Re: Re: Why am I exhausted all the time

[Guest guest]

Sorry that I have been so quiet here in So Fla. but I have been EXHAUSTED. My

daughter had her baby boy on 6-19-10 @ 8:00 am weighing 4 lbs, 9 oz. 16 inches.

He is in the NICU for quite some time. Yesterday he stopped sucking for some

reason, so they are bringing in a speech therapist to find out why they change

of events. During this time, my daughter and her 2 yr old have been living with

us since she first came out of this hospital for loosing all her amniotic fluid.

And then she had the baby last weekend, so we have had the baby non stop and my

daughter ,moved back in with us when she was released following her C-section

for at least 2 more weeks with the 2 year old. Her husband comes and goes

whenever the spirit moves him. Most nights he goes back to their condo so that

HE can get a good night's sleep!! I don't thinik that he has any C-section

scars ?????????Ugh, am so p-------d with him.

I am soooooo tired, I usualy fall asleep before the 2 year old and then wake up

@ 5:00 am worrying about everything. My food budget has had to be stretched

from 4 to 8. My hands are so swollen and painful from the baby and the cooking

and housework. Since I hace been sick (aboutg 10 years) I haven't done many of

these things. But now that my daughter and her little family are here, it is

like a frat house! I love them all so much, but I never realized how much of a

toll my disease had taken on me. This time of year, I take care of my familiy

graves in Chicago. After that, someone from the cemetary was trying to solicit

a " hole " at the cemetary and I almost said 'yes' ahd how soon can it be

ready!!!! Well, no really, not I feel so miserable. I want to try one of

biologics for the arthritis, but because I have had trouble in the past, the

rheumy keeps saying I have to wait,but there is no definite date. My HMO won't

pay for oxycontin ($1400.00 for 60 pills) so they are trying MS contin with

percocet as breakthru pain.

Sorry to have vented to all of you, but sometimes it just has to come out.

Thanking you in advanve. And please keep my grandson, Noah Canaan, in your

prayers, he still looks so tiny.

Gentle, tender, angel hugs watching over all of us.

Debs in FL

[Guest guest]

Debs: You sure have a full plate I please keep us updated on how u are doing

and the baby's progress, our thoughts and prayers are with u

Pat in So Oregon

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Re: [ ] Re: Why am I exhausted all the time

Sorry that I have been so quiet here in So Fla. but I have been EXHAUSTED. My

daughter had her baby boy on 6-19-10 @ 8:00 am weighing 4 lbs, 9 oz. 16 inches.

He is in the NICU for quite some time. Yesterday he stopped sucking for some

reason, so they are bringing in a speech therapist to find out why they change

of events. During this time, my daughter and her 2 yr old have been living with

us since she first came out of this hospital for loosing all her amniotic fluid.

And then she had the baby last weekend, so we have had the baby non stop and my

daughter ,moved back in with us when she was released following her C-section

for at least 2 more weeks with the 2 year old. Her husband comes and goes

whenever the spirit moves him. Most nights he goes back to their condo so that

HE can get a good night's sleep!! I don't thinik that he has any C-section

scars ?????????Ugh, am so p-------d with him.

I am soooooo tired, I usualy fall asleep before the 2 year old and then wake up

@ 5:00 am worrying about everything. My food budget has had to be stretched

from 4 to 8. My hands are so swollen and painful from the baby and the cooking

and housework. Since I hace been sick (aboutg 10 years) I haven't done many of

these things. But now that my daughter and her little family are here, it is

like a frat house! I love them all so much, but I never realized how much of a

toll my disease had taken on me. This time of year, I take care of my familiy

graves in Chicago. After that, someone from the cemetary was trying to solicit

a " hole " at the cemetary and I almost said 'yes' ahd how soon can it be

ready!!!! Well, no really, not I feel so miserable. I want to try one of

biologics for the arthritis, but because I have had trouble in the past, the

rheumy keeps saying I have to wait,but there is no definite date. My HMO won't

pay for oxycontin ($1400.00 for 60 pills) so they are trying MS contin with

percocet as breakthru pain.

Sorry to have vented to all of you, but sometimes it just has to come out.

Thanking you in advanve. And please keep my grandson, Noah Canaan, in your

prayers, he still looks so tiny.

