Re: venting OT

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i am so sorry to hear you had such a bad day. try to take a breather. it sucks when people are mean to you. i hope you feel better soon. evelynette Limegrover <palime22@...> wrote: Good evening everyoneI had a mixed day yesterday as most of it went well until I took my dad to see a couple who work in a store in the afternoon. I ended up stuck in rush hour traffic, which brings out the worst in my dad. This

is when HE suddenly becomes the BEST driver and everything I do is WRONG!!! I ended up going out of my way in order to do a flip flop to go the way I needed to go except for mile long cars. As soon as I got there turned on my turn signal dad says, Turn Here DO I Have to Tell You Everything TO DO? This time I screamed at him saying That's what I was going to do leave me alone. Oh, now you're going to abuse me verbally you just want to fight, just because I wanted to see my friends is why you're fighting with me. It continued after a few minutes after arriving home. The moocher returned and I was instructed, well let him in I need my lawn cut and I don't see you doing anything to help me. I have to do everything and it only costs me. I was instructed, just get the meal ready and keep your mouth shut, it's your fault anyway. I almost want to go to the almost destroyed house and live there without any water, electricity or food just to get away from my dad.

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[Guest guest]

I hear ya, sounds like my visit to HI in July w/ my dad. And Hawaii is

supposed to be a paradise?, not with my family there. LOL / I feel ya!!

>

> Good evening everyone

>

> I had a mixed day yesterday as most of it went well until I took my

dad to

> see a couple who work in a store in the afternoon.

[Guest guest]

Dear ette,

Is there anyplace else you can live besides that

abusive place? Abuse, in any form, is a burden that

makes all of our illnesses worse and does not do one

thing that is helpfull. I lived with it too long and

know how much better I feel away from it.

; )

Willow

--- ette Limegrover <palime22@...> wrote:

> Good evening everyone

>

> I had a mixed day yesterday as most of it went well

> until I took my dad to

> see a couple who work in a store in the afternoon. I

[Guest guest]

Mandy

 All of us know what your saying and also how mad you are and we get when some

one say we do not look that sick . well I seam to fire right back to them realy

so tellm me what dose sick look like what dose handicaped look like . can you

tell me how dose a heart attack look like before you have one or how about

cancer before you get taken fully down by it how do they look what about all the

illnesses that you can not see how do they look can you tell me so that I to may

also know how a person looks when there ill because i know I am but it seams

that your one of the few that just can not seam to see it or even to understand

that some times ilness is not some thing that is so simple you can just see it

and that if you can ot then it mist not be there !

 Yes i get fired up on stuff like that

 next I would talk to the doctor my self personaly and I would also go and talk

to my employment and labor department of the state and also talk to the people

incharge of the ADA compyance in your stat the ADA in case you do not know is

the americans with disabilitys act that was pasted to help stop discremanation

agaist americans with disabilitys and being ill with stills makes you just that

.. How this person is talking to you and treating you threating you with your job

and making you feel threatedn with your job is just that it is herasment and

that is a eleagle act under the ADA so look into it.

 now also if you do leave your job remeber this we most of the time have trouble

seeing it but when one door seams to close on us there is always another one

that opens whe just have to look for it and find it then walk threw it . seams

like a lot but it only sounds that way when found it is an easy walk to and

threw it . never give up and trun your anger into some thing good like fighting

for your rights your moms rights and even for other peoples rights in your state

you do not know because if this is being done to you .you can sure as hell bet

your not alone and that many more are getting the same all over your state . I

bet in your state there is a state advcute that works with people that have been

dicremanated under the ada and I would bet they have lawyers just for such

things and all you have to do is find them and talk to them and let them know

how your being treated how they make you feel and what is beeing said and then

let them go to work

for you .

any way just some of what i belive in and yes i am older but i was not much more

then you are now when i got pissed off and got into politics because i got mad

ad did some thing abut seeing some one done wrong . by they way your oldenoght

to vote so your also old enough for any state rep or politican to respect and

take action in behalf of you because your vote dose matter if you male some

noise and do not let them just pass you off trun that anger to good use it to

help your self out and get them pitbull dogsd on your side

hugs and warm thoughts to ya and go get them girl

the  rednecks

Marty & G.

the redneck's my space http://www.myspace.com/martyg58

 

 Stills ; An illness I know to well!

