Guest guest Posted April 23, 2001 Report Share Posted April 23, 2001 great news! I was wondering where you were and am pleased to hear you are getting better. kathy rheumatic Update >Hello, All, > I wanted to check in with you and update you on my progress. I just >returned from Dr. DeWet's in Tyler, Texas, having undergone five days of >steady clindy treatments, three days of ascorbic acid ivs with added >supplements, and one final day the following Monday of another iv of DMPS >to flush the high mercury out of this body. Needless to say, I am in a >pretty good herx at this time but like before, I know there is light at the >end of the tunnel having traveled this tunnel before. > I do want to share the good news with you. My ANA is normal (I have seen >your message, @RTC and will respond to you privately, and know this is >not always permanent but definitey a grand bit of news for me now. In >addition, all three of my mycoplasms are GONE. And lastly, I am a full >degree warmer body temperature than I was before. One degree makes an >awfully lot of difference in terms of staying WARM. This was as exciting >as the other part of my news. Also, my hands have returned to warm >again!!! > Dr. DeWet believes my main symptoms now are the results of the high >mercury level and we are progressing on getting rid of that. Because I >cannot do chelation, we will attempt to do the DMPS monthly for four to six >more, continue the ONE clindy iv every two to three weeks, and, of course, >always do the Minocin/minocycline. In addition, I will attempt to have a >series of ascorbic acid iv's here in Billings, Montana while I am waiting >to return to Texas in three months for another go. > I am thinking of all of you and reading as quickly as I can to catch up on >all of your news over the past weeks. But in the meantime, you keep >writing....! Be well, love, > > >--- Fain >--- slfain@... >--- EarthLink: It's your Internet. > > > > >To unsubscribe, email: rheumatic-unsubscribeegroups > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2001 Report Share Posted April 24, 2001 I would love to meet up with you. Again, I thank you for hellping me, and I hope you continue to do well. There is another lady, that I met at the clinic. she has scleoderma, and is doing so much better thanks to Dr. DeWet. Could I give her your e-mail address, I know it would help her. She is a very nice person. rheumatic Update > > > > > Hello, All, > > > I wanted to check in with you and update you on my progress. I just > > > returned from Dr. DeWet's in Tyler, Texas, having undergone five days of > > > steady clindy treatments, three days of ascorbic acid ivs with added > > > supplements, and one final day the following Monday of another iv of DMPS > > > to flush the high mercury out of this body. Needless to say, I am in a > > > pretty good herx at this time but like before, I know there is light at > > the > > > end of the tunnel having traveled this tunnel before. > > > I do want to share the good news with you. My ANA is normal (I have seen > > > your message, @RTC and will respond to you privately, and know this > > is > > > not always permanent but definitey a grand bit of news for me now. In > > > addition, all three of my mycoplasms are GONE. And lastly, I am a full > > > degree warmer body temperature than I was before. One degree makes an > > > awfully lot of difference in terms of staying WARM. This was as exciting > > > as the other part of my news. Also, my hands have returned to warm > > > again!!! > > > Dr. DeWet believes my main symptoms now are the results of the high > > > mercury level and we are progressing on getting rid of that. Because I > > > cannot do chelation, we will attempt to do the DMPS monthly for four to > > six > > > more, continue the ONE clindy iv every two to three weeks, and, of > > course, > > > always do the Minocin/minocycline. In addition, I will attempt to have a > > > series of ascorbic acid iv's here in Billings, Montana while I am waiting > > > to return to Texas in three months for another go. > > > I am thinking of all of you and reading as quickly as I can to catch up on > > > all of your news over the past weeks. But in the meantime, you keep > > > writing....! Be well, love, > > > > > > > > > --- Fain > > > --- slfain@... > > > --- EarthLink: It's your Internet. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To unsubscribe, email: rheumatic-unsubscribeegroups > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2001 Report Share Posted June 4, 2001 you might look into chelation for your father. Its great for circulation and there is a book called Bypass Bypass that is very good on the subject. Glad to hear you are doing well. kathy rheumatic update >Hi gang, > >I feel like I am racing into the end of the school year with my two kids, >pheeewww! My daughter just had her first communion(that was in the morning) >and then an hour later we were at her national gymnastics competition. Talk >about throwing off this beautiful white dress she had on and munching in the >car on the way to her competition. That lasted until supper time and then we >all went to supper with the family to celebrate both events! > >Before that my dad had an angina attack which really got me nervous because >he was in bad pain and refusing to take