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Dennis - it must feel wonderful to be so financially free! We have a

very small mortgage on our house - and the value is about four times

what we owe. Its nice to have minimal payments - especially when so

many families are crumbling under the mortgage crisis. Its nice to

know we'll always have our home.

Won't it be sad to leave the house that you and your family built? Or

is it too big for just you and your wife? Either way, you've been

smart with your investment and now in your time of need, you don't

have to stress about that along with everything else.....Doreen :)

>

> I'll have to say I positioned myself well before I was downed by

> RA. We bought a house in Longview for about $12k and sold it about

> 7 years later for $32k. I bought the land we're living on with

> cash. Then we decided we would build a house instead of messing

> with the broke-down trailers we bought to have a place to stay dry.

> All the work, from design to plumbing, wiring, painting, was done

> by me and my wife, 2 girls, and one boy. When I got home from work,

> I'd go out and cut trees to the right length, loaded the trailer

> with 6,000 to 10,000 pounds of pine trees. The next morning, my

> wife would carry it to town and pick up the check and take it right

> to the lumber yard and get the things on my list. Afterwards, we'd

> put it together and cut, carry, buy,build until we got it together

> and never owed on it at all.

> I don't have to worry about payments or insurance, only the taxes

> on the place. Now I'm going to sell most of it with the house, and

> have a new one built, still paying cash for it, except this time I

> won't have to lift a finger except to open the door and walk in!

> The kids are gone and our taxes total about $350 each year, so as

> long as Social Security and the hospital are still here, we'll do

> fine.

>

> Dennis in eastexas

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Doreen, sorry I haven't responded sooner, but life does get in the way.

Betty's home from the hospital and doing well and I've relaxed a little.

As for our house, we won't miss it because we'll only move about 700 feet,

to the upper end of our property. I'm planning to sell it for enough to pay

for a brand-new house ready to walk into. I'm getting tired of the things we

have to deal with here. There will be no ramps, steps, etc, and can relax

more easily. I want to have a metal clear span building with the house in

one end and the shop/garage in the other end. When I feel like working on

one of the cars, I can just walk out the door and there I am. I also need to

get rid of some of my project cars. That'll make it easier and we can come

and go as we please, without anyone noticing we're gone.

I really hate to hear of all the companies dumping positions and people.

It's going to be hard for a lot of folks, more than what we have now. It

will get worse before it gets better, even with the plans of the new

president. I still feel sad when I think of the grief that will be dealt

with. A prayer is called for asking help for the souls having to deal with

life with no job.

Dennis in eastexas

On Sat, Jan 17, 2009 at 5:45 AM, Mimi <mimi212@...> wrote:

> Dennis - it must feel wonderful to be so financially free! We have a

> very small mortgage on our house - and the value is about four times

> what we owe. Its nice to have minimal payments - especially when so

> many families are crumbling under the mortgage crisis. Its nice to

> know we'll always have our home.

>

> Won't it be sad to leave the house that you and your family built? Or

> is it too big for just you and your wife? Either way, you've been

> smart with your investment and now in your time of need, you don't

> have to stress about that along with everything else.....Doreen :)

>

>

> >

> > I'll have to say I positioned myself well before I was downed by

> > RA. We bought a house in Longview for about $12k and sold it about

> > 7 years later for $32k. I bought the land we're living on with

> > cash. Then we decided we would build a house instead of messing

> > with the broke-down trailers we bought to have a place to stay dry.

> > All the work, from design to plumbing, wiring, painting, was done

> > by me and my wife, 2 girls, and one boy. When I got home from work,

> > I'd go out and cut trees to the right length, loaded the trailer

> > with 6,000 to 10,000 pounds of pine trees. The next morning, my

> > wife would carry it to town and pick up the check and take it right

> > to the lumber yard and get the things on my list. Afterwards, we'd

> > put it together and cut, carry, buy,build until we got it together

> > and never owed on it at all.

> > I don't have to worry about payments or insurance, only the taxes

> > on the place. Now I'm going to sell most of it with the house, and

> > have a new one built, still paying cash for it, except this time I

> > won't have to lift a finger except to open the door and walk in!

