Tammy and to all new members..

[Guest guest]

Welcome to the group. I've had some health and non health issues lately and

neglected to welcome new manners.

Tammy,

I have fibromyalgia, arthritis here and there and degenerative disk disease in

my lower back.

A good while back my husband started complaining, which led to a big argument. I

told him to not complain about things that he wasn't fully prepared to do

himself. That worked for me.

Now, of course he doesn't do anything but if I have dog hair on the floor

because my body isn't playing nice.. so what. I hope your kids start to

understand better what is happening with you and help you more. Maybe they will

understand as they get a bit older that you can't wear all of the hats all of

the time.

I love the sentence you posted " Just because I look fine doesn't mean I am

fine. "

That is exactly how it is.

*Suzi*