Guest guest Posted January 21, 2009 Report Share Posted January 21, 2009 Congratulations on severing the bonds. You are about to start feeling free. New beginnings can be blessings. When you live with verbal abuse you die in little piec es. You will feel serenity once more. Raniolo From: Barbara <bcreedon@...> Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone!!!!!! Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2009, 12:53 PM I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things to a storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from the house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and 2 nights in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. Who would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of you so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new house. My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive Friday. I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with me. Thank God he was here!!!! Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some pain free days. God Bless you all. Hugs, Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2009 Report Share Posted January 22, 2009 Thanks for the update, Barbara. That's all very good news. Not an MD On Wed, Jan 21, 2009 at 11:53 AM, Barbara <bcreedon@...> wrote: > > I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. > > Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things to a > storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. > > It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore > verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from the > house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and 2 nights > in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! > > I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. Who > would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! > > My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of you > so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. > > I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new house. > > My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive Friday. > > I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with me. > Thank God he was here!!!! > > Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some pain > free days. God Bless you all. > > Hugs, > > Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2009 Report Share Posted January 22, 2009 Good to hear from you, Barbara. Sorry things got so ugly with husband. May you continue to find yourself, rediscover your peace and enjoy your family without the constraints. Its a miracle it only took 2 days and nights before you were able to get out of bed again. My body hurts just thinking about all you had to do before your son left. You are blessed with a wonderful son and a generous friend. Take care - we look forward to hearing from you again soon.....Doreen > > > I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. > > Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things > to a storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. > > It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore > verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from > the house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and > 2 nights in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! > > I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. > Who would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! > > My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of > you so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. > > I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new > house. > > My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive > Friday. > > I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with > me. Thank God he was here!!!! > > Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some > pain free days. God Bless you all. > > Hugs, > > Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 Barbara; I am so sorry you had to leave your home sooner than you had planned. I know this is something that was necessary for you to do. You don't deserve this pain of verbal abuse. Life will look up sooner than you realize. You won't even know it's happening when it starts. You will be on your merry way, doing life's little necessities and it will hit you like a bunch of falling rose petals. LIFE IS GREAT AFTER MAN. ( no offense guys) Hope your having pain free days. I think you are such a kind sweet person. I can't wait to see you texting on here again. . Your friend Clora ************************************************** From: Barbara <bcreedon@...> Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone!!!!!! Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2009, 12:53 PM I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things to a storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from the house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and 2 nights in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. Who would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of you so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new house. My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive Friday. I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with me. Thank God he was here!!!! Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some pain free days. God Bless you all. Hugs, Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Hi Clora: Glad you hear from you, and hope all is well with you. I do know that life will get better than it has been. My loving family and loving friends have been so wonderful and supportive to me. I am looking forward to a better future, no stress, etc. The stress is what did me in. I could not take anymore. Period. I am at the library again, but using my PC. I am trying to catch up on all my e-mails, etc. LOTS of e-mails!!!!!! I am feeling good, and my RA was bad during the cold here in Florida, but all is fine now. Today is 75, and glorious!!!! Have a great day, and God Bless you. Hugs, Barbara > > From: Barbara bcreedon@... > Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone!!!!!! > > Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2009, 12:53 PM > > > > > > > > I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. > > Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things to a > storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. > > It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore > verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from the > house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and 2 nights > in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! > > I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. Who > would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! > > My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of you > so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. > > I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new house. > > My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive Friday. > > I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with me. > Thank God he was here!!!! > > Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some pain > free days. God Bless you all. > > Hugs, > > Barbara > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Hi Doreen: So nice to hear from you. I am doing good, just taking one day at a time. It has been so much better staying at my friend Gail's house. Peace and quiet, just what I need. Can't wait to move into the new house. My son and family returned here to Florida, had to put all their things into storage also. But I am glad they are all here, safe and sound. We are all very anxious to move into the new house. This bank has one speed.................SLOW. Hope you are feeling better after the cold weather. Glad it is 75 today and sunny!!! I will write again when I return to the library. I miss being on line, and being in contact with you all here. God Bless you. Hugs, Barbara > > > > > > I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. > > > > Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things > > to a storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. > > > > It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore > > verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from > > the house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and > > 2 nights in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! > > > > I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. > > Who would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! > > > > My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of > > you so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. > > > > I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new > > house. > > > > My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive > > Friday. > > > > I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with > > me. Thank God he was here!!!! > > > > Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some > > pain free days. God Bless you all. > > > > Hugs, > > > > Barbara > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Hi : Your e-mail was very uplifting for me. Thank you. Hope all is good with you. I am doing better each day. Thank God for that. Just catching up on some posts today. I will go to the library another day. This chair is so HARD, I have to get off it!!!!! God Bless you. Hugs, Baarbar > > From: Barbara bcreedon@... > Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone!!!!!! > > Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2009, 12:53 PM > > > > > > > > I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. > > Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things to a > storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. > > It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore > verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from the > house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and 2 nights > in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! > > I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. Who > would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! > > My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of you > so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. > > I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new house. > > My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive Friday. > > I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with me. > Thank God he was here!!!! > > Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some pain > free days. God Bless you all. > > Hugs, > > Barbara > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Barbara and group; Woo hoo Barbara, What wonderful weather to have when the rest of us has snow. So glad to hear from you. Wow you got the life. Sunbathing and you have the world now. Enjoy as God wanted you too. Your pal Clora From: Barbara <bcreedon@...