Guest guest Posted March 9, 2011 Report Share Posted March 9, 2011 Angll Please take your energy and go to the police about your stalker. Some of these guys are just plain nuts. Please make it a priority for your safety. With that off your mind you can think clearly and reconcile your other problems. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2011 Report Share Posted March 9, 2011 Call the cops for the stalker and call a tax preparer for your taxes maybe? Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2011 Report Share Posted March 10, 2011 Angll, What state are you in? There are various ways that disability works in the system. I am with the OPERS system. I use VITA, a volunteer organization that does taxes for people, not only disabled but low income, seniors & etc. They handle Federal, State & local tax codes. There are other organizations that do this also. Contact a senior center near you, they should be able to tell you who to contact. Some of these will also come to your home should you not be able to get to theirs. I also worked at the local police department. When it comes to stalkers they are treated aggressively, or should be, by the police, prosecutors & court system. They will come to your home, if needed, to take the report and also advise you on how to get a Temporary Protection Order, against the stalker, at no cost to you, only some of your time. You should do this as soon as possible. People that stalk are, usually, not very nice people!! tomg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2011 Report Share Posted March 11, 2011 Thank you for kind informative text. I also am on OPERS, do you have a number of agency I can contact for assistance? I get overwhelmed and put things off sometimes do to getting to stressed and tense which starts then flair up process.  Unfortunately, I have not had success w contacting our police here. They did come to my home twice but the first time the female officer was rude and when I told her he even had nude photos of me she said I must have posed nude for him at some time! I was shocked. I never have done that in my life. I'm not judging anyone who does, I just never have, it's not for me; but my stalker either has a camera in my apt or took them by manipulating my phone. He made a point of letting me know he was because he sent me pictures he had taken, and some were of me asleep! The second time the police came, the male officer was nice and said it was identity theft and that someone would contact me re how to deal w it, but no one ever did. I was so stressed I was in a flair up in bed for over 6 months. It's hard to even write about it. I just got a new security program for my computer to see if it helps and am getting rid of my phone. I don't know how much it will help. I did change my locks, and try to be more careful re my trsh. He's had someone go through it before. How do I know? At my trash dumpster the shopping bag I used for the trash was hanging from the top and my regular trash bag was placed on a hook in the front. He seems to enjoy letting me know " his power " re what he can do to violate me. No, stalkers usually aren't nice people, he is very angery and frightening. He once told me he doesn't get mad, he gets even.  a tired ladeyangll From: Tomg <tgantzler@...> Subject: [ ] Re: Disabled on PERS, how to deal w the IRS Date: Thursday, March 10, 2011, 2:41 PM  Angll, What state are you in? There are various ways that disability works in the system. I am with the OPERS system. I use VITA, a volunteer organization that does taxes for people, not only disabled but low income, seniors & etc. They handle Federal, State & local tax codes. There are other organizations that do this also. Contact a senior center near you, they should be able to tell you who to contact. Some of these will also come to your home should you not be able to get to theirs. I also worked at the local police department. When it comes to stalkers they are treated aggressively, or should be, by the police, prosecutors & court system. They will come to your home, if needed, to take the report and also advise you on how to get a Temporary Protection Order, against the stalker, at no cost to you, only some of your time. You should do this as soon as possible. People that stalk are, usually, not very nice people!! tomg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2011 Report Share Posted March 11, 2011 Tx! Â ladeyangll From: phyllis crubaugh <phylliscrubaugh@...> Subject: Re: [ ] Disabled on PERS, how to deal w the IRS Date: Wednesday, March 9, 2011, 2:15 PM Â Call the cops for the stalker and call a tax preparer for your taxes maybe? Â Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2011 Report Share Posted March 11, 2011 The whole stalker thing has got to stop. If the two officers did nothing you will have to take it a step further. Do you have a friend who could be with you when you talk to the police. It sometimes help to have someone there with you and can step in if you need them. This is very dangerous. The first officer is just a bad police officer the second was just not informed . This is not identity theft it is definately stalking. Please please contact the police again but insist on speaking to someone who is higher rank. Call the regular number not 911 and dont wait until he comes back. You do not need to live in fear. There are also other agencies that deal with this kind of thing . If you want to email me and tell me where you live I can look into it and get back to you. Please do this as you cant get your health straight until this awful person is put away. There are very strict stalking laws in this country. They just have to be applied. Carol [ ] Re: Disabled on PERS, how to deal w the IRS Date: Thursday, March 10, 2011, 2:41 PM Angll, What state are you in? There are various ways that disability works in the system. I am with the OPERS system. I use VITA, a volunteer organization that does taxes for people, not only disabled but low income, seniors & etc. They handle Federal, State & local tax codes. There are other organizations that do this also. Contact a senior center near you, they should be able to tell you who to contact. Some of these will also come to your home should you not be able to get to theirs. I also worked at the local police department. When it comes to stalkers they are treated aggressively, or should be, by the police, prosecutors & court system. They will come to your home, if needed, to take the report and also advise you on how to get a Temporary Protection Order, against the stalker, at no cost to you, only some of your time. You should do this as soon as possible. People that stalk are, usually, not very nice people!! tomg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2011 Report Share Posted March 11, 2011 Wow, I would be scared to death. You definitely need to contact the police again. Perhaps, go into the police department, instead of calling them to you. There are agencies in CO that help you with this type of situation, check into this in your state. I wish you well. Heidi in Denver ________________________________ From: Angll Nyte <ladeyangllfree@...