To learn about Stills  http://www.stillsdisease.org/stills_info

If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'.

 

In the old days a man who saved money was a miser; nowadays he's a wonder. 

~Author Unknown

 

" Taking my gun away because I might shoot someone is like cutting my tongue out

because I might yell `Fire!' in a crowded theater. "

-- Venetoklis

 

a government and its agents are under no general duty to provide public

services, such as police protection, to any particular individual citizen...

-- Warren v. District of Columbia, 444 A.2d 1 (D.C. App.181)

[Guest guest]

Mandy

 All of us know what your saying and also how mad you are and we get when some

one say we do not look that sick . well I seam to fire right back to them realy

so tellm me what dose sick look like what dose handicaped look like . can you

tell me how dose a heart attack look like before you have one or how about

cancer before you get taken fully down by it how do they look what about all the

illnesses that you can not see how do they look can you tell me so that I to may

also know how a person looks when there ill because i know I am but it seams

that your one of the few that just can not seam to see it or even to understand

that some times ilness is not some thing that is so simple you can just see it

and that if you can ot then it mist not be there !

 Yes i get fired up on stuff like that

 next I would talk to the doctor my self personaly and I would also go and talk

to my employment and labor department of the state and also talk to the people

incharge of the ADA compyance in your stat the ADA in case you do not know is

the americans with disabilitys act that was pasted to help stop discremanation

agaist americans with disabilitys and being ill with stills makes you just that

.. How this person is talking to you and treating you threating you with your job

and making you feel threatedn with your job is just that it is herasment and

that is a eleagle act under the ADA so look into it.

 now also if you do leave your job remeber this we most of the time have trouble

seeing it but when one door seams to close on us there is always another one

that opens whe just have to look for it and find it then walk threw it . seams

like a lot but it only sounds that way when found it is an easy walk to and

threw it . never give up and trun your anger into some thing good like fighting

for your rights your moms rights and even for other peoples rights in your state

you do not know because if this is being done to you .you can sure as hell bet

your not alone and that many more are getting the same all over your state . I

bet in your state there is a state advcute that works with people that have been

dicremanated under the ada and I would bet they have lawyers just for such

things and all you have to do is find them and talk to them and let them know

how your being treated how they make you feel and what is beeing said and then

let them go to work

for you .

any way just some of what i belive in and yes i am older but i was not much more

then you are now when i got pissed off and got into politics because i got mad

ad did some thing abut seeing some one done wrong . by they way your oldenoght

to vote so your also old enough for any state rep or politican to respect and

take action in behalf of you because your vote dose matter if you male some

noise and do not let them just pass you off trun that anger to good use it to

help your self out and get them pitbull dogsd on your side

hugs and warm thoughts to ya and go get them girl

the  rednecks

Marty & G.

the redneck's my space http://www.myspace.com/martyg58

 

 Stills ; An illness I know to well!

To learn about Stills  http://www.stillsdisease.org/stills_info

If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'.

 

In the old days a man who saved money was a miser; nowadays he's a wonder. 

~Author Unknown

 

" Taking my gun away because I might shoot someone is like cutting my tongue out

because I might yell `Fire!' in a crowded theater. "

-- Venetoklis

 

a government and its agents are under no general duty to provide public

services, such as police protection, to any particular individual citizen...

-- Warren v. District of Columbia, 444 A.2d 1 (D.C. App.181)

[Guest guest]

Mandy

 All of us know what your saying and also how mad you are and we get when some

one say we do not look that sick . well I seam to fire right back to them realy

so tellm me what dose sick look like what dose handicaped look like . can you

tell me how dose a heart attack look like before you have one or how about

cancer before you get taken fully down by it how do they look what about all the

illnesses that you can not see how do they look can you tell me so that I to may

also know how a person looks when there ill because i know I am but it seams

that your one of the few that just can not seam to see it or even to understand

that some times ilness is not some thing that is so simple you can just see it

and that if you can ot then it mist not be there !