nitro! So, now he saw a cardiologist >and is doing a stress test to see for blockages and see if he needs another >bypass operation. God forbid! > >Now this past Friday, I had done my fourth EPd desensitization treatment. It >is always like walking on eggs every time. BUT, this time, I made it through >without having to take any aminophyllin intravenous for my lungs, my heart >raced just a bit with the other intravenous, so we stopped that one and the >rest of the weekend went off like a dream. This is really amazing to make it >without any rock and roll.Oh and by the way, I just lost 10 pounds this time >around. Not too bad:) > >So, now I can concentrate on the rest and get the kids through their exams >for the next three weeks. > >As for my AP, well I am doing the Biaxin and it is going well with that, no >aches or pains. > >Hope all of you are doing well, hugs to you, > > > > >To unsubscribe, email: rheumatic-unsubscribeegroups > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 11, 2001 Report Share Posted September 11, 2001 Dear , I believe Fibromyalgia is often just a symptom of infection with Mycoplasma or various other bacteria. I am sure it is all part of the R.A. A lot of these things seem to overlap. I would encourage you to hang in there with the A.P. You might also look up www.chronicneurotoxins.com They use Questran and anti-biotics. The Questran absorbs the toxins from the Herx and carries them out in the stool. We have been on it for 11 days and it seems to be working. Good luck. Rosemary. rheumatic Update > Hi all- > It's been a long time since I've written, so I thought I'd update you > on how I'm doing. I started AP in Feb. 2001, and in March I began the > herx from hell. It has gradually improved, and though I am still not > up to full speed, I am dealing with it all much better this time than > any flares in the past. I am now up to 200mg Mino a day, and feeling > hopeful that this treatment will work. Especially since I seem to have > the classic two steps back and then a slow recovery. I have definately > learned patience, and I think that is good. I am wondering if anyone > else has had Fibromyalgia diagnosed after starting AP. I have just > been diagnosed with fibro in addition to RA (which I have had 7 > yrs.)My RA docs in the past just said the fibro symptoms I had were > part of the RA since they were faily mild, but since being on AP they > have gotten as bothersome as the RA symptoms. I don't know if there is > a relationship with the fibro abnd the Mino, or if it's just > progressing on it's own. I hope this makes sense. Just wondering if > anyone has had a similar experience, or has RA and Fibro together > because I would like to know how you are treating it. Thanks so much > > > > > To unsubscribe, email: rheumatic-unsubscribeegroups > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 12, 2001 Report Share Posted September 12, 2001 Thanks so much to all of you who responded to my e-mail. I will check out the things you suggested. In the meantime, I am plugging away at graduate school, and I just found out I got a scholarship! YEA!! I am determined to not let this disease keep me from my dreams!!! I have found that by persuing something I am passionate about, it is much easier to work through the pain and sickness. Anyway...just wanted to say thanks....and I don't know what I would have done without you all. You have helped me begin to get my life back, and that is a wonderful thing! Hugs- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2002 Report Share Posted January 13, 2002 hey Minna, It sounds very good. She is talking more and " relating " more to life. Even at the sad parts. used to watch a Bugs Bunny cartoon where the anvil falls on the person's head and pushes them through a hole in the ground. would say, " anvils don't just fall from the sky, and you wouldn't go into a hole, it would crack your head open and you would be dead or go to the hospital. " Now he just laughs and laughs at those shows. He also refuses to watch shows that are possible dangerous such as that movie Mission to Mars. He says that was the scariest movie he ever saw. Probably because it was real enough with the space program that someone might actually be drifting off into space. Sounds like your son is ready for a higher dose, and your reaction is very typical when you have a yeast problem. Maybe the GSE will help here, too. ---Hey, you other guys with the yeast issues, are any of these symptoms sound similar?? Take care, . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2002 Report Share Posted January 13, 2002 > daughter is still doing good her her enzymes... and am thinking that > perhaps only effect that have not mentioned before is that she is EXTREMELY > sensitive (emotionally). I think this is a sign of food withdrawals, which is a good sign because after a while she will do better. Hard to go thru it tho. > son has started his enzymes and he seems to not be showing any signs.... so > will increase to half pill (gave him only 1/4) of each.... > mineself started the enzymes, and the probiotics.... > am very full of yeast obviously... I had a systemic yeast issue recently, I had many of these signs, but my most major sign was a nasty headache that made me non-functional and crying for several days. I used GSE [grapefruit seed extract, from health food store]. I put 5 drops in a glass of water, and my headache was basically gone within 20 minutes. I had to drink several of these glasses of water each day for the first week, but now I just drink one glass w/GSE before each meal as a preventive. No more headaches, very nice! You can read about my kids' yeast issues here http://www.autismchannel.net/dana/myson.htm#chelation > am getting little 'eruptions' in some parts of skin, like little absess > type things.. dono if this is " normal " .... This is normal for me if I eat a " bad food " , so probably similar for you just starting enzymes. Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2002 Report Share Posted March 13, 2002 , Please share with us the name of the manufacturer of the generic minocycline that gave you problems. Your pharmacist will be able to give you that name. Thank you in advance for your valuable input! Sincerely, Harald At 10:33 PM 03/12/2002 +0000, you wrote: >... I went to several Dr.s about the nausea and vomitting but no one had >any answers... and I suggested trying the Minocin instead of the generic. >She agreed and switched the >prescription and saying it was due to drug failure so that the insurance >would cover it. I started it last friday and have been Nausea free for 5 >days!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2002 Report Share Posted March 13, 2002 , Please be kind enough to resend your one-line message with a copy to rheumatic so that we can all learn from your experience. Thanks! Sincerely, Harald At 01:28 PM 03/13/2002 -0800, you wrote: >It was the shein generic. > > > >>From: " Harald Weiss, Technical Marketing Group " <hw@...> >> " rabbitrew " <rabbitrew@...>,rheumatic >>Subject: Re: rheumatic Update >>Date: Wed, 13 Mar 2002 07:21:07 -0800 >> >>, >> >>Please share with us the name of the manufacturer of the generic >>minocycline that gave you problems. Your pharmacist will be able to give >>you that name. >> >>Thank you in advance for your valuable input! >> >>Sincerely, Harald >> >>At 10:33 PM 03/12/2002 +0000, you wrote: >> >>>... I went to several Dr.s about the nausea and vomitting but no one had >>>any answers... and I suggested trying the Minocin instead of the generic. >>>She agreed and switched the >>>prescription and saying it was due to drug failure so that the insurance >>>would cover it. I started it last friday and have been Nausea free for 5 >>>days!!! > > > > >_________________________________________________________________ >Chat with friends online, try MSN Messenger: http://messenger.msn.com > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2002 Report Share Posted March 14, 2002 >>It was the Shein generic. >> >> >> >>>From: " Harald Weiss, Technical Marketing Group " <hw@...> >>> " rabbitrew " <rabbitrew@...>,rheumatic >>>Subject: Re: rheumatic Update >>>Date: Wed, 13 Mar 2002 07:21:07 -0800 >>> >>>, >>> >>>Please share with us the name of the manufacturer of the generic >>>minocycline that gave you problems. Your pharmacist will be able to give >>>you that name. >>> >>>Thank you in advance for your valuable input! >>> >>>Sincerely, Harald >>> >>>At 10:33 PM 03/12/2002 +0000, you wrote: >>> >>>>... I went to several Dr.s about the nausea and vomitting (which had >>>>been going on for more than a year) but no one had >>>>any answers... and I suggested trying the Minocin instead of the >>>>generic. >>>>She agreed and switched the >>>>prescription and saying it was due to drug failure so that the insurance >>>>would cover it. I started it last friday and have been Nausea free for 5 >>>>days!!! >> >> >> >> >>_________________________________________________________________ >>Chat with friends online, try MSN Messenger: http://messenger.msn.com >> > _________________________________________________________________ Join the world’s largest e-mail service with MSN Hotmail. http://www.hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2002 Report Share Posted June 11, 2002 Hi: Thanks a lot Dana I gave my son 1/4 no-fenol and 1/2 zyme prime and 1 peptizide plus GSE and he seems to be doing better. We restarted Peptizide and I have seen a big difference I have been also giving him Cullturelle. Thanks, __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2003 Report Share Posted January 25, 2003 > Dana and many others, > > Just wanted to thank you again for your help, advice, shared > experiences, and prayers for my son. Congratulations!! I am so glad to learn that is doing better. Yep, violins are wonderful, aren't they? =) Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2003 Report Share Posted January 25, 2003 Maureen, That is wonderful!! Horray for ! LOL the violin... --- In , sheba <sheba2@e...