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Maisa-

Congratulations on your baby! I am looking forward to hearing about your

experiences with breastfeeding! Perhaps, you can teach us something! : ) It

is too bad that our American culture has not followed the rest of the world

their support of breastfeeding! My name is , mommy to

(11-15-95) and I am 38 weeks pregnant with Madeline (?-?-99) I am looking

forward to BF this new little one...hopefully she will be here soon! : )

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In a message dated 5/6/99 8:21:22 AM Eastern Daylight Time,

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<< We live in GA. Look forward to getting to know you. This list

is great!!!

Martha >>

Where do you live at in GA?

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welcome to the list beth....i am Martha SAHM to Hannah (7-21-97) and

(11-30-98) is nursing along great. Welcome to the list these ladies

KNOW what they are talking about.

Martha

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Beth,

Welcome to the list. I am wendi sahm to Kaija 7yo (homeschools) and Zaid 18

months (nursing) I am married and live in No. Ca.

Wendi

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From: Bettie3mom@...

Hi, My name is Beth and I am a SAHM to three children; (7), Emma (4),

and Caleb who will turn 1 on the 18th. I've been married to my husband Brent

for almost 10 years. All three of our children were/are breastfed, and we

practice baby-led weaning. and Emma both weaned at 3 and Caleb is

showing no signs of slowing down. This seems like a wonderful supportive

list, and I'm excited to be a part of it.

Beth =)

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original article:/group/rosacea-support/?start=5868

> Hello

Hi, !

> I recently joined the list.

>

Welcome to the group!

>

> 1 Can anyone explain the role aspirin plays in fare-ups?

Aspirin has both analgesic (pain-killing) and anti-inflammatory properties.=

Some people find that aspirin helps during a rosacea flare by reducing inf=

lammation -- inflammation is a common characteristic of rosacea flares -- an=

d also relieving some of the burning or pain which may accompany a flare.

>

> 2 Have many of you been diagnosed at relatively young ages?

I was initially diagnosed at 34, although given what I now know about rosac=

ea I am convinced I've had it since at least my late 20's.

> 3 Have any of you attempted to confront those medical practitioners who

> misdiagnosed you, and have you felt any beneficial effect from it?

No. I don't think if would do a log of good, even for the practitioners. =

Putting someone on the spot that way is more likely to evoke a defensive res=

ponse than a genuinely attentive response. In any event, rosacea is a condi=

tion that is still not well understood. It is only recently receiving the s=

cientific study it (and we) deserves. Since it is primarily a condition of =

the middle-aged (and here I swore I'd NEVER be middle-aged!) it is now affec=

ting the baby-boomers. So it is finally getting some serious attention, bec=

ause, as we all know, when the baby-boomers start getting something en masse=

, the medical community is quick to respond to their vociferous demands for =

treatment. Strength in numbers!

>

>

> 5 How does one deal with the social effects of this disease? For instance=

,

> I've been to one club in my life and I still get pangs of social inadequa=

cy

> due to my 6 years of hermitage.

Wear makeup as needed (Dermablend is a good covering makeup, as is Covermar=

k, and they can be used with lighter makeups -- you'll need to look around a=

bit to find one that won't cause your skin to react) and just ignore it dur=

ing " good " periods. Whatever you do, DON'T HIDE OUT! You need to be in cha=

rge of the disease and not let the disease be in charge of you!

>

> Sorry for the length of this email

Not at all. You should see the length of some of mine!

Anne

>

>

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Hi Carolyn,

I have no idea where Boulder is but it would seem that our

situations are somewhat similar, although I am about a year ahead of

you.

You don't say how long Jon has known of the pregnancy? It can be a

bit of a shock at first for them. They need time to adjust to it.

I met my husband in September 1997 and married on 28th February

1998 (5 months later) and got pregnant on honeymoon! I was scared

stiff of telling him I was pregnant as it was far too soon. I was

also scared of being happy about it myself because of his reaction.

He came around after a while but everything was an uphill struggle

with our relatively new relationship as I was very sick in the

pregnancy and was off work for over 3 months and then only managed to

work from home for a couple of months before finally giving up. The

hormonal emotions through pregnancy can never really be understood by

our male counterparts, so sometimes it is best to talk to women who

have experienced the same so I guess you have come to the right place

here. (I am new to this group too BTW)

My husband turns out to be an Owl whereas I am a Lark, so he too

comes to bed late.... even now, and yes he too is ALWAYS tired. I

plum for the spare room if required for a few nights. He spent most

of my pregnancy on the sofa (we were in a smaller house then)as my

hormones really upset my sleeping, don't think I have recovered yet.