 Yes i get fired up on stuff like that

 next I would talk to the doctor my self personaly and I would also go and talk

to my employment and labor department of the state and also talk to the people

incharge of the ADA compyance in your stat the ADA in case you do not know is

the americans with disabilitys act that was pasted to help stop discremanation

agaist americans with disabilitys and being ill with stills makes you just that

.. How this person is talking to you and treating you threating you with your job

and making you feel threatedn with your job is just that it is herasment and

that is a eleagle act under the ADA so look into it.

 now also if you do leave your job remeber this we most of the time have trouble

seeing it but when one door seams to close on us there is always another one

that opens whe just have to look for it and find it then walk threw it . seams

like a lot but it only sounds that way when found it is an easy walk to and

threw it . never give up and trun your anger into some thing good like fighting

for your rights your moms rights and even for other peoples rights in your state

you do not know because if this is being done to you .you can sure as hell bet

your not alone and that many more are getting the same all over your state . I

bet in your state there is a state advcute that works with people that have been

dicremanated under the ada and I would bet they have lawyers just for such

things and all you have to do is find them and talk to them and let them know

how your being treated how they make you feel and what is beeing said and then

let them go to work

for you .

any way just some of what i belive in and yes i am older but i was not much more

then you are now when i got pissed off and got into politics because i got mad

ad did some thing abut seeing some one done wrong . by they way your oldenoght

to vote so your also old enough for any state rep or politican to respect and

take action in behalf of you because your vote dose matter if you male some

noise and do not let them just pass you off trun that anger to good use it to

help your self out and get them pitbull dogsd on your side

hugs and warm thoughts to ya and go get them girl

the  rednecks

Marty & G.

the redneck's my space http://www.myspace.com/martyg58

 

 Stills ; An illness I know to well!

To learn about Stills  http://www.stillsdisease.org/stills_info

If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'.

 

In the old days a man who saved money was a miser; nowadays he's a wonder. 

~Author Unknown

 

" Taking my gun away because I might shoot someone is like cutting my tongue out

because I might yell `Fire!' in a crowded theater. "

-- Venetoklis

 

a government and its agents are under no general duty to provide public

services, such as police protection, to any particular individual citizen...

-- Warren v. District of Columbia, 444 A.2d 1 (D.C. App.181)

[Guest guest]

Hi Stan,

Or you can have ROFLMHO which is what I would do if I could after reading one of

your posts.

 

Happy Days Stan, keep them coming.

xxx

From: stanpfister@... <stanpfister@...>

Subject: Re: [ ] Re: venting

Date: Thursday, 23 April, 2009, 6:07 PM

LMAO?

Stan,

That is too funny, I need to remember that for when my hubby doesn't do his one

chore of taking out the trash. LMAO!!

>

> It all started last tuesday. It was raining like there was no tomorrow here in

maryland. I go to get into my truck and slip on the side step hit my wrist on

the door. I went to work anyway and started my normal day. By noon I was in some

serious pain but worked through it as I usually do with my RA. By 2pm my wrist

was swelled up, so I went upstairs to see my boss and let him know I needed to

go to the ER and get it checked out. He asked me to stay until 3pm so I did. I

got to the ER at 3:30pm and got lost in the system and didn't get home til

9:45pm. I had sprained my wrist. Well its been a week and the nurse said to wear

it for 2 or 3 days. Well, I wore it for the week because it had still been

bothering me. Well, I must have reinjuried it at work today during a training

session. This morning we had to train using the floor buffer and as I went to go

use it the first time I had my brace on and it was bothering me so I took it off

and tried again. I

was soooo stupid because now it hurts even worse and its even a pain to type

now. I guess I should go see my doc but can't afford the co-pay which is why I

ended up at the ER anyway. That was the second time for that this month. The

week before I had to go because I had a huge migraine and couldn't see for hours

and hours which landed me 2 days off of work. I have been off of the enbrel

since december. Doc told me it wasn't doing me any good but wants me to do a

wash because I've been on it for almost 3 years. My boyfriend who I thought was

sympathitic to my needs decides not to cook dinner tonight or walk his damn dog

which probably needs to go out and I'm not doing it again. I did it this

afternoon when I got home and almost got pulled across the damn sidewalk while

it wants to chase damn birds. Anyway, I hope everyone is having a pain free day.

>

> in typhoon maryland

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

But I'm crying on the inside! Well, actually it's more like pouting. I keep

telling my RA I don't want to have RA. I hate her, I hate her, I hate her! I

hate my GP too. He's the one that told me I have RA. I hate him, I hate him, I

hate him. It's all their fault!

Stan

Hi Stan,

Or you can have ROFLMHO which is what I would do if I could after reading one of

your posts.