> Subject: [ ] Re: Hi Everyone!!!!!! Date: Monday, January 26, 2009, 12:54 PM Hi Clora: Glad you hear from you, and hope all is well with you. I do know that life will get better than it has been. My loving family and loving friends have been so wonderful and supportive to me. I am looking forward to a better future, no stress, etc. The stress is what did me in. I could not take anymore. Period. I am at the library again, but using my PC. I am trying to catch up on all my e-mails, etc. LOTS of e-mails!!!!! ! I am feeling good, and my RA was bad during the cold here in Florida, but all is fine now. Today is 75, and glorious!!!! Have a great day, and God Bless you. Hugs, Barbara > > From: Barbara bcreedon@... > Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone!!!! !! > @gro ups.com > Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2009, 12:53 PM > > > > > > > > I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. > > Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things to a > storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. > > It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore > verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from the > house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and 2 nights > in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! > > I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. Who > would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! > > My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of you > so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. > > I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new house. > > My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive Friday. > > I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with me. > Thank God he was here!!!! > > Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some pain > free days. God Bless you all. > > Hugs, > > Barbara > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Hi Clora: Thanks for your nice post to me. Always happy to hear from you. This weather makes me feel so good!!! Glad my RA is quiet. I am amazed that it didn't flare with all I have been going through. Wishing you pain free days. Hugs, Barbara > > > > From: Barbara bcreedon@ > > Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone!!!! !! > > @gro ups.com > > Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2009, 12:53 PM > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am at the library, and wanted to keep you all posted. > > > > Things got really awful with my husband, so I moved all my things to a > > storage unit, and am now staying with my friend Gail. > > > > It has been so awful and so stressful, and I couldn't take anymore > > verbal abuse. It took my son and I 12 hours to move my things from the > > house to the storage unit. Needless to say, I spent 2 days and 2 > nights > > in bed. I thought my body was all done!!!! > > > > I am feeling much better now, and happy I am out of all that mess. Who > > would have thought things would end like this. Not me!!!! > > > > My RA is quiet, and I am very thankful for that. I think of all of you > > so often, and will be glad to be back on line soon. > > > > I am just waiting for a passing date so we can move into the new > house. > > > > My son and family left today from to N.H., and they will arrive > Friday. > > > > I don't know what I would have ever done without my son here with me. > > Thank God he was here!!!! > > > > Hoping and praying everyone is doing o.k, and hopefully having some > pain > > free days. God Bless you all. > > > > Hugs, > > > > Barbara > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2009 Report Share Posted February 1, 2009 Barbara and group; YVW Barbara, no flare ups cause we are all praying for you .....................Clora ***************************************************************** > > Hi Clora: > > Thanks for your nice post to me. Always happy to hear from you. > > This weather makes me feel so good!!! Glad my RA is quiet. I am amazed > that it didn't flare with all I have been going through. > > Wishing you pain free days. > > Hugs, > > Barbara > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2009 Report Share Posted February 1, 2009 and group; I have decided to have the Gastric bypass done. I am not afraid of surgery. I am desperate to lose weight. With all my meds I have continaully gain weight for 3 years. I weigh 326 pounds. My lung doctor said my lungs are shriking from the weight. The RA is under control except the weight makes it hard to get around.. I have flare ups like everyone else. The weight gain is worse than all my medical conditions since it keeps me from doing the healthy things I need to do. Only those that are over weight knows how hard it is to lose weight when they have so many other deseases. I go to a meeting next month to have everything involved explained to me. The arthritis is worse due to the obesity. I take humira injections every 2 weeks, sulfazaline, plaqunil, lyrcia for fibro. Has anyone done a bypass before? I am to over weight for the belt. I talk to several people that had it done and they were doing real good on the gastric bypass. I am only 5 foot 1 inch tall. If anyone knows anything about gastric by pass please let me know. Thanks gentle hugs Clora ************************************************************** > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2009 Report Share Posted February 1, 2009 Clora, I willkeep you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you are successful. Are you smoking? Raniolo From: CLORA <clora4jesus@...> Subject: [ ] Re: Hi Everyone!!!!!! Date: Sunday, February 1, 2009, 9:50 AM and group; I have decided to have the Gastric bypass done. I am not afraid of surgery. I am desperate to lose weight. With all my meds I have continaully gain weight for 3 years. I weigh 326 pounds. My lung doctor said my lungs are shriking from the weight. The RA is under control except the weight makes it hard to get around.. I have flare ups like everyone else. The weight gain is worse than all my medical conditions since it keeps me from doing the healthy things I need to do. Only those that are over weight knows how hard it is to lose weight when they have so many other deseases. I go to a meeting next month to have everything involved explained to me. The arthritis is worse due to the obesity. I take humira injections every 2 weeks, sulfazaline, plaqunil, lyrcia for fibro. Has anyone done a bypass before? I am to over weight for the belt. I talk to several people that had it done and they were doing real good on the gastric bypass. I am only 5 foot 1 inch tall. If anyone knows anything about gastric by pass please let me know. Thanks gentle hugs Clora ************ ********* ********* ********* ********* ********* ***** > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2009 Report Share Posted February 1, 2009 Clora, just make sure you do your homework before having this done. I know from my diabetes group that there are gastric bypass groups to join. Check and see if you can find one on . Sue On Feb 1, 2009, at 9:50 AM, CLORA wrote: > and group; > > I have decided to have the Gastric bypass done. I am not afraid of > surgery. I am desperate to lose weight. With all my meds I have > continaully gain weight for 3 years. I weigh 326 pounds. My lung > doctor said my lungs are shriking from the weight. The RA is under > control except the weight makes it hard to get around.. I have flare > ups like everyone else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2009 Report Share Posted February 2, 2009 In a message dated 2/2/2009 4:39:35 P.M. Central Standard Time, clora4jesus@... writes: Has anyone done a bypass before? I am to over weight for the belt. I talk to several people that had it done and they were doing real good on the gastric bypass. I am only 5 foot 1 inch tall. If anyone knows anything about gastric by pass please let me know. Thanks >> I know several people who have had it done. But if they overate before the surgery, they wanted to continue to overeat after the surgery. Some of them didn't lose much and some stretched their surgeries and gained it back. it all depends on how much you eat. If you are an emotional eater and overeat, you may need to take care of that problem for the surgery to work. dd **************Great Deals on Dell Laptops. Starting at $499. (http://pr.atwola.com/promoclk/100000075x1217883258x1201191827/aol?redir=http://\ ad.doubleclick. net/clk;211531132;33070124;e) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2009 Report Share Posted February 2, 2009 Best of luck to you Clora. ________________________________ From: CLORA <clora4jesus@...> Sent: Sunday, February 1, 2009 9:50:10 AM Subject: [ ] Re: Hi Everyone!!!!!! and group; I have decided to have the Gastric bypass done. I am not afraid of surgery. I am desperate to lose weight. With all my meds I have continaully gain weight for 3 years. I weigh 326 pounds. My lung doctor said my lungs are shriking from the weight. The RA is under control except the weight makes it hard to get around.. I have flare ups like everyone else. The weight gain is worse than all my medical conditions since it keeps me from doing the healthy things I need to do. Only those that are over weight knows how hard it is to lose weight when they have so many other deseases. I go to a meeting next month to have everything involved explained to me. The arthritis is worse due to the obesity. I take humira injections every 2 weeks, sulfazaline, plaqunil, lyrcia for fibro. Has anyone done a bypass before? I am to over weight for the belt. I talk to several people that had it done and they were doing real good on the gastric bypass. I am only 5 foot 1 inch tall. If anyone knows anything about gastric by pass please let me know. Thanks gentle hugs Clora ************ ********* ********* ********* ********* ********* ***** > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2009 Report Share Posted February 4, 2009 Hi Clora: I know the by-pass is a good thing to do. I know 2 people who had it done 2 years ago, and they are very happy with it. Have lost lots of weight, and feel so much better. Life is now good for them. As always, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will write again when I get on line. Miss you, and all the group. I do get the posts, and read them all!!!!! God Bless you, and take care of yourself. Remember I care about you. Hugs, Barbara --- In , Bloomquist <skaye81@...> wrote: > > Best of luck to you Clora. > > > > > > > ________________________________ > From: CLORA clora4jesus@... > > Sent: Sunday, February 1, 2009 9:50:10 AM > Subject: [ ] Re: Hi Everyone!!!!!! > > > and group; > > I have decided to have the Gastric bypass done. I am not afraid of > surgery. I am desperate to lose weight. With all my meds I have > continaully gain weight for 3 years. I weigh 326 pounds. My lung > doctor said my lungs are shriking from the weight. The RA is under > control except the weight makes it hard to get around.. I have flare > ups like everyone else. > > The weight gain is worse than all my medical conditions since it > keeps me from doing the healthy things I need to do. Only those > that are over weight knows how hard it is to lose weight when they > have so many other deseases. > > I go to a meeting next month to have everything involved explained to > me. The arthritis is worse due to the obesity. I take humira > injections every 2 weeks, sulfazaline, plaqunil, lyrcia for fibro. > > Has anyone done a bypass before? I am to over weight for the belt. > I talk to several people that had it done and they were doing real > good on the gastric bypass. I am only 5 foot 1 inch tall. If anyone > knows anything about gastric by pass please let me know. Thanks > > gentle hugs > Clora > > ************ ********* ********* ********* ********* ********* ***** > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2009 Report Share Posted February 4, 2009 Hi Clora and everyone: Thanks for all your support and prayers. They are working!!! I will write when I get to the library again God Bless you all. Hugs, Barbara > > Barbara and group; > > YVW Barbara, no flare ups cause we are all praying for > you .....................Clora > > ***************************************************************** > > > > Hi Clora: > > > > Thanks for your nice post to me. Always happy to hear from you. > > > > This weather makes me feel so good!!! Glad my RA is quiet. I am > amazed > > that it didn't flare with all I have been going through. > > > > Wishing you pain free days. > > > > Hugs, > > > > Barbara > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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