husband left me when I had additional small intestional surgery

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I am a chronic pain patient from failed back surgery now for 7 years.I am 56 and

on disabilty. I am angry some times, and my husband just walked out on me when

i was very sick from an additional small surgery.

I was angry when i found out he had a 5 year affair with the internet just

before the surgery. I was very sick and just got really mad about it.

i have trouble with my anger and i feel that if we had someone to clean the

house then i would be in less pain therefore less anger and could do more

activites.

Now i am looking at a separation paper he has. I do not know what to ask for.

Does anyone else have problems with their anger when they are in high pain? I

might add that I keep myself looking pretty darn good all the time considering

how I really feel.