 

Happy Days Stan, keep them coming.

xxx

From: stanpfister@... < stanpfister@... >

Subject: Re: [ ] Re: venting

Date: Thursday, 23 April, 2009, 6:07 PM

LMAO?

Stan,

That is too funny, I need to remember that for when my hubby doesn't do his one

chore of taking out the trash. LMAO!!

>

> It all started last tuesday. It was raining like there was no tomorrow here in

maryland. I go to get into my truck and slip on the side step hit my wrist on

the door. I went to work anyway and started my normal day. By noon I was in some

serious pain but worked through it as I usually do with my RA. By 2pm my wrist

was swelled up, so I went upstairs to see my boss and let him know I needed to

go to the ER and get it checked out. He asked me to stay until 3pm so I did. I

got to the ER at 3:30pm and got lost in the system and didn't get home til

9:45pm. I had sprained my wrist. Well its been a week and the nurse said to wear

it for 2 or 3 days. Well, I wore it for the week because it had still been

bothering me. Well, I must have reinjuried it at work today during a training

session. This morning we had to train using the floor buffer and as I went to go

use it the first time I had my brace on and it was bothering me so I took it off

and tried again. I

was soooo stupid because now it hurts even worse and its even a pain to type

now. I guess I should go see my doc but can't afford the co-pay which is why I

ended up at the ER anyway. That was the second time for that this month. The

week before I had to go because I had a huge migraine and couldn't see for hours

and hours which landed me 2 days off of work. I have been off of the enbrel

since december. Doc told me it wasn't doing me any good but wants me to do a

wash because I've been on it for almost 3 years. My boyfriend who I thought was

sympathitic to my needs decides not to cook dinner tonight or walk his damn dog

which probably needs to go out and I'm not doing it again. I did it this

afternoon when I got home and almost got pulled across the damn sidewalk while

it wants to chase damn birds. Anyway, I hope everyone is having a pain free day.

>

> in typhoon maryland

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

well, now to add to my vent from the other day. I went into work this morning

and had been running a contract now for several months. I was pulled off the

contract because some of my individuals were not doing the job right. I go

around and make sure things are taken care of before living each morning. Well,

according to them I'm not. So not only am I off of the contract, I have to work

evening shift. I have 2 small children so this is not really possible. My dd

is 6 and my son will be 4 soon. I'm needed home in the evenings. On top of

that they want me to work weekends which then I can't enjoy what I like to do

which is tractor pulls. I'm currently looking for another job. Wish me luck

Re: [ ] Re: venting

Date: Thursday, 23 April, 2009, 6:07 PM

LMAO?

Stan,

That is too funny, I need to remember that for when my hubby doesn't do his

one chore of taking out the trash. LMAO!!

>

>

>

> I've also found & Wesson to be excellent relationship counselors. They

tend to make things very clear from the beginning and you can always count on

the to get immediate and complete attention.

>

>

>

> Stan

>

> Seattle, Cloudy

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Hi - I'm so sorry you are having such a hard time with your wrist.

I have to wonder what kind of co-pay you're going to get with your ER visits? I

would think a co-pay to a PC or even a specialist would be less than the ER.

>

> Were you feeling as if the Enbrel had stopped working? Or were you feeling a

lot of side effects to make your Rheumy want to stop it?

>

> The boyfriend and his dog - stand your ground. If he doesn't want to cook

dinner (do you trade this chore?), then make something for yourself. Put your

foot down - if he's not going to care for HIS dog, then the dog should go. If he

disagrees, perhaps the boyfriend should go too. BUT - if he is normally

" sympathetic " to your needs, perhaps something is going on with him. Maybe its

time for a sit-down conversation - uninterrupted - to catch up on what all is

going on in each others' lives.

>

> Sometimes we get so busy with our individual responsibilities we forget that

our loved ones might be going through their own stuff.

>

> Please get that wrist checked out either by your Rheumy or an Orthopaedic..

