Barbara to Debs: Re: Dr. appt. tomorrow

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Hi Debs: I know exactly what you mean about all the dr. appts. we have

to go to. My daughter said to me a few years ago, " Gee Mom, the

only socialization you have is going to all those drs. " Boy was she

right. I too cut back on these. I had to see a lung dr. for quite

awhile, but everything turned out good, so I no longer have to see him.

I also saw a E.N.T. dr. for a problem, but it is finally gone so I don't

see him anymore. I was having so many tests at the hosp., I was so glad

when I didn't have to go anymore. It seemed I had a dr. appt.or tests

or blood work everyday. It wore thin, as you well know.

I know you have been so very sick, seriously, and I hope you start to

feel better soon. I hope you just postponed your dr. appt. to another

day. Maybe when you feel better you will go. Unfortunately, we really

need these drs. to try and stay healthy as best we can.

It seemed like everywhere you turned it was bad news. I can't blame you

for not wanting to hear anymore bad news. It is very depressing. But,

you know deep inside we have to go and get checked out. I told you

before it is your turn for good news. When we are down, we simply can't

think straight. I am the same way.

I think of you so much, and so pray for you to have better health. You

need a break from all you have been through.

I just want to tell you that I am doing better, and have a court date

next month to see the Judge, and get some support money from my husband.

He feels it is all his, and I am due nothing. I have no idea when we go

to court for the divorce. Who would have thought a year ago, I would be

dealing with all this pain and suffering. I am much better, stronger,

in all ways. I finally stopped all that crying, which I am so grateful

for. I didn't know when I could start to heal and feel better. It is

still very painful, and a great sadness for me and my family and

friends. I truly don't know if I will ever recover from this. He has

broken my heart, and I have loved him since the day I met him. I will

love him till the day I die. I tried so hard to save my marriage, but I

could not do it alone. All I asked him to do was go to a marriage

councelor and he refused. He wanted me to come home and continue our

marriage as if he did nothing wrong. I could not do it. I am a

survivor that's for sure.

I am going home to Mass. Sept 1 for a few days to spend time with my

daughter, son-in-law, and my beautiful little granddaughters. They are

now 2 and 3. I can't wait to get them in my arms. It will be a happy

trip home.

Please take care of yourself. You are in my prayers, and thoughts. It

is always nice to chat with you.

Hugs, your friend,

Barbara

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> > So far at one week and still holding @ hgb of 8.4....Hope this can

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> maintained.? Maybe the unit of iron per week is helping.

> > I? see the oncologist tomorrow.....keep fingers crossed!!!!!

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> > Gentle,tender angel hugs from FL.........................

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> > Debs in FL

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> > [ ] Patsy to Debs re: low hemoglobin

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> > I am really surprised that you have not been given intermuscular

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> with a needle.? That is what it took for me to get better.? I had lost

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> lot of blood in surgury.? It was before RA.

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> > I will pray for you.? SO SORRY YOU ARE GOING THROUGH SUCH A BAD

TIME!

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> > Sincerely,

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> > Patsy

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