Re: Re:Another One of These Blows

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Traci Vujicich wrote:

> That is crap (pardon my strong language).

I hope it really is and you're right.

>I am five feet tall, 42

>years old, and have a 36 G bra size. Yes, I do have to pay a bit more

>for bras, but they last way longer than the cheapy ones do, so it works

>out in the end. And, I do NOT have upper back problems. It doesn't

>take " a lot of hard work " to strengthen your upper back to support

>large breasts!

I don't know if " a little bit of strength training " will get me rid of

this kyphosis in my upper back, but I really hope so. I never thought my

breasts could (partly) responsible for this. I always blamed my (rather)

sedentary lifestyle with a lot of sitting at a desk. I never thought of

my breasts as *that* big though I would prefer my little B-cups (well,

hubby wouldn't ^^).

> And why on earth would your husband be mad at YOU

>about this?

I think he can't handle my depressive and angry mood. Me being so

negative and pissed about something. He can't stand this. Now he's all

apologetic after running out of the room and avoiding any confrontation

earlier. He can't stand angry people around him, even if they're not

angry about him but about something entirely different.

Oh well... this whole mess reminds me that I have a lot to do when it

comes to body acceptance. I feel like the worst fraud when talking to my

body in gentle (or apologetic or sometimes desperate) words and

apologizing for thinking so mean and hateful thoughts about it.

Regards

s.