I am getting convinced that it is a male thing about not being

loving nor communicating and it can be very frustrating for us

females.

As for:-

> I AM WONDERING....SHOULD I EVEN KEEP THIS BABY???

If your Christian quote is anything to go by you shouldn't even be

contemplating doing anything other than to keep your baby.

> The Lord replied, " My son, my precious child, I love you and I will

never

> leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see

only one

> set of footprints, it was then that I carried you. "

As hard as it is to trust in the LORD sometimes, we should do just

that. Keep in touch Carolyn, you'll get through this.

BJ

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BJ said..... I am getting convinced that it is a male thing about not

being

loving nor communicating and it can be very frustrating for us

females.

-----------

Try reading ''Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus'' by Gray. It

sheds a lot of light on why men react in the ways you describe and gives

strategies for dealing with it.

Lesley

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Thanks Lesley,

Got it, but didn't get any strategies out of it... perhaps I'll

try again.

> Try reading ''Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus'' by

Gray. and gives

> strategies for dealing with it.

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Hi Carolyn,

I hope you are feeling better this evening. Pregnancy can be very stressful.

Does your husband have any friends with young children he can speak too? It is

very frightening as you know, thinking about bringing a little one into the

world. Do you know any of his mates enough to ask them to speak to him and see

if they can get to the bottom of his feelings?

Good luck and we are always here to listen

Mc

SAHM 6, Olivia 3, 1, 15/3/00.

nearly ex-Editor Wallingford and District

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I love to hear those stories. I have a dog and kitten now and they

are my world aside from my husband.

Onery1 wrote:

Whups

did I write blur front lol? Sorry, meant Blue. He's a parrot and quite

loveable. He came from a home where he was abused and it's taken me six

years to tame him down. But he now lives quite happily in a cage big enough

for me to fit inside (I'm 5' 2" and have a bit of breadth to me). He terrorizes

the dogs (Australian blue-heeler - Malibu and Shit-Zoo - Ozzie) and the

two cats (alley cats leopard Charcoal and panther Katya) and so he rules

the roost. I let him out from time to time and he flies wherever he wants.

I just have to have covers on his favorite furniture because he likes to

rip the rolled edging. He thinks they were made with him in mind. Yes,

they are very therapeutic. They mourn when I cry and they play when I laugh.

If I have to sleep all day, they gladly come and curl around me soothing

me with purring. Malibu even tries to purr and it comes out something like

a mild snore but its quite comforting. They never get mad at me and they

always have time for me. I guess they're about the best friends a person

can have. Now, , aren't you glad you asked? LOL Marla May

I ask what a blur-front amazon is? Is it a lizard?

I have a dog and a kitten and they are my life. Pets are so theurapeutic.

Onery1 wrote:

>

> Hi all

>

> My name is Marla. I live in Central Illinois. After a TAH/BSO

w/lysis of

> adhesions 4/99 I have been in excruciating (one doctor called

it exquisite

> but I prefer to use that word when describing a cashmere sweater)

pain

> since. I have seen 2 GI's, Neurologist, Anesthesiologist, a new

OB/GYN and

> went through 6 PCP's before being sent to a Rheumatologist 8/29/00

who

> diagnosed at least part of the problem to be FMS. She told me

to start an

> exercise program walking at least two blocks every day (her comment

was

> since you are already in pain what's a little more gonna hurt),

go back on

> Celexa (because anyone in chronic pain has depression donchaknow),

and stop

> smoking (I smoke about ten cigs a day but that didn't make any

diff to her.

> She has _never_ seen anyone with FMS get better and still smoke.

Guess I'll

> be a first, eh?) and that was it. She told me nothing about it

nor what

> symptoms led her to dx FMS. Needless to say, I won't be seeing

her again.

> The Anesthesiologist has me on Methadone, titrating down Neurontin

(I will

> be off completely in two weeks) and Elavil. In addition to that

I take

> Calcium (well Tums), Iron, Garlic and Dong Quoi supplements.

>

> I'm an empty nester and have found that I quite enjoy living

alone and find

> myself to be good company. I shouldn't really say that. I have

two dogs, two

> cats and a blue-front amazon. At least one of them can talk back.