> wrote: > Dana and many others, > > Just wanted to thank you again for your help, advice, shared > experiences, and prayers for my son. > > is home with us. He has had a semester in college. Depression > hindered his success. His mood is much better now. > > His new violin and his enzymes arrived on the same day. Many people have > commented on how much better he is. > > I heard, " He started getting better right after he got that new violin. " > > LOL Yeah, it MUST have been the violin > > plans to return to school this fall. He takes violin lessons, > drives a car, and putters in his own workshop with his tools and > machines. He will soon have a job in the city. > > Maureen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2003 Report Share Posted February 13, 2003 it could be yeast die off.. had the worst tantrumming, rage outbursts, and just plain obnoxious, " makes-no-sense " behaviours with son when he started nf and had huge yeast issues. it got better. within a month. sometimes flares up but good generally now. minna > well I have good and bad news!! I finally bit the dust and increased > Logan's no phenol to a full capsule. This really helped with the > phenol issues. He had loose bowels one day and that was it. Less > hyper less stimming.....wonderful. Then yesterday he tantrummed > twice!! He hasn't tantrummed in at least 6 months. I forgot how > tiring it was. So I don't know if this is the regression phase > starting now or what. He has been on all 3 enzymes for 10 days now. > I fluctuate the pept. and zyme with what he is eating as the two > together give him phenol reactions even with the increase in nf. > Last night I seen he had broken out again in a rash. Is tantrumming > part of yeast die off or what? I am still waitin on my gse to come > and my magnesium too. The good news is he has been swallowing them > whole with a bit of yogurt!! Much easier than trying to mix them in > drinks though I do still do that in the morning with his juice and > for snack at school. Pray for me!! I don't miss the tantrumming > phase at all and wish it hadn't come back :0( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2003 Report Share Posted February 17, 2003 YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!! Congrats Mx > Just wanted to post an update on my ds, we have been on pep since last > weekend and doing great!!! This weekend we were able to reintroduce the > zyme w/out the hyperness, and we have seen a much calmer, happier boy, with > alot more speech comming out. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 Wendi, What great news! Go Sky!!! You must be so proud. It's such a special momment when you have a break thru with your child and can understand something new. Their face lights up because they know you can actually understand them and they are communicating with you. Boy, I want to cry too. I am soooo happy to hear your good news! Take Care, Linette " wendie <hwendie@...> " <hwendie@...> wrote: Hi guys! I still feel new around here, it's taking awhile to remember who everyone is & who is dealing w/what. I read all the post everyday & it never fails I learn something new everyday. I probably don't post as much as I should, but I feel like a lot of you are more knowledgable about all of the things that pop up than I. Anyway I just wanted to let you guys know my daughter, Sky, had her O.T. eval w/E.I. yesterday. It was a lot easier this time around & Sky will now be receiving O.T. & S.T. 1 x a week each for 1 hour. The O.T. that did the eval confirmed her sensory issues & motor planning issues. She had some great suggestions for me until O.T. begins. It took about a month for us to get S.T. started after her eval. I'm pretty happy with the eval & everything the O.T. had to say. She was also encouraging us to go ahead w/Tomatis therapy too. I was afraid she might have a negative reaction about us trying that along w/regular therapy. Sky had S.T. scheduled today, but wasn't cooperating so we decided we weren't getting anywhere & stopped. She had a continuous tantrum for almost 2 hours this afternoon! Our S.T. is going to try PECS(I think that's the right name) next week. I think I've read where some of you have tried this before, did it work or what are your feelings about it? Yesterday was a WONDERFUL day. Sky brought a container of Playdoh to me & said " open " . She did this about 5 times in a row. It's the first time she's said " open " (she's only had about 5 words for months now). Later on she was tugging on my husband's pants & then she began to whine. He couldn't figure out what she wanted, but then I noticed she was hitting this big bouncy ball she has for therapy. I told my husband she wants you to bounce her on the ball. Sky does not point or lead you to what she wants or needs so this was just amazing!! Then to top it off we were singing her favorite song Wheels On The Bus & when we finished she did the sign for more & said " more " . It didn't sound anything like more, but I knew that's what she was saying. She did this about 6 times & by the 5th & 6th time I was singing at the top of my lungs w/tears streaming down my face. This is the first time Sky has attempted to communicate w/us in a way we all understand each other. It was just great!! We go next thursday to get her " official " dx from the Ped. Neuro. & his team. I'm anxious to hear what they have to say. Sorry to babble on, but so far this week has been the best week I've had in a long time! Wendie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 Thanks Linette!! Wendie > Wendi, What great news! Go Sky!!! You must be so proud. It's such a special momment when you have a break thru with your child and can understand something new. Their face lights up because they know you can actually understand them and they are communicating with you. Boy, I want to cry too. I am soooo happy to