Gentle, tender, angel hugs watching over all of us.

Debs in FL

[Guest guest]

Debs, I will certainly keep Noah Canaan in my thoughts and prayers,

along with you and the rest of your family. Don't forget to take care

of yourself.

Sue

On Jun 24, 2010, at 1:05 PM, BadKneesDebs@... wrote:

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> Sorry to have vented to all of you, but sometimes it just has to

> come out. Thanking you in advanve. And please keep my grandson,

> Noah Canaan, in your prayers, he still looks so tiny.

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> Gentle, tender, angel hugs watching over all of us.

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[Guest guest]

Hi Debs. I know how dead tired you are taking care of your family. I am glad

Noah arrived and he will do well in the NICU. Once the speech pathologist

checks him out, and find whats wrong, he will begin to thrive. I wished you

lived closer to me so I could give you some help. Your s-i-l should be ashamed

of himself, and be there to help you out, expecially with the 2 year old, and I

am sure your daughter could use his support too. He is brainless...... Does he

not think all of you are so tired and need a good nights sleep too??

I know your life is so hectic now, and you are stressed to the max. I am no

good at all when I am tired. Makes me totally disfunctional. When they all

leave, you will need a good week or two to recover from all this. Feeding 8 is

a very big job, plus the cost is very high. I know you want to help out your

daughter and your little granddaughter. Her husband needs a good kick in a--,

and to man up and help his family, you especially.

I am glad you vented here and it helped you to get rid of some of your stress.

Stress is just so bad for all of us.

My prayers are for Noah to do better and begin to thrive so he can come home. I

also pray that things settle down at your house, and you can begin to take care

of yourself. You have a very full plate.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I just hope you don't get

sick again. I pray for that all the time.

Love and many hugs to you Debs, my sweet friend. Things need to settle down in

your home before you collapse. You need to put yourself first, which I know is

hard to do. Try to rest when ever it is possible.

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Barbara

From: BadKneesDebs@... <BadKneesDebs@...>

Subject: Re: [ ] Re: Why am I exhausted all the time

Date: Thursday, June 24, 2010, 1:05 PM

 

Sorry that I have been so quiet here in So Fla. but I have been EXHAUSTED. My

daughter had her baby boy on 6-19-10 @ 8:00 am weighing 4 lbs, 9 oz. 16 inches.

He is in the NICU for quite some time. Yesterday he stopped sucking for some

reason, so they are bringing in a speech therapist to find out why they change

of events. During this time, my daughter and her 2 yr old have been living with

us since she first came out of this hospital for loosing all her amniotic fluid.

And then she had the baby last weekend, so we have had the baby non stop and my

daughter ,moved back in with us when she was released following her C-section

for at least 2 more weeks with the 2 year old. Her husband comes and goes

whenever the spirit moves him. Most nights he goes back to their condo so that

HE can get a good night's sleep!! I don't thinik that he has any C-section scars

?????????Ugh, am so p-------d with him.

I am soooooo tired, I usualy fall asleep before the 2 year old and then wake up

@ 5:00 am worrying about everything. My food budget has had to be stretched from

4 to 8. My hands are so swollen and painful from the baby and the cooking and

housework. Since I hace been sick (aboutg 10 years) I haven't done many of these

things. But now that my daughter and her little family are here, it is like a

frat house! I love them all so much, but I never realized how much of a toll my

disease had taken on me. This time of year, I take care of my familiy graves in

Chicago. After that, someone from the cemetary was trying to solicit a " hole " at

the cemetary and I almost said 'yes' ahd how soon can it be ready!!!! Well, no

really, not I feel so miserable. I want to try one of biologics for the

arthritis, but because I have had trouble in the past, the rheumy keeps saying I

have to wait,but there is no definite date. My HMO won't pay for oxycontin

($1400.00 for 60

pills) so they are trying MS contin with percocet as breakthru pain.

Sorry to have vented to all of you, but sometimes it just has to come out.

Thanking you in advanve. And please keep my grandson, Noah Canaan, in your

prayers, he still looks so tiny.

Gentle, tender, angel hugs watching over all of us.

Debs in FL

[Guest guest]

Debs,

I'll keep that precious baby boy in my prayers! Take care of yourself too!

