Re: losing children

[Guest guest]

Oh my. Those are very difficult losses. I'm so sorry for both of you.

It seems impossible to survive. I lost a daughter but she was only 5

days old - to a severe brain defect. Nevertheless, it was many years

before I could manage the pain of the grief. Please know that all

parents were greiving with you on that day.

Blessings,

Anne in tx

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[Guest guest]

All,

My sister lost both her daughters, one with a cerebral hemorrhage at 29 (my

niece with five years difference) and the other on active duty

in Spain in a car wreck at 34. I was there when she got the call about her

daughter in Spain. She had flown in because my Mother had a heart

attack. I don't know how she has done it because the sons that were left stay

in trouble with the law and drugs.

She has had an early heart attack and keeps things inward, it is difficult to

know what to say, but just to let her know I love her

and will do what I can. I felt helpless to assist her but just did what I

could.

My prayers are with you and send thoughts of support and wish the strength of

family, neighbors and friends are there

to help you through the time of grieving. There are many support groups out

there if you think you might want to

research them. Thinking of you and wishing you well.

Bennie in Tx

Anne Andis wrote:

Oh my. Those are very difficult losses. I'm so sorry for both of you. It seems

impossible to survive. I lost a daughter but she was only 5 days old - to a

severe brain defect. Nevertheless, it was many years before I could manage the

pain of the grief. Please know that all parents were grieving with you on that

day.

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