ot: thank you

[Guest guest]

Hi Kate:

Up until just now, I stayed out of this conversation, mostly because to relate

is so painful, but also as a mother of 3 I felt your pain so terrifically that I

am compelled to comment.

If you just remember that we are spirits having a human experience (not the

other way around), you will understand that your child, will never leave you, in

heart, in spirit, or in memory.

Its good to have relations in heaven, believe me.

Be well sister of the RA, you have a husband and children that need you in the

material world.

OKD

[Guest guest]

Hi Kate.  You write such a beautiful letter.  I feel your loss.  Sometimes we

are lucky to have healthy children.  Infertitlity is hard and and can

be heartbreaking too.  My daughter did and tried everything to have a baby. 

She went to the best of the best in Boston.  She lost 2 babies, and then they

almost lost her on the table.  I was so fearful she would lose her life.  They

did in-vitro and no luck.  They stopped all fertility and figured they would be

childless.  Then, out of the blue she got pregnant, and started to see a high

risk Dr.  3 1/2 months into the preg. they found out she was having identical

triplets.  We were over the moon.  On her next visit, the Dr. discovered that

the babies had died.  We were so grief stricken.  Months later they tried

in-vitro again, and it worked!..They had a perfect, healthy baby girl.  My

daughter was 39.  Then, another miracle, 3 months later she was pregnant

again.  Another miracle baby

girl, born almost to the day that the first baby turned 1.  They wanted a boy,

but the Dr. said, no more children.  My daughter almost lost her life having

the second baby.  She was 40, deeply sadened for no more children.  But they

are so thankful for 2 healthy, baby girls.  What she went through when she lost

the triplets was terrible.  God was great and gave her 2 miracle babies.  Our

" little angels " are in heaven and will never be fogotten.  Time does heal us

but we don't think so at the time.  My thoughts and prayers still with you,

your husband and your 2 beautiful boys.  God Bless you Kate and your family. 

I think of you often.  I am glad that you know how much your are loved here,

and how much we all care about you.

 

Hugs and love,

 

Barbara

[Guest guest]

Barbara, Kate and Group

 

I was so sad for you kate. I am so glad you have 2 boys to love and hold. You

are in my prayers.. I just came back to the group when I read that you had a

miscarriage. And Barbara you must of been beside yourself when your daughter got

pregnant and knew she was risking her life. I a so sorry. Like you said we have

our children and give them all the love we can.

 

I never wanted any babies. I was the oldest girl out of 10 kids. I had 3 older

brothers. It's not the work taking care of them. It was watching my mom when one

of us got sick or was put in the hospital. I could hardly take it myself when my

baby sister went into the hospital from pneumonia. She got to come home

Christmas eve. . I was blessed with 5 kids lol. Three wasn't mine but from

another family member. My family called me fertile Mertyle lol. . I had 2 more

pregnancy's but had miscarriages.  It seems like the people that want kids ,

cant and the opposite for those who don't want babies. My daughter is 39 and

wanted a baby in the worst way and never had any children . My other daughter

didn't want kids and had 2. Which she loves and adores.

 

God bless

 

Clora 

 

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Date: Wednesday, June 16, 2010, 4:12 PM

Hi Kate.  You write such a beautiful letter.  I feel your loss.  Sometimes we

are lucky to have healthy children.  Infertitlity is hard and and can

be heartbreaking too.  My daughter did and tried everything to have a baby.  She

went to the best of the best in Boston.  She lost 2 babies, and then they almost

lost her on the table.  I was so fearful she would lose her life.  They did

in-vitro and no luck.  They stopped all fertility and figured they would be

childless.  Then, out of the blue she got pregnant, and started to see a high

risk Dr.  3 1/2 months into the preg. they found out she was having identical

triplets.  We were over the moon.  On her next visit, the Dr. discovered that

the babies had died.  We were so grief stricken.  Months later they tried

in-vitro again, and it worked!..They had a perfect, healthy baby girl.  My

daughter was 39.  Then, another miracle, 3 months later she was pregnant again. 

Another miracle baby

girl, born almost to the day that the first baby turned 1.  They wanted a boy,

but the Dr. said, no more children.  My daughter almost lost her life having the

second baby.  She was 40, deeply sadened for no more children.  But they are so

thankful for 2 healthy, baby girls.  What she went through when she lost the

triplets was terrible.  God was great and gave her 2 miracle babies.  Our

" little angels " are in heaven and will never be fogotten.  Time does heal us but

we don't think so at the time.  My thoughts and prayers still with you, your

husband and your 2 beautiful boys.  God Bless you Kate and your family.  I think

of you often.  I am glad that you know how much your are loved here, and how

much we all care about you.

 

Hugs and love,

 

Barbara