrote: > > What do you all do when it says to not get pain meds from any other Dr. > and you have to go to the hospital or emergency room? Does the hospital > Dr. have to get a hold of the Pain Dr. before you can get any meds? You need to talk to your doctor with the contract and ask these kinds of questions BEFORE this happens, so you will know what to do. Every doctor could be different - don't trust what someone else's doctor agrees to! Ask not only about emergencies, but also ask how they want you to handle any scheduled surgery postoperative pain meds (which the surgeon usually writes, but your pain doctor may want to handle), and ask what to do if your pharmacy is out of your meds if the contract specifies only one pharmacy. (My pharmacy is out of stock of my meds about every other month! And schedule II opiates can take a week or more for the pharmacy to get more in stock - far too long to wait. So I had it written into my agreement that I could use a specific second pharmacy in this situation as long as my regular pharmacist called ahead to the second pharmacy and records it in my record.) You doctor's office should be happy to answer all your questions in advance, so that there are no problems when an emergency does happen. Cheryl in AZ Moderator Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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