Hi everyone (long)

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> Here it is:

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> We have had a real problem here and one of those that you think

> will never happen to you. The wonderful young man from Germany who has

> been dating

> Amber, my youngest daughter, the last few months and we welcomed into

our

> family

> has been trying to sleep with his host family's 10 year old daughter.

> Anyway as I write this he is soon boarding

> his plane back to Germany

> and has had his visa revoked. His parents have gone on a two week

> vacation and no one can contact them. He has called us three times

after the

> police

> drove him to the airport ,first trying to convince Amber it was a

complete

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> misunderstanding. He forgot he had written the girl notes and the

mother

> had found them

> in the wastebasket. It was definite that no one had made a mistake.

> He called this a.m. , complaining that he did not have enough money for

his

> ticket

> and wanted us to do 'something'. Amber said when he got treatment she

> would

> talk to him again.

> That was her way of saying goodbye. He said he did not need treatment.

> The games people play !

> Bruce, my husband , bless his heart , called from the city wanting to go

pick

> him up as

> he was worried

> about him, I convinced him not to and to come home and read the notes as

I

> think

> he is suffering the disbelief that we did until we saw it in black and

> white.

> Being a small town , we are trying to protect the young lady from the

> cruelty of some people

> so we have simply said he had not obeyed the house rules .Anyway we have

> been mutual

> support for the other family and the host Dad was away as well. It was

> probably for the best

> that he was away but the Mom needs constant reassurance that she did the

> right thing.

> Please pray this young man gets the help he needs so he can live a

decent

> life and not hurt anyone else.

> It has hurt us all deeply and we are still reeling from the news. We were

> up most of the night with Amber trying to calm her down and helping her

> deal with the news. We are all drained and exhausted. We are all here for

> Amber and have made that clear. It is also hard because prom is this

> weekend and now she has no date. She isn't sure if she is going to go

> because the deception is so hard to take right now. We may spend the

> evening as a family.

> I am here on the list but I may not be posting much. I needed to tell you

so you knew what was up.

> Love to you all!

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