I read

> voraciously and used to be very involved in my community. Now

all my time is

> spent researching my illnesses and basically doing legwork for

the doctors.

> I used to think it was their job but the past year and half has

opened my

> eyes.

>

> As you can tell, I have a wry sense of humor (One(w)ry1 or Ornery

One

> whatever suits your fancy) and everything I say should be taken

with one or

> two grains of salt. I look forward to getting to know you all

and happy to

> let you get to know me.

>

> Blessings,

> Marla

>

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I love to hear those stories. I have a dog and kitten now and they

are my world aside from my husband.

Onery1 wrote:

Whups

did I write blur front lol? Sorry, meant Blue. He's a parrot and quite

loveable. He came from a home where he was abused and it's taken me six

years to tame him down. But he now lives quite happily in a cage big enough

for me to fit inside (I'm 5' 2" and have a bit of breadth to me). He terrorizes

the dogs (Australian blue-heeler - Malibu and Shit-Zoo - Ozzie) and the

two cats (alley cats leopard Charcoal and panther Katya) and so he rules

the roost. I let him out from time to time and he flies wherever he wants.

I just have to have covers on his favorite furniture because he likes to

rip the rolled edging. He thinks they were made with him in mind. Yes,

they are very therapeutic. They mourn when I cry and they play when I laugh.

If I have to sleep all day, they gladly come and curl around me soothing

me with purring. Malibu even tries to purr and it comes out something like

a mild snore but its quite comforting. They never get mad at me and they

always have time for me. I guess they're about the best friends a person

can have. Now, , aren't you glad you asked? LOL Marla May

I ask what a blur-front amazon is? Is it a lizard?

I have a dog and a kitten and they are my life. Pets are so theurapeutic.

Onery1 wrote:

>

> Hi all

>

> My name is Marla. I live in Central Illinois. After a TAH/BSO

w/lysis of

> adhesions 4/99 I have been in excruciating (one doctor called

it exquisite

> but I prefer to use that word when describing a cashmere sweater)

pain

> since. I have seen 2 GI's, Neurologist, Anesthesiologist, a new

OB/GYN and

> went through 6 PCP's before being sent to a Rheumatologist 8/29/00

who

> diagnosed at least part of the problem to be FMS. She told me

to start an

> exercise program walking at least two blocks every day (her comment

was

> since you are already in pain what's a little more gonna hurt),

go back on

> Celexa (because anyone in chronic pain has depression donchaknow),

and stop

> smoking (I smoke about ten cigs a day but that didn't make any

diff to her.

> She has _never_ seen anyone with FMS get better and still smoke.

Guess I'll

> be a first, eh?) and that was it. She told me nothing about it

nor what

> symptoms led her to dx FMS. Needless to say, I won't be seeing

her again.

> The Anesthesiologist has me on Methadone, titrating down Neurontin

(I will

> be off completely in two weeks) and Elavil. In addition to that

I take

> Calcium (well Tums), Iron, Garlic and Dong Quoi supplements.

>

> I'm an empty nester and have found that I quite enjoy living

alone and find

> myself to be good company. I shouldn't really say that. I have

two dogs, two

> cats and a blue-front amazon. At least one of them can talk back.

I read

> voraciously and used to be very involved in my community. Now

all my time is

> spent researching my illnesses and basically doing legwork for

the doctors.

> I used to think it was their job but the past year and half has

opened my

> eyes.

>

> As you can tell, I have a wry sense of humor (One(w)ry1 or Ornery

One

> whatever suits your fancy) and everything I say should be taken

with one or

> two grains of salt. I look forward to getting to know you all

and happy to

> let you get to know me.

>

> Blessings,

> Marla

>

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Well I get up your way from time to time dealing with another set of

symptoms unrelated to the FMS but also causing pain. I go to Univ of Chi Pain

Center, Dr. Fisher. Ever heard of them? Personally, I've had great experience

with them.

I'm so glad you were able to get out and about for a bit. A change of scenery is

rather nice now and then isn't it? And so much more so when you get to meet some

buddies!

Marla

Welcome Marla!

I'm in Illinois also, but up North near the Wisconsin border. I just got

back from a 4 day mini-vacation to TN, and oh am I paying for all that time

driving and then site-seeing! At this point in time, I can put up with the

pain if I think back on all the fun I had of finally meeting my computer

" gang " for the first time.