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            Amy

From: BadKneesDebs@... <BadKneesDebs@...>

Subject: Re: [ ] Re: Why am I exhausted all the time

Date: Thursday, June 24, 2010, 11:05 AM

 

Sorry that I have been so quiet here in So Fla. but I have been EXHAUSTED. My

daughter had her baby boy on 6-19-10 @ 8:00 am weighing 4 lbs, 9 oz. 16 inches.

He is in the NICU for quite some time. Yesterday he stopped sucking for some

reason, so they are bringing in a speech therapist to find out why they change

of events. During this time, my daughter and her 2 yr old have been living with

us since she first came out of this hospital for loosing all her amniotic fluid.

And then she had the baby last weekend, so we have had the baby non stop and my

daughter ,moved back in with us when she was released following her C-section

for at least 2 more weeks with the 2 year old. Her husband comes and goes

whenever the spirit moves him. Most nights he goes back to their condo so that

HE can get a good night's sleep!! I don't thinik that he has any C-section scars

?????????Ugh, am so p-------d with him.

I am soooooo tired, I usualy fall asleep before the 2 year old and then wake up

@ 5:00 am worrying about everything. My food budget has had to be stretched from

4 to 8. My hands are so swollen and painful from the baby and the cooking and

housework. Since I hace been sick (aboutg 10 years) I haven't done many of these

things. But now that my daughter and her little family are here, it is like a

frat house! I love them all so much, but I never realized how much of a toll my

disease had taken on me. This time of year, I take care of my familiy graves in

Chicago. After that, someone from the cemetary was trying to solicit a " hole " at

the cemetary and I almost said 'yes' ahd how soon can it be ready!!!! Well, no

really, not I feel so miserable. I want to try one of biologics for the

arthritis, but because I have had trouble in the past, the rheumy keeps saying I

have to wait,but there is no definite date. My HMO won't pay for oxycontin

($1400.00 for 60

pills) so they are trying MS contin with percocet as breakthru pain.

Sorry to have vented to all of you, but sometimes it just has to come out.

Thanking you in advanve. And please keep my grandson, Noah Canaan, in your

prayers, he still looks so tiny.

Gentle, tender, angel hugs watching over all of us.

Debs in FL

[Guest guest]

Dear Donna and all my dear friends.......

Our darling Noah came home to be with us on Monday, July 12, 2010. I think he

gets cuter every day. I don't remember my girls or even my granddaughter being

that tiny, but tiny or big

[ ] Re: Why am I exhausted all the time

Congratulations on your sweet new grandson Debs! No wonder you are so tired - my

goodness! Any my gosh, you gotta feel for those husbands who need their precious

sleep. That just stinks.

I feel your exhaustion!!! I have 2 girls - 6-1/2 and 4 years old and they just

don't stop!!!!! I think that they are starting to understand that mommy has some

bad days - I don't want them to have to know that yet, but it gets bad some

times.

Well it sounds like Noah is being taken care of well, and I will keep him in my

prayers that he will continue to " bulk up " so he can come home to his family

soon, and will pray that you get some relief from pain and all the work you are

doing for your family! Venting is good!!!

Donna

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> Sorry that I have been so quiet here in So Fla. but I have been EXHAUSTED. My

daughter had her baby boy on 6-19-10 @ 8:00 am weighing 4 lbs, 9 oz. 16 inches.

He is in the NICU for quite some time. Yesterday he stopped sucking for some

reason, so they are bringing in a speech therapist to find out why they change

of events. During this time, my daughter and her 2 yr old have been living with

us since she first came out of this hospital for loosing all her amniotic fluid.

And then she had the baby last weekend, so we have had the baby non stop and my

daughter ,moved back in with us when she was released following her C-section

for at least 2 more weeks with the 2 year old. Her husband comes and goes

whenever the spirit moves him. Most nights he goes back to their condo so that

HE can get a good night's sleep!! I don't thinik that he has any C-section scars

?????????Ugh, am so p-------d with him.

>

> I am soooooo tired, I usualy fall asleep before the 2 year old and then wake

up @ 5:00 am worrying about everything. My food budget has had to be stretched

from 4 to 8. My hands are so swollen and painful from the baby and the cooking

and housework. Since I hace been sick (aboutg 10 years) I haven't done many of

these things. But now that my daughter and her little family are here, it is

like a frat house! I love them all so much, but I never realized how much of a

toll my disease had taken on me. This time of year, I take care of my familiy

graves in Chicago. After that, someone from the cemetary was trying to solicit a

" hole " at the cemetary and I almost said 'yes' ahd how soon can it be ready!!!!

