Major Vent!!!!!(loss ment)

November 10, 2000

I am so furious I can berely think straight! This morning around 6:30 or so

my phone rang. was already gone so I knew there were only a few

people who would call this early. Either him, an emergency or his grandma

has a habbit of calling early.I dodn't answer the phone, i figured if it

were important they'd call back.

When I got up I looked at the phone number and it was his grandma. I

didn't listen to the message b/c I knew it would upset me. Some background-

My MIL is one of four kids. 3 girls and a boy. One girl is metally

challanged and in a home and my mil's other sister lives with her and her

brother lives about a half hour away. Well for some strange reason

gets called to do anything and everything! To the point that when we first

got married and he was working full time and going to school full time he

would spend our weekends doing whatever his mother and grandmother would

have him do.His grandmother lives on a large amount of property and gandpa

is sick and in a home so mows the grass. But no matter the problem

they call . His mom has him constantly assembling things she has

bought. Oh when I talked to her last night she said to tell him he needs to

get rid of her freezer that doesn't work.

You would have to know my dh's history to know he is a work aholic. He

is currently working a full and part time job. Even though as recently as a

year and a half ago I was ready to leave over him always being gone. He has

me over a barrall b/c I am not working now and we are behind on bills.

Anyway I finally listen to the message nad it was grandma wanting him to

run out and fix something! (he has two jobs and we just lost our baby Tues

night!!!!!!) We haven't talked to her since we lost teh bab and she didn't

say she was sorry or nothing. I almost picked up the phone and called her

and told her off! Ihave had it with is family. I am sorry this is so long, I

hope you made it through it. Kim

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