M. :)

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Dear :

Oh no, it doesn't depress me. It took me a while (at least 18 mos) to get in

this condition so I figured it would take at least twice as long to get back on

track. I'm ready for the battles but I'm not sure I'm well prepared for the war.

That's why I'm trying to find out as much as I can. And I've already learned the

best source is those who share the disease. I can't take naproxen because it

causes an allergic reaction. Can't breathe, skin wells up. I'm on methadone for

the pain right now but that's for the abdominal pain. My PCP suggested trying

Advil for the FMS. My Rheumy didn't suggest anything for pain but more pain (ie

exercise).

Marla

> that's the best news I've had all day. How long did it take

you to 'feeling great' and what therapy did you use?

>

> Marla

Don't let this depress you but it took me 6 years to get back to

almost normal again. The only therapy I did was exercise. After I

exercised I would soak in a very hot tub. I took naproxen for the

pain. And drank knox gelleton once a day. But have changed to Protein

Whey now.

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Bruce,

Welcome to the fibro family. I hope that somehow we can be of comfort

or will have some of the answers to any questions you may have regarding

fibro. I used to take Ultram, but it made me ill, so I stopped. Now I am

on oxycontin and prayer. I think that prayer works better than the oxy

however. Anyhow, once again, welcome and I look forward to hearing more

from you.

Debbie G.

Introduction

> Hello.

>

> I am a new list subscriber. I have fibromyalgia. My fibromyalgia can be

> traced back about ten years to a bout of mononucleosis than landed me in

the

> hospital near death, My immune system shut down. The past ten years my

> health has declined. I was officially diagnosed with fibromyalgia about 4

> years ago. I have gone from a work 18 hour a day minister, sports playing

> fanatic, to a over weight man who is in alot of pain and would be on

> disability if I could get it. I am not eligible for disability because I

> opted out of Social Security when I was 21. Ah, the decisions we make when

> we are young and healthy. I take Ultram for pain and I am on doxepin for

> sleep. I also take aspirin.

> No complaints. I have learned in whatever state I am to be content. God

ahs

> been faithful to me in the midst of my affliction.

>

> I am a minister. Trained as a Baptist, I have been preaching for 25 years.

> (started at age 19) I am married to a wonderful woman named Polly. (22

> years) We have six children, 4 boys ages 21,19,16 and 7 and two girls ages

> 11 and 7. Our eleven year old girl has Down Syndrome. All of our children

> are at home. My two oldest sons and my wife work at Sauder's Woodworking

in

> Archbold, Ohio.

>

> We live in rural NW Ohio. I pastor Our Father's House in West Unity.

> www.our-fathers-house.org

> We have been here 6 years. Most of our ministry years were spent in SE

Ohio.

> (Newark, Zanesville area) You can check out our web site to find

additional

> info about our Church and family.

>

> I look forward to participating on this list. Thank you for allowing me to

> be a part of this.

>

> Bruce Gerencser

>

>

>

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Welcome ,

I also am a new member to the group. My name is Cat. I am 43 years old, and

I have been sick my entire life. Diagnosed with Pancreas Divisum in 1992,

and I have had to change my eating habits drastically, not only for this

digestive disease but for others as well (check out my recent posts). I can

sympathize with a craving for fatty foods, but you must eat a low-fat diet,

including eliminating red meat as much as possible. Ah for that prime rib

dinner......Well anyway, it can be done..I choose the food for my household,

and my husband eats exactly what I eat. (He has no digestive diseases so of

course he eats far more than I am able to. Not only does he feel better,

younger, more energetic, but he lost 17 lbs without even trying.)

As with all digestive diseases, Diet is paramount, especially if you haven't

already had severe damage. I do get frustrated sometimes with so many

restrictions, it just doesn't seem fair...But then, I wouldn't be fair to

myself, if I didn't try to prevent further damage. Changing a diet can be

done. None of want to get to the point of not being able to eat at all, as

so many are suffering. I am not saying that your diet will cure you, but it

is a very important step in managing this terrible disease.

I would be happy to provide more tips on eating low-fat (I strive for

fat-free, but it's just not always possible). Let me know.

Another newbie!

Cat

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In a message dated 10/20/00 2:09:21 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

blockr2775@... writes:

<< expect to have many other questions in the future. This is just the

beginning. Hopefully I shall learn how to aid others as well. Having been a

novice at many other things, I know that I have much to learn before I can

contribute much. I look forward to a long learning relationship.

