Re: Re: Hi I'm new and in need of understanding

[Guest guest]

Wow I didnt know that. I do know I have no rights to the house cause he owned it

before I was in the picture but I can force him to pay for an apartment.

I wish I was on SSDI but hubby makes too much money for me to get it right now.

But we talked for over an hour tonight again and he told me he doesn't want me

to kill myself to clean up this house and he offered to help me with the living

room.

I've been so depressed last year I was betrayed by 3 people very close to me and

I have been stuck in this hole I cant climb out of. But this is no excuse for

s behavior he has been so cold and heartless exspecially when it comes to my

medical issues its like He refuses they exsit and God forbid he read about it to

TRY to get to know anything about them to him they are just excuses.

Thankns for the advice I have been so frigten that I couldnt live w/o him cause

Im am so depended on him

Huggss

Katy

Tipper wrote:

He says, he is going to kick you out, NOPE he can't do that! That is the

matrimonial home, it belongs to both of you, and since he probably works, and

you are not able to and probably on social security, he will be the one that

will be send packing, NOT YOU!

So if he continues with his crap, just go call Legal Aide, ask how to do a free

divorce, and that you are going to need to keep the house, or shelter, Alimony

and Palimony, let's see how he is going to like them bananas!

[Guest guest]

If you are legally married you have rights to half of the property, whether he

got it before or not. He also has a legal obligation to provide for you.

You need an attorney to protect your rights.. Once you know what they are you

are in much better shape psychologically to deal with him.

Carolyn Eddy

" Sweet Goat Mama "

[Guest guest]

Im going to start therapoy to help me get strong enough to do what I need to do

sad thing he had the house before we are married and I cant afford it Im going

to therapy to see what my opions are hopeful I have some I cant aforrd a lawyer

so maybe if it come to it we can be cilivize about it

Huggss

Katy