Well, no really, not I feel so miserable. I want to try one of biologics for the

arthritis, but because I have had trouble in the past, the rheumy keeps saying I

have to wait,but there is no definite date. My HMO won't pay for oxycontin

($1400.00 for 60 p ills) so they are trying MS contin with percocet as breakthru

pain.

>

> Sorry to have vented to all of you, but sometimes it just has to come out.

Thanking you in advanve. And please keep my grandson, Noah Canaan, in your

prayers, he still looks so tiny.

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> Gentle, tender, angel hugs watching over all of us.

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> Debs in FL

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[Guest guest]

I am sorry, as you can tell, my fingers are swollen and red like there is no

tomorrow. I hold Noah and take care of him on my bed, but when I do, I have

tears in my eyes from the pain. He only weighs 5 lbs right now, but my

granddaughter gained 2 lbs while she was staying with me while my daughter was

in and out of the hospital. Well, my daughter is also doing well right now,

thank God. She has also had her tubes tied so no more of these stressful events

for Mom!!!

I tell my husband that I am so tired, he tells me to take a nap, it is not only

that kind of fatigue. It is mental and then that transfers into the physical

pain and then you know how that circle goes.

Please pace yourself with those prescious little girls, they will grow up all

too soon. Hope you have a pain free weekend.

Gentle, tender angel hugs to you and yours.

Debs in FL

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Congratulations on your sweet new grandson Debs! No wonder you are so tired - my

goodness! Any my gosh, you gotta feel for those husbands who need their precious

sleep. That just stinks.

I feel your exhaustion!!! I have 2 girls - 6-1/2 and 4 years old and they just

don't stop!!!!! I think that they are starting to understand that mommy has some

bad days - I don't want them to have to know that yet, but it gets bad some

times.

Well it sounds like Noah is being taken care of well, and I will keep him in my

prayers that he will continue to " bulk up " so he can come home to his family

soon, and will pray that you get some relief from pain and all the work you are

doing for your family! Venting is good!!!

Donna

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> Sorry that I have been so quiet here in So Fla. but I have been EXHAUSTED. My

daughter had her baby boy on 6-19-10 @ 8:00 am weighing 4 lbs, 9 oz. 16 inches.

He is in the NICU for quite some time. Yesterday he stopped sucking for some

reason, so they are bringing in a speech therapist to find out why they change

of events. During this time, my daughter and her 2 yr old have been living with

us since she first came out of this hospital for loosing all her amniotic fluid.

And then she had the baby last weekend, so we have had the baby non stop and my

daughter ,moved back in with us when she was released following her C-section

for at least 2 more weeks with the 2 year old. Her husband comes and goes

whenever the spirit moves him. Most nights he goes back to their condo so that

HE can get a good night's sleep!! I don't thinik that he has any C-section scars

?????????Ugh, am so p-------d with him.

>

> I am soooooo tired, I usualy fall asleep before the 2 year old and then wake

up @ 5:00 am worrying about everything. My food budget has had to be stretched

from 4 to 8. My hands are so swollen and painful from the baby and the cooking

and housework. Since I hace been sick (aboutg 10 years) I haven't done many of

these things. But now that my daughter and her little family are here, it is

like a frat house! I love them all so much, but I never realized how much of a

toll my disease had taken on me. This time of year, I take care of my familiy

graves in Chicago. After that, someone from the cemetary was trying to solicit a

" hole " at the cemetary and I almost said 'yes' ahd how soon can it be ready!!!!

Well, no really, not I feel so miserable. I want to try one of biologics for the

arthritis, but because I have had trouble in the past, the rheumy keeps saying I

have to wait,but there is no definite date. My HMO won't pay for oxycontin

($1400.00 for 60 p ills) so they are trying MS contin with percocet as breakthru

pain.

>

> Sorry to have vented to all of you, but sometimes it just has to come out.

Thanking you in advanve. And please keep my grandson, Noah Canaan, in your

prayers, he still looks so tiny.

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> Gentle, tender, angel hugs watching over all of us.

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