Lockridge

>>

Welcome , you will get an education here that will be so helpful with

your disease. Hopefully if you keep a very strict diet and go by all the

rules you will not have another attack especially since you have only had

one. I am hoping that you are finished with pancreas attacks. Do everything

you can to prevent more attacks because they get worse as you have more of

them AT least for me they did. Take care, Shirley

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Hi

welcome. You will find much here. Information, friendship, love and

support. I was diagnosed with pancreatitis in March of this year and

am currently back in the hospital with pancreatitis with levels of

over 9000. It is a hard road to follow, and I am new enough to it

that I am not sure what to tell you except to hang in there!

Be well,

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Hi !

Congratulations and welcome! You've found a great group! Sounds like

you're doing all the right things. That's great you've found a nutritionist

with that specialty.

There's a lot of wonderful information to be had here so, ask away!

Blessings,

in California

EDD March 20, 2002 with baby #1

Introduction

I just wanted to take a moment and introduce myself. My name is

and I am 32 yo and live in Alpharetta, GA (northern suburb of

Atlanta). I have been married for 13 years. I have two beautiful

girls, na is 11 and le is 2. I am pregnant w/#3 and due

April 11, 2002. I had open rny on March 27, 2001 - yes, that was

only 5 months ago - and I am almost 3 months pregnant. OOPS!!! Pre-

op weight was 245. 5 1/2 months later I now weigh 160. A total loss

of 85 lbs. Not yet to my goal weight - but that can wait until after

this healthy baby is delivered next year. I enjoy reading everyone's

posts and just wanted to take the time to introduce myself and see if

anyone had any pointers. I've already seen a nutritionist that

specializes in pregnant patients who have had WLS. I'm also seeing a

neonatologist so I can keep a close eye on the development of this

baby. I work full-time and will return to work after 6 weeks

maternity leave. That's about it.

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Hi Gizelle and Welcome. I hope that you will be pregnant soon. I had my

surgery on 1/28/00 and am 6 months pregnant. Welcome again to our group.

Keep us posted on babymaking ;).

Rhonda

Introduction

> Hello everyone,

>

> I had introduced myself before but am going to do it again. My name is

> Gizelle (pronounced Key-Cell) I had my surgery 1/27/00 and have lost

130lbs.

> and am very happy to report my system is working assisted by 50mg of

clomid.

> We are on our second round of clomid and are very hopeful & prayerful that

it

> will happen this month. We are going to be filmed for a TV segment

(because

> my husband, mother, & sister also had the surgery) and I would like to

tell

> them about my pregnancy. Keep us in your prayers that it will happen this

> month.

>

> Gizelle & :-)

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At 02:49 PM 9/26/2001 -0700, Vickie wrote:

>I'm mostly concerned about weight gain during pregnancy,

>and how fast it comes off (after RNY).

Hi Vickie and welcome. I am the resident Doula and former/soon-to-be-again

Licensed Midwife who has also had RNY.

There are many factors to that question and much of it has to do with YOU

in the same way " normal " postpartum women have to work to get their

pregnancy fat off, so will you. However, post-ops seem to gain less weight

than pre-ops and that weight seems to be quality weight... nourishing the

baby as opposed to (only) padding your hips.

> I gained about 50 pounds during

>my first pregnancy and my son was 10 pounds 4 ounces!

Whether you were diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes or not, you most

likely had some form of it. Women simply do not have babies that big and

not have some issues with insulin and glucoses. I passed all three of my

GTTs with flying colors (pre-op, mind you), yet my kidlets were 9lbs 4oz,

10lbs 6oz, and 8lbs 13.5oz. I have watched over the last 19 years as women

who passed GTTs during pregnancy, once they hit 40 years old, develop

diabetes and, in many instances, PCOS along with it. Having babies over

8lbs 13oz is almost certainly a premonition to diabetes in the midlife.

By having surgery, however, you have, most likely, taken charge of your BGs

and those insulin issues are probably a thing of the past. This upcoming

pregnancy will probably be much different for you, but many of the

wonderful women here can share their happy stories with you regarding that.

> I also did not

>experience any morning sickness with him. I'm kind of hoping for it

>this time to help keep the weight gain down.

