Re: Thanks guys! (Operation Update)

[Guest guest]

Willisa,

I am so glad to hear your surgery is over and it sounds like you got through

it pretty well (considering). The gift of the roses was so sweet and I think

the idea of drying the petals and keeping in the silver box is just, well,

wonderful. I know many of us have searched for ways to memorialize our lost

ones. Remember to take good care of yourself throughout the healing process.

It takes time both physically and emotionally. Thanks for updating us on your

surgery, and keep in touch.

Dana

[Guest guest]

Willisa,

I'm glad to hear that your surgery went well (as well as can be expected

under the circumstances anyway). It sounds like dp put a lot of thought into

the roses and the box. I'm glad that we were able to offer you some support

during this time. Remember, you can always post here for anything! You can

also email me privately if you ever want to... Amy11679@...

Amy

*married to my army man,

*mommy to...

~ 6/18/97

Samara~ 6/30/98 (ectopic pregnancy)

Noah~ 7/16/99 (ectopic pregnancy)

[Guest guest]

Willisa,

How wonderful of your dp! I'm glad he was able to understand how

traumatic and painful losing a baby is and take part in memoralizing

the baby.

It sounds like your physical recovery is going well. Will you

actually be in the ballet concert? I was up and moving around a few

days after my surgery, but I never would have been able to do

something like that (maybe I'm just a wimp).

-Amy R

[Guest guest]

Willsa,

I'm glad the surgery went well and you are on the road to a " physical "

recovery. But, I just wish you'd had enough strength and not been in such

pain to have punched the Dr. said that rude thing to you right in the nose!

As if he thought that was comforting to you!!!

Take Care,

[Guest guest]

Willisa,

I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. That is a

wonderful way to remember the baby, with the little silver box and the

roses. I have to tell you that I was up out of bed the next day, so

don't feel guilty about recovering quickly, you are lucky in that

respect. I know when I came out of post-op and was moved to my room I

was a wreck too. I cried because it hurt so bad and my Dad and step-mom

were there with my dh and they had just found out that I was pg, so a

complete suprise to them too, and I was flipping out asking for

drugs...oops. Again I am so sorry for your loss. Post whenever you

can.

Vicki

wrosburn@... wrote:

>

> Dear all,

>

> First things first I want to thank all of you for saving me. I

> generally thought I was going crazy there for a little while. THanks

> you Krista but did get quite a few replies to my email, which all

> proved Im not crazy!

>

> The surgrey went find and Im finally out of bed (3 days later whats

> with that???) Im emotionally better then I thought I'd be. I ciried the

> whole day of the operation (when I wasnt drugged to sleep), I woke up

> screaming and asking " what happened to the baby? " THe nurses got me a

> doctors (not MY doctor) who told me there was no baby that the " fetus "

> (ahh the f word) was only a couple a weeks into " devolpment " . I tell ya

> if I wasnt in complete agony I would have punched him.

>

> Wayne (dp) brought me a dozen red roses with a white rose in the

> middle and a little silver box with " Zachrie Iris " ingraved on the top.

> Im going to dry the white rose petals and keep them in the box.

>

> I only have two cuts and get my stiches out tomorrow (before my ballet

> concert!! Yikes!)

>

> Thats all for now I just wanted to let you all know how much you guys

> have helped without even trying!

>

> Thanks a ton

>

> Blessed Be

>

> Willisa

>

> Blessed Be Zacharie Iris Avard who was sent lovingly to Heaven

> 1st December 2000

> " UnExpected is not UnLoved "

>

[Guest guest]

Willisa,

I am glad your surgury went ok. I think what that Dr said is horrible!My EP

was in March '00 and I just recently suffered a m/c at 6 1/2 weeks so I am

deep in the throws of grieving once again. We can get through this all

together. ((HUGS)) Kim ttc #1, 5 yrs

mom to angel babies,

Christain (12-31-99) early m/c

(3-11-00)EP, metho

unknown(11-7-00) m/c

[Guest guest]

Hi Willisa. Glad the surgery went well and you are up and about.

Try to take it easy though. Oh my, your dh is a dear, you are very

lucky. I hope for a speedy recovery for you both physically and

emotionally.

Take care,

[Guest guest]

willsa

i am glad you are doing well. try to take it easy.

jeanette

[Guest guest]

Dear Willisa,

I hope you are doing okay.Your email sounds like you are.I'm glad your

surgery went well(as well as can be expected)As for the doctor I wish you

could have punched him.That was very rude.I consider my " FETUS " -a baby.Me

and my sister came to the conclusion that doctors,well not all doctors,

don't have very much sense.Maybe plenty of book sense,but no common

sense.And i like the rose petals idea.I'm glad you found this

group,hopefully i'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

Tina

>From: wrosburn@...

>Reply-To: ectopicpregnancyegroups

>To: ectopicpregnancyegroups

>Subject: Thanks guys! (Operation Update)

>Date: Mon, 04 Dec 2000 22:23:51 +1100

>

>

>Dear all,

>

>First things first I want to thank all of you for saving me. I

>generally thought I was going crazy there for a little while. THanks

>you Krista but did get quite a few replies to my email, which all

>proved Im not crazy!

>

> The surgrey went find and Im finally out of bed (3 days later whats

>with that???) Im emotionally better then I thought I'd be. I ciried the

>whole day of the operation (when I wasnt drugged to sleep), I woke up

>screaming and asking " what happened to the baby? " THe nurses got me a

>doctors (not MY doctor) who told me there was no baby that the " fetus "

>(ahh the f word) was only a couple a weeks into " devolpment " . I tell ya

>if I wasnt in complete agony I would have punched him.

>

> Wayne (dp) brought me a dozen red roses with a white rose in the

>middle and a little silver box with " Zachrie Iris " ingraved on the top.

>Im going to dry the white rose petals and keep them in the box.

>

>I only have two cuts and get my stiches out tomorrow (before my ballet

>concert!! Yikes!)

>

>Thats all for now I just wanted to let you all know how much you guys

>have helped without even trying!

>

>Thanks a ton

>

>Blessed Be

>

>Willisa

>

>Blessed Be Zacharie Iris Avard who was sent lovingly to Heaven

>1st December 2000

> " UnExpected is not UnLoved "

>

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