Guest guest Posted March 19, 2009 Report Share Posted March 19, 2009 oh god bless you, elly. you and barbara both. going thru a divorce, moving, it is so hard. if i wasn't 67 yrs. o0ld, and if i was able, i would have left a long time ago. for mostly the same reasons you have. i have a hubby that just doesn't want to hear that i am sick .... i have to be up doing something, or i am sorry and lazy. i have to do for him and his son , along with his two grandchildren. i am so tired and hurt so bad all the time, i just find me a corner and cry. theres nothing else i can do. when you said that everyone deserved to be loved, it really broke my heart... heres wishing you love, and hugs..... BETTY PRAY FOR OUR TROOPS MAY NO SOLDIER GO UNLOVED, MAY NO SOLDIER WALK ALONE, MAY NO SOLDIER BE FORGOTTEN, UNTIL THEY ALL COME HOME. SOLDIER'S ANGELS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 Hi Betty: God, it is just awful what you are going through because of your insensitve husband. I don't know how you can endure it day after day. I feel so sorry for you. You know Betty, it is never too late to start over. I know how much that stress makes your RA worse. It is awful that you have to suffer so. I always thought charity begins at home. Maybe he needs to read all about RA, what it is doing to our bodies, and the pain and suffering we have to endure each and every day. I know there are days when just trying to get out of bed and walk, is more than I can endure. My feet and ankles are the worst during a flare. You should not feel guilty about trying to take it easy. With these auto immune diseases, we have to pace ourselves and rest each and every day. It is critical for us. I used to feel guilty if I laid down or didn't do things in my home. I found out the hard way. My Rheumy insisted that I pace myself, and if I felt crappy, just lie down and take a nap and rest. I finally got it. I hope you can find a way to make life easier for you. Please, take time for yourself. Too much comes out of you if you don't do it. I pray that things will go better for you, so you can start to feel better. Life is much to short to have to deal with what you have to deal with on a daily basis. God Bless you Betty, and take better care of yourself. Wishing you better days ahead. Hugs, Barbara > > oh god bless you, elly. you and barbara both. going thru a divorce, moving, it is so hard. if i wasn't 67 yrs. o0ld, and if i was able, i would have left a long time ago. for mostly the same reasons you have. i have a hubby that just doesn't want to hear that i am sick .... i have to be up doing something, or i am sorry and lazy. i have to do for him and his son , along with his two grandchildren. i am so tired and hurt so bad all the time, i just find me a corner and cry. theres nothing else i can do. > when you said that everyone deserved to be loved, it really broke my heart... > > heres wishing you love, and hugs..... > > BETTY > > PRAY FOR OUR TROOPS > > MAY NO SOLDIER GO UNLOVED, MAY NO SOLDIER WALK ALONE, MAY NO SOLDIER BE FORGOTTEN, UNTIL THEY ALL COME HOME. > > SOLDIER'S ANGELS > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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