PLEASE LISTEN: When you are pregnant post-op, you are NOT getting

fat!!! YOU ARE GROWING A BABY!!!! While most nausea during pregnancy is

normal, extreme nausea and especially vomiting *can* cause severe

nutritional deficiencies for you AND the baby. And nausea and vomiting in

a post-op is especially critical to watch closely because of our

malabsorption in the first place.

>Another question: Can we have the sugar free candy and ice cream with

>the sugar alcohols and/or splenda or equal in it during pregnancy? Is

>it ok for the baby.

Sf anything needs to be watched because of the side effect of the Sorbitol

of diarrhea and stomach upset. Equal/NutraSweet/Aspartame and Saccharine

should NEVER be taken by pregnant or nursing moms or kids under 10 (and why

should WE use it if it does this to our babies' brains?!)... there is too

much evidence, especially with Aspartame, that there is damage to the

baby's brain and neurological development (check out the Web... there is a

lot of info out there).

>Also: Should I shop around for a special OB?

You will not find many OBs with WLS experience. You might find yourself

educating your own doctor... sharing information about nutrition, liquid

needs, protein needs, etc. But, you will be laying the groundwork for

those that come after you... a Pioneer, if you will... for, certainly,

there are MANY women coming behind you!

>Will I be considered High Risk since I've had the surgery?

From what I know, most women are not considered High Risk... they are

watched nutritionally and labwork-wise a tad more closely, but that doesn't

necessarily mean High Risk. Others on this list can share their

experiences, too.

Good luck, Vickie... and I know I speak for others in welcoming you to our

wonderful group!

Barbara Herrera

San Diego, CA - 40 years old

Open RNY April 5, 2001

Dr. Ellner, Alvarado Hospital, San Diego, CA

4/5/01: 344# BMI: 63

8/24/01: 244# BMI: 45 (minus 100 pounds!)

9/26/01: 226# BMI: 41.3

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Hi

Welcome to the group. I had my surgery in August 2000 and I am now

32 weeks pregnant. I had RNY so I am not eating a whole lot of food,

somehow I have gained 30 lbs. I have had some problems with preterm

labor but that is not due to surgery at all. I had the same problem

with my son born before surgery. I don't really know what to tell

you except listen to what your OB and surgeon tell you to do and make

sure you take your vitamins. Everyone here is really nice and very

helpful so stay in touch with the board. It will provide a lot of

information and support.

Jen

PS I lost 130 lbs after surgery.

> Hello,

>

> My name is . I just joined this group. I had RNY surgery in

> June of 1999. I am 29, been married 6 years and am trying to have

my

> first baby. I tried to get pregnant for a year before my surgery,

> but went back on BC so I could have the surgery. Last June, Dr.

> Poplawski gave me permission to go ahead and try to get pregnant.

I

> came here just to get info on others who have tried to get pregnant

> after surgery, are pregnant, or have already had their children to

> see if there is anything different than those who have not had this

> surgery. I am thinking that I will have a healthier pregnancy than

I

> would have before, being 130 pounds overweight. I look forward to

> getting to know you.

>

> from NW Ohio

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Jen,

I would guess that you gained a little more because of the bedrest, don't you

think?

You're off bedrest now, I thought I remember you saying, so perhaps you'll level

off.

Kris

inej22 wrote:

> I had RNY so I am not eating a whole lot of food,

> somehow I have gained 30 lbs.

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Yeah I think it was because of the bedrest. My dr is very happy with

the weight that I have gained. I am 5'9 " so 200 lbs is an ok weight

for 7 months preg. I am confident I will be able to lose it when I

am done. I was kinda scary looking pre-pregnancy b/c I looked a

little too skinny.

>

> > I had RNY so I am not eating a whole lot of food,

> > somehow I have gained 30 lbs.

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Hi Terrill!

We had our surgeries only a week apart! I hope that this pregnancy is good

news for you and your husband. 18 months is a little extreme for waiting

time, but my surgeon said that if everything is working at 12 months after

surgery and there haven't been any complications and your bloodwork is in

the acceptable ranges, then there is no reason why you shouldn't start

working on a family.

Here is some encouragement-

Relax and know that you and your husband are preparing to bring a special

little person into this world and you have been chosen to be its parents!

What an incredible blessing and honor!

When it comes to eating, you might want to consult with a dietitian to make

sure you are getting all the right stuff to this little guy or gal.

Pregnancy can be overwhelming, but wonderful as well. Take each day as a

new adventure and remember this- you will always remember that baby's first

kick no matter how old you get!

/Colorado

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