Something doesn't sound right.....Doreen

>

> --- In @gro ups.com , " Massey " <renandstimp y3@>

wrote:

>

> It all started last tuesday. It was raining like there was no tomorrow here

in maryland. I go to get into my truck and slip on the side step hit my wrist on

the door. I went to work anyway and started my normal day. By noon I was in some

serious pain but worked through it as I usually do with my RA. By 2pm my wrist

was swelled up, so I went upstairs to see my boss and let him know I needed to

go to the ER and get it checked out. He asked me to stay until 3pm so I did. I

got to the ER at 3:30pm and got lost in the system and didn't get home til

9:45pm. I had sprained my wrist. Well its been a week and the nurse said to wear

it for 2 or 3 days. Well, I wore it for the week because it had still been

bothering me. Well, I must have reinjuried it at work today during a training

session. This morning we had to train using the floor buffer and as I went to go

use it the first time I had my brace on and it was bothering me so I took it off

and tried again. I

was soooo stupid because now it hurts even worse and its even a pain to type

now. I guess I should go see my doc but can't afford the co-pay which is why I

ended up at the ER anyway. That was the second time for that this month. The

week before I had to go because I had a huge migraine and couldn't see for hours

and hours which landed me 2 days off of work. I have been off of the enbrel

since december. Doc told me it wasn't doing me any good but wants me to do a

wash because I've been on it for almost 3 years. My boyfriend who I thought was

sympathitic to my needs decides not to cook dinner tonight or walk his damn dog

which probably needs to go out and I'm not doing it again. I did it this

afternoon when I got home and almost got pulled across the damn sidewalk while

it wants to chase damn birds. Anyway, I hope everyone is having a pain free day.

>

> in typhoon maryland

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Sounds to me that they are trying to run you off. If you quit it leaves them

with no claim from you for discrimination. You need to find a union rep or

equal to help be a voice for you. When I was in the early stages of RA, I

was promised that no matter how bad it gets, as long as I could answer the

phone, I was safe and would keep my job. About 10 months later, I was 'laid

off' because the job was being phased out. A few weeks later, one of the men

that worked for me was working in my job. It was too late by then.

Dennis in eastexas

On Fri, Apr 24, 2009 at 1:24 PM, Massey

<renandstimpy3@...>wrote:

>

>

> well, now to add to my vent from the other day. I went into work this

> morning and had been running a contract now for several months. I was pulled

> off the contract because some of my individuals were not doing the job

> right. I go around and make sure things are taken care of before living each

> morning. Well, according to them I'm not. So not only am I off of the

> contract, I have to work evening shift. I have 2 small children so this is

> not really possible. My dd is 6 and my son will be 4 soon. I'm needed home

> in the evenings. On top of that they want me to work weekends which then I

> can't enjoy what I like to do which is tractor pulls. I'm currently looking

> for another job. Wish me luck

>

>

>

>

> Re: [ ] Re: venting OT

>

> But I'm crying on the inside! Well, actually it's more like pouting. I keep

> telling my RA I don't want to have RA. I hate her, I hate her, I hate her! I

> hate my GP too. He's the one that told me I have RA. I hate him, I hate him,

> I hate him. It's all their fault!

>

> Stan

>

[Guest guest]

I have decided to look for another agency to work for. One of the things about

finding another job I don't have to devalge my disability. I will be at my

current agency for a year on the 1st of may. The have been jacking me around

since I got there last year changing my contracts and putting me on night shift

once before. I told them the last time they did it that I needed to be on days

because of my children and I could not work weekends and they agreed to put me

back on days when the last contract ended and said they would keep me on days.

Well, they are going back on what they have said. Anyway, I found another

position in another company doing the same as what I do now. So lets hope that I

can get it and get away from the evil from this agency.

Re: [ ] Re: venting OT

>

> But I'm crying on the inside! Well, actually it's more like pouting. I keep

> telling my RA I don't want to have RA. I hate her, I hate her, I hate her! I

> hate my GP too. He's the one that told me I have RA. I hate him, I hate him,

> I hate him. It's all their fault!

>

> Stan

>

[Guest guest]

Congratulations on the new job, . I pray this one is all that you hope

for and need.....Doreen

I have decided to look for another agency to work for. One of the things about

finding another job I don't have to devalge my disability. I will be at my

current agency for a year on the 1st of may. The have been jacking me around

since I got there last year changing my contracts and putting me on night shift

once before. I told them the last time they did it that I needed to be on days

because of my children and I could not work weekends and they agreed to put me

back on days when the last contract ended and said they would keep me on days.

Well, they are going back on what they have said. Anyway, I found another

position in another company doing the same as what I do now. So lets hope that I

can get it and get away from the evil from this agency.