hear your good news! Take Care, Linette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2003 Report Share Posted March 12, 2003 In a message dated 3/12/03 10:28:10 AM Eastern Standard Time, barb2743@... writes: > In fact he is coming home on a three day pass this weekend ( Fri, Sat & Sun ) > I'm so nervous that something is going to go wrong, that somebody is going > to set him off, or he will realize that he doesn't want to come home at > all. I'm just going to keep positive and enjoy him while he is here. The > treatment center is starting to get discharge services in place, wrap > around services and day treatment services. We are trying to keep him out > of the high school he was going to for the rest of the school year. > Sending him back there would be like putting him in a lions den. Sorry to > go on so, can you tell the stress is starting again? Barbara > Good luck Barbara! Tell us how it goes. Have you discussed the school issues with his therapist to see about getting him into a different placement? Roxanna ò¿ò It makes sense to go up the molehill dressed for the mountain Nan, the Wiser Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2003 Report Share Posted March 12, 2003 In a message dated 3/12/2003 12:29:36 PM Eastern Standard Time, beitchazen@... writes: > on the other hand his (girl)friend is here , and they are playing very > nicely with electronics. an hour ago they were playing together in the > computer, and she had her hand over his....... DOES IT START THIS EARLY > ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? > (btw, I don't think he even realized she was doing so and why)....... NO NO I don't think that is normal for that age. I would inform M if it happens again I would have him tell you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2003 Report Share Posted March 12, 2003 In a message dated 3/12/03 12:29:25 PM Eastern Standard Time, beitchazen@... writes: > on the other hand his (girl)friend is here , and they are playing very > nicely with electronics. an hour ago they were playing together in the > computer, and she had her hand over his....... DOES IT START THIS EARLY > ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? > (btw, I don't think he even realized she was doing so and why)....... > Mattan's got a girlfriend...Mattan's got a girlfriend. LOL. I wonder if he knows that? <G> Roxanna ò¿ò It makes sense to go up the molehill dressed for the mountain Nan, the Wiser Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2003 Report Share Posted March 12, 2003 > at m's school, the same nasty girl from last time has been bothering him in the last 3 days (calling him names, making dirty hand gestures, you get the picture),a dn today he cursed her back and wrote her a nasty letter. of course, I am expecting trouble as he can't prove she cursed him, but she now has a proof (his letter)....... I keep telling him to simply get away form her. even the teacher said she is not a nice person to be around and for the most par he does get away from her. bu the said today he has had it...... > > on the other hand his (girl)friend is here , and they are playing very nicely with electronics. an hour ago they were playing together in the computer, and she had her hand over his....... DOES IT START THIS EARLY ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? > (btw, I don't think he even realized she was doing so and why)....... > > yesterday he had a class-party and I was pleased to see he participated in the games and that his teacher really pays attention and makes sure everyone is included! > F Fania, Yes, for some girls it really does start that early! LOL! As for the trouble maker girl, that is a scary situation. We don't want her to provoke M into doing something that will get him into trouble. I wish I had a suggestion for you. But I'm thinking about you. Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2003 Report Share Posted March 12, 2003 <<<<<<<<Mattan's got a girlfriend...Mattan's got a girlfriend. LOL. I wonder if he knows that? <G>> sh.....sh...... he will kill me if he finds out I wrote this to you , lol and no, I don't think he has a clue. he laughs when someone mentions " girlfriend " and has no inkling that we are talking about *HIS* at least potential one....... lol at this stage it is just cute, maybe, but I really thought teenagehood was far far away, and I guess it is not....... one thing fo rsure: no playing behind closed doors, F Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2003 Report Share Posted March 13, 2003 Smart lady who does not wish to be a granny just yet... S Re: ( ) update <<<<<<<<Mattan's got a girlfriend...Mattan's got a girlfriend. LOL. I wonder if he knows that? <G>> sh.....sh...... he will kill me if he finds out I wrote this to you , lol and no, I don't think he has a clue. he laughs when someone mentions " girlfriend " and has no inkling that we are talking about *HIS* at least potential one....... lol at this stage it is just cute, maybe, but I really thought teenagehood was far far away, and I guess it is not....... one thing fo rsure: no playing behind closed doors, F Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2003 Report Share Posted March 13, 2003 Roxanna, The problem is he is in PA and we live in DE so they are not familiar