Re:Our Pain/My Plan

[Guest guest]

Hi everyone, Have a few thoughts to share. I'm thankful for this group and hope

all of us will have less painful days as we go on day after day.  I have made a

decision to break off a relationship of 3yrs with a man the same age as myself

of 47yrs young.  He told and showed me he was sick of dealing with this lets

say, " Crap " .

I'm blessed to have wonderful family to say,Come home. I'm leaving the city to

go back to my home in the beautiful mountains in WV.  I'm going to stay with my

dad and mom. Also,my decision was made easy because my dad is very ill and i

want to be near him at this time.

My mom is a caring and loving woman who will help take care of us both.  I'm

scared though, because i will be starting over with Pain drs and new specialist.

My Pain doc here is wonderful.

I will be going to WV University in town for my treatment plan. I'm just

delighted to get out of this house and away from this situation so much and know

this will help to reduce my high level of anxiety i have.

I can actually Smile Today.. I'm leaving Friday Morning and TAKING my precious

dog, " Shelby " with me..  She will be 2 on My birthday, April 3rd.  My family all

loves her too. 

Now, for the small community i will live in again.  Everyone knows ever body

including me.  I Plan to tell those who ask the many questions that they WILL

ask, Plain and simply that, I'm having some health issues. I will not explain,

nor will i answer to those that aren't dear to my heart.  I won't be ugly or

disrespect  anyone, but i just will not allow people to bring me down and cause

added stress to my life and pain. I really do feel that anyone who cares to

lovingly know will call, visit me, maybe send a greeting or talk to my family.

I'm just tired, you know?  We just don't need to explain to individuals that

would not even offer a gesture to help in some way. I spent 40yrs there and i

know how the story goes.  Lot's of

people, i love and care about.

Pain to me is not describable without detailed information. Well i just wanted

to share with you guys and let you know. Also, my parents do not have internet

access so i will write when i can. Love to everyone of you!! 

Connie 

PS I'll be here until Friday Morning.

[Guest guest]

Connie,

I can tell that this is the right decision from the relief in your letter. So

sorry that you won't have internet access though, that will be missed I bet.

Maybe you can afford a netbook from one of the major phone companies if they

offer service where you will be living. One of them only charges $20 a month

for access to the web. Can't remember which one.

You are wise to keep details to yourself and those you can trust. I'm glad for

you to be able to have your parents to go home to.

Jennette

>Connie H wrote:

>Hi everyone, Have a few thoughts to share. I'm thankful for this group and hope

all of us will have less painful days as we go on day after day. I have made a

decision to break off a relationship of 3yrs with a man the same age as myself

of 47yrs young. He told and showed me he was sick of dealing with this lets

say, " Crap " .

[Guest guest]

Connie,

I'm proud of you! You are taking control of your life and that is what is most

important. I hope that things work out for you. Take care,

Caitlin

Hi everyone, Have a few thoughts to share. I'm thankful for this group and hope

all of us will have less painful days as we go on day after day.  I have made a

decision to break off a relationship of 3yrs with a man the same age as myself

of 47yrs young.  He told and showed me he was sick of dealing with this lets

say, " Crap " .

[Guest guest]

Good luck to you Connie and I am glad that you made the best decision for

yourself. As far as talking to " normals " about your pain, I agree with you. I

don't tell anyone but those very, very close to me what's going on with me, and

only when I am asked, if not I don't even bring it up. I just know that

" normals " don't like to hear us complain and talk about our pain and our

ordeals, so I save it for those who care. Good luck to you!

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> Hi everyone, Have a few thoughts to share. I'm thankful for this group and

hope all of us will have less painful days as we go on day after day.  I have

made a decision to break off a relationship of 3yrs with a man the same age as

myself of 47yrs young.  He told and showed me he was sick of dealing with this

lets say, " Crap " .