> > The kids are gone and our taxes total about $350 each year, so as

> > long as Social Security and the hospital are still here, we'll do

> > fine.

> >

> > Dennis in eastexas

>

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In the Seattle area Microsoft finally announced they would be cutting 5000 jobs,

they did so by laying-off 1400 people at once. Starbucks announced today that

they again would be making even more job cuts. Boeing which is always doing

something is reducing hours and laying off without plans to call anyone back.

Circuit City is closing (which is national) but I count for major retail stores

in our area that's also closing their doors. In addition, the State also

announced it is cutting back on staff in the Department of Social Health and

Services (we call it DSHS) so anyone applying for food assistance will just have

to wait. Of course, I think most of those people are probably in a " just when

they need it most " situation. When I was informed I got my SSDI that department

immediately told me I was no longer eligible for any benefits, to include my

Medical Insurance which I was paying for myself. I am not complaining though, I

am really hoping that the resources help a family that r

eally needs it. I've done RA without Medical Insurance before, I can do it again

if need be. But your comment that it will get worse before it gets better is

what they are predicting, and with what I've seen in just the last week,

well...it's really very frightening. I can't convey how I feel because it's a

kind of overwhelming, but when I go to bed at night, regardless of my own

condition (good or bad) I try to be appreciative and grateful for my blessings,

big or small.

Stan,

Seattle, cloudy and cold.

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From: Dennis W <betnden@...>

Doreen, sorry I haven't responded sooner, but life does get in the way.

Betty's home from the hospital and doing well and I've relaxed a little.

As for our house, we won't miss it because we'll only move about 700 feet,

to the upper end of our property. I'm planning to sell it for enough to pay

for a brand-new house ready to walk into. I'm getting tired of the things we

have to deal with here. There will be no ramps, steps, etc, and can relax

more easily. I want to have a metal clear span building with the house in

one end and the shop/garage in the other end. When I feel like working on

one of the cars, I can just walk out the door and there I am. I also need to

get rid of some of my project cars. That'll make it easier and we can come

and go as we please, without anyone noticing we're gone.

I really hate to hear of all the companies dumping positions and people.

It's going to be hard for a lot of folks, more than what we have now. It

will get worse before it gets better, even with the plans of the new

president. I still feel sad when I think of the grief that will be dealt

with. A prayer is called for asking help for the souls having to deal with

life with no job.

Dennis in eastexas

On Sat, Jan 17, 2009 at 5:45 AM, Mimi <mimi212@...> wrote:

> Dennis - it must feel wonderful to be so financially free! We have a

> very small mortgage on our house - and the value is about four times

> what we owe. Its nice to have minimal payments - especially when so

> many families are crumbling under the mortgage crisis. Its nice to

> know we'll always have our home.

>

> Won't it be sad to leave the house that you and your family built? Or

> is it too big for just you and your wife? Either way, you've been

> smart with your investment and now in your time of need, you don't

> have to stress about that along with everything else.....Doreen :)

>

>

> >

> > I'll have to say I positioned myself well before I was downed by

> > RA. We bought a house in Longview for about $12k and sold it about

> > 7 years later for $32k. I bought the land we're living on with

> > cash. Then we decided we would build a house instead of messing

> > with the broke-down trailers we bought to have a place to stay dry.

> > All the work, from design to plumbing, wiring, painting, was done

> > by me and my wife, 2 girls, and one boy. When I got home from work,

> > I'd go out and cut trees to the right length, loaded the trailer

> > with 6,000 to 10,000 pounds of pine trees. The next morning, my

> > wife would carry it to town and pick up the check and take it right

> > to the lumber yard and get the things on my list. Afterwards, we'd

> > put it together and cut, carry, buy,build until we got it together

> > and never owed on it at all.

> > I don't have to worry about payments or insurance, only the taxes

> > on the place. Now I'm going to sell most of it with the house, and

> > have a new one built, still paying cash for it, except this time I

> > won't have to lift a finger except to open the door and walk in!

> > The kids are gone and our taxes total about $350 each year, so as

> > long as Social Security and the hospital are still here, we'll do

> > fine.

> >

> > Dennis in eastexas

>

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