with what is available in our area thats why we are looking into a day treatment program for him to step down to. Hopefully whoever we work with here in DE will be willing to help with school placement. We are also into the DE child mental health program, so they will help also. I also have been thinking now is the time to start looking for a advocate for him. Thanks Barbara kneeleee@... wrote: In a message dated 3/12/03 10:28:10 AM Eastern Standard Time, barb2743@... writes: > In fact he is coming home on a three day pass this weekend ( Fri, Sat & Sun ) > I'm so nervous that something is going to go wrong, that somebody is going > to set him off, or he will realize that he doesn't want to come home at > all. I'm just going to keep positive and enjoy him while he is here. The > treatment center is starting to get discharge services in place, wrap > around services and day treatment services. We are trying to keep him out > of the high school he was going to for the rest of the school year. > Sending him back there would be like putting him in a lions den. Sorry to > go on so, can you tell the stress is starting again? Barbara > Good luck Barbara! Tell us how it goes. Have you discussed the school issues with his therapist to see about getting him into a different placement? Roxanna ò¿ò It makes sense to go up the molehill dressed for the mountain Nan, the Wiser Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Anne, As usual I don't have a say in 's discharge date because the insurance company doesn't want to pay for any more time. The treatment center doesn't want to do anymore weekend passes because they have to hold his bed, and they don't get paid for the time that he is away. They wanted me to take him home Tuesday and bring him back on Wednesday. I turned this down because the ride is so hard on me to do it two days in a row. I have a bad back and I'm done in for when I come back from a visit. The next day I have to rest because I'm so tired and my back is really hurting. They also said that if the visit went well they probably (the insurance company) would say to discharge him on Friday. So I am just trying to get myself mentally ready for him to be home for good. After services are not set yet. This is what really scares me. I could see going back to his old ways if there aren't supporting services. School is a big question right now also. At this point I don't know what we are going to do. He will come home with an IEP though. Will keep you all updated. Thanks for your concern. Barbara MiseEire52@... wrote:In a message dated 3/20/2003 2:03:59 PM Eastern Standard Time, writes: > Date: Thu, 20 Mar 2003 10:39:29 -0800 (PST) > From: Barbara A Trice <barb2743@...> > Subject: Re: Digest Number 3938 > > > Anne, I have missed you. How are things going with your son? I was told > yesterday that they are looking to discharge next Friday. I have an > IEP meeting on Tues. I'm hoping that the school district will use this IEP > so can start fresh next year. We are looking into a day program for > the rest of the year. He was home on pass this last weekend and things > went ok, not perfect, but ok. I know that I can't expect him to be > perfect. I'm having mixed feelings about him coming home. I know that I > will have to be on my toes 24/7 again. look forward to hearing from you. > Barbara > > Barbara, > If that was his first visit home for a weekend I > would not jump into discharge planning right away. I was thrilled when my > son got to come home for a weekend. He was almost perfect that first > weekend and even the secone weekend. On the third he felt a little more > comfortable and on the fourth even a little more comfortable and before we > knew it it was very easy to fall into many of his old ways. > I thoroughly understand your mixed feelings. It's > like the old saying 'Men you can't live with them and you can't live > without them!' My son is doing well , thankfully. He is accepting his > fate and has a mor positive outlook than I have had. I am very frustrated > with the residential manager of the service agency. She has promised he > was going to a particular facility. Three different days he was told he > was moving there. He was brought there and shown where he would stay and > introduced to the counselor. Then they moved him into another facility > where he is currently sharing a room with someone from his speical needs > school last year. I asked him if he was happy and he said Mom I have to be > happy because since I can't come home I really don't want either of the > other two alternatives, hospital or detention center! I though that was > pretty mature of him though I have been saying don't do anything to screw > up this trial period with the group home. Once again I can't get a > straight answer n anything because they don't want to talk to me. I > believe what my son is tellng me as he has no reason to lie about his > situation. What he's been told and what I have learned through him and > other people keeps changing and it makes matters very frustrating. A final > decision won't be made until April 2nd or so I believe. They extended his > trail period as it took them three weeks to get their act together. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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