> Sent: Fri, March 11, 2011 2:34:47 AM Subject: Re: [ ] Re: Disabled on PERS, how to deal w the IRS Thank you for kind informative text. I also am on OPERS, do you have a number of agency I can contact for assistance? I get overwhelmed and put things off sometimes do to getting to stressed and tense which starts then flair up process. Unfortunately, I have not had success w contacting our police here. They did come to my home twice but the first time the female officer was rude and when I told her he even had nude photos of me she said I must have posed nude for him at some time! I was shocked. I never have done that in my life. I'm not judging anyone who does, I just never have, it's not for me; but my stalker either has a camera in my apt or took them by manipulating my phone. He made a point of letting me know he was because he sent me pictures he had taken, and some were of me asleep! The second time the police came, the male officer was nice and said it was identity theft and that someone would contact me re how to deal w it, but no one ever did. I was so stressed I was in a flair up in bed for over 6 months. It's hard to even write about it. I just got a new security program for my computer to see if it helps and am getting rid of my phone. I don't know how much it will help. I did change my locks, and try to be more careful re my trsh. He's had someone go through it before. How do I know? At my trash dumpster the shopping bag I used for the trash was hanging from the top and my regular trash bag was placed on a hook in the front. He seems to enjoy letting me know " his power " re what he can do to violate me. No, stalkers usually aren't nice people, he is very angery and frightening. He once told me he doesn't get mad, he gets even. a tired ladeyangll Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2011 Report Share Posted March 11, 2011 Angll, Here are a couple state agencies to contact, or look into on the web, that should be able to help you out. They should at least be able to direct you to someone in your area. : http://aging.ohio.gov/home/ : http://www.gcpd.ohio.gov/ This is the web address for the attorney generals office. They have in the past been very aggressive about stalking and will help you as much as possible. There is an 800 number you can call to speak to a person about it. : http://www.ohioattorneygeneral.gov/ I hope this helps you. tomg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2011 Report Share Posted March 14, 2011 Thank you so much! I will check them both out later today. Â ladeyangll From: Tomg <tgantzler@...> Subject: [ ] Re: Disabled on PERS, how to deal w the IRS Date: Friday, March 11, 2011, 4:07 PM Â Angll, Here are a couple state agencies to contact, or look into on the web, that should be able to help you out. They should at least be able to direct you to someone in your area. : http://aging.ohio.gov/home/ : http://www.gcpd.ohio.gov/ This is the web address for the attorney generals office. They have in the past been very aggressive about stalking and will help you as much as possible. There is an 800 number you can call to speak to a person about it. : http://www.ohioattorneygeneral.gov/ I hope this helps you. tomg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2011 Report Share Posted March 14, 2011 I was scared to death for a long time. My pychiatrist had warned me but I didn't take his advice re how careful I needed to be and some terrible things happened. I think my anxiety over it all may have made the police think I was emotionally unstable, I need to try to be calm and have as much detail as possible to give to them. I also didn't undertand how he was doing things and now I do so that will help me in dealing w the police. It's a shame they don't seem to be very adept at dealing w stalking victims here. Someone suggested that I contact the Attorney General's office here so I'm going to follow up on that.Thank you for caring. Have a nice day. Â ladeyangll Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2011 Report Share Posted March 14, 2011 Thank you Carol. Â ladeyangll Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2011 Report Share Posted March 14, 2011 Angll, I will be thinking of you and your safety, I am so sorry you are having to deal with all of this,. ________________________________ From: Angll Nyte <ladeyangllfree@...> Sent: Mon, March 14, 2011 5:17:23 AM Subject: Re: [ ] Re: Disabled on PERS, how to deal w the IRS Â Thank you Carol. Â ladeyangll Reply to sender | Reply to group | Reply via web post | Start a New Topic Messages in this topic (12) Recent Activity: * New Members 8 Visit Your Group Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 Hi, I'm on PERS in Ohio and have been for about 10 yrs. I have medicare too, you have to apply for medicare, it will take up to 24 months for you to get benefits if you qualify. Qualifying for medicare is similar to qualifying for SS, you may not qualify but it's worth a try. I'm not sure what you mean by qualifying as disabled on your taxes, I always check that box on my taxes, all you need is a Dr's letter stating you are disabled, your PERS eligibility letter should suffice. Just because you qualify under IRS doesn't mean that you'll get any kind of tax break though. According to the IRS your maximum benefit is $750 if you're single and $1125 if you're married and claim the disability exemption. Here is the official IRS information on the disability exemption: www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p524.pdf hope this helps, River Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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