Guest guest Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 Thanks for the link. Now that you mention it, I don’t think the doctor checked my Vit. D last month when I had everything else checked. It was okay the time before though, so I’m not going to worry too much about it. And yes, I do know about EFT and have done it at times. I don’t know if it helps but I agree it doesn’t hurt. I would like to add something about your dog getting injured. I had my own dog grooming business for over 18 years and then spent another 15 years as a Veterinarian's Assistant. What happened to you with your dog was perfectly normal. Our pets are the same as adopted children. They are our children. We feel the same as we would if we had given birth to them. When something happens to them, we feel it as we would feel something that happened to one of our children. You too, were in a state of stress and shock. What you felt was your body’s reaction to what happened and then it helping you to begin to cope with the situation. Judy H To Health Through Knowledge Started taking Low Dose Naltrexone on January 20, 2009 for Fibromyalgia, Restless Legs Syndrome, Hashimotos Thyroid and PCOS http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/LDNforFibro/ From: Joanne Ford Sent: Monday, August 27, 2012 10:21 PM To: fibromyalgiacured Subject: Re: Judy: Atrial-Fibrillation, vitamin D Judy A new study is claiming Vitamin D can also be healpful for Atrial-Fibrillation. I get my vitamin D from cod liver oil and a halibut oil. In the winter a SAD lamp can also help the body with Vitamin D absorbtion http://www.livestrong.com/article/489912-vitamin-d-atrial-fibrillation-problems/ I know friends that are using EFT (Tapping) for this condition. I have not seen them for a while so do not know how they are getting on, but i really cannot see Tapping doing any harm I di sometimes worry about my heart, especially when I get stressed or cannot walk far. I have not really had it tested, and perhaps should, but saying that, when I am feeling OK I never worry about it. just got a bit anxious, last week when my dog got bit, I had such a weird sensation, it numbed out but later really ached. I am fine now. I might mention this when I see the doctor, but you know what the anxiety they give me down there sometimes really puts me off. Overall I do think it is just anxiety with me, but then when I feel off balanced with it I get wondering. We will have to see I so do hope you get well with this Judy. I will pray for you, I do know how hard you have been working with your health Love joanne From: Judy Harford <mailto:jlharford%40msn.com> To: mailto:fibromyalgiacured%40yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, 27 August 2012, 22:51 Subject: Re: Judy: cytokines can be increased by poor sleep and lack of magnesium I have been taking added Magnesium for quite a while, but when I started having Atrial-Fibrillation, I saw that one of the things that may be causing it is a lack of Magnesium. Now I take the Nature’s Calm Magnesium as well as the added pill. I can’t really tell yet if it has helped the A-Fib, but it has helped me to be more regular. Thanks for this article. Judy H To Health Through Knowledge Started taking Low Dose Naltrexone on January 20, 2009 for Fibromyalgia, Restless Legs Syndrome, Hashimotos Thyroid and PCOS http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/LDNforFibro/ From: Joanne Ford Sent: Monday, August 27, 2012 2:13 PM To: mailto:fibromyalgiacured%40yahoogroups.com Subject: Judy: cytokines can be increased by poor sleep and lack of magnesium Judy i had an article that was saying much the same as what this article you have posted is saying but I cannot find it. If I do I will share it with the group In the meantime I have remembered this article that talks about cytokines increasing due to lack of sleep, which can be caused by low magnesium http://stuff.mit.edu/people/london/magnesium.html I have been taking the magnesium for a long time now and had not really recognised its significance, but when my dad started to use it regularly I seriously noticed an improvement with his illness. I used to crave chocolate like mad, especially when i was stressed, and so for me I think that a lack of magnesium was relavent. Also the high carb intake was feeding the anxiety and depression. I so think insulin resistance and hypoglycemia were also playing a role, but as the article above shows, low magnesium can influence this too Hope this helps. I do tend to look at the illness from the low dopamine angle but there are a lot of things influencing this. I said to my dad only the other day, we can change one or two things with one of two supplements, but the get well the body needs all the nutrients it needs, just be low in one nutrient and a thousand things can go wrong Thanks for sharing this Judy, it has helped me relook at a few things Love Joanne From: Judy Harford <mailto:jlharford%40msn.com> To: Fibromyalgia Support Group <mailto:Fibromyalgia_Support_Group%40yahoogroups.com>; mailto:fibromyalgiacured%40yahoogroups.com; LDNforFibro <mailto:LDNforFibro%40yahoogroups.com> Sent: Monday, 27 August 2012, 15:36 Subject: Some food for thought today I don’t belong to this website, but someone sent me the link to this article. I thought that others with Fibromyalgia might find it interesting too. http://www.fmnetnews.com/free-articles/article-samples/why-head-to-toe-pain Judy H To Health Through Knowledge Started taking Low Dose Naltrexone on January 20, 2009 for Fibromyalgia, Restless Legs Syndrome, Hashimotos Thyroid and PCOS http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/LDNforFibro/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 29, 2012 Report Share Posted August 29, 2012 Okay, I’m not a medical person in any way although at one time I did consider becoming a doctor. I do think we are much alike in that we are both very sensitive to the signals we get from other people. In my life it made me work very well with animals. I could empathize with them and they could feel my empathy. In my opinion, I would guess that something happened to you when you were very young that caused you to feel bad about being sick. Who knows what it was, but you were probably feeling bad anyway and someone did or said something that hurt you deeply at the time. This had possibly even happened more than once. Because you were a very sensitive person, this affected you more than it would most people. Gradually, this became more ingrained in you as time went on. Along the way then someone made you feel ashamed about this. This too has increased as you’ve gotten older. The main thing now is that you recognize it. Knowledge is power. Once you know something about yourself that you don’t like, you can change it. Of course you can’t change your core, your sensitivity, but then you wouldn’t want to as that is what makes you, YOU. What you need to do is, the next time you are in a situation like this and realize it. Stop and smile. You don’t need to deny. You don’t need to hide. You don’t need to feel ashamed. Instead of thinking about you, make it about the other person. Say something like, “Thank you for asking. And how are you doing?†Then really listen. And I’ll bet you do that already more than you think you do. I actually learned this from observing my mother. She was another person who was very sensitive and very sickly. Unfortunately she never learned how to handle it. She was a very sad person. I think I only have one or two photos of her smiling. I’m not sure when it was, but I suddenly realized that she was so concerned with her own problems that she didn’t have a connection with the wonderful world around her. I then realized that I was becoming the same way and I didn’t want to be that way. I wanted to be happy. I wanted to be outgoing. I wanted to be an optimistic person, not an unhappy, withdrawn, pessimistic person. I started observing other people to see what they were doing. I realized that most of the people that I admired were people who were more concerned with other people than they were themselves. They didn’t just sit and wait for people to notice them, but they went out and approached people and asked them how they were doing. It is still hard for me to do this as it is still a work in progress for me, but I’m finding that it is easier and easier the more I do it. So the next time you start to get that feeling, why don’t you try this. Consciously try to take the situation away from yourself and your problems and concentrate on the people around you. Not that you aren’t just as important as they are, but that you don’t need to be overly concerned about yourself and what other people are thinking of you. You are just the loving, concerned friend that everyone seeks out. Good luck with this. Judy H To Health Through Knowledge Started taking Low Dose Naltrexone on January 20, 2009 for Fibromyalgia, Restless Legs Syndrome, Hashimotos Thyroid and PCOS http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/LDNforFibro/ From: Joanne Ford Sent: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 7:28 AM To: fibromyalgiacured Subject: Re: Judy: Atrial-Fibrillation, vitamin D Judy Thank you so much for recognising this in me. I have so much trouble identifying what is physical and what is emotional sometimes, and both are related and effect each other, we here definately know that. I do not know exactly what goes on with me when I have these episodes but they are very dramatic. Throughout most days I work hard to avoid the dramatic, since I know how easily I could be disabkled from it, as in the past, but this avoidance, I think might also weaken our ability to cope when stress does come My family, my extended family and even my children are much more cool about their negative emotions, than I am with mine. They rant and rave quit often and could not care less who see's them or what folk think of them. My children are not exactly aggressive nor cruel with it, not like other folk I know, thay are more swearing and breaking things and then laughing it off. I do not approve of this either, I really give them jip about it, but it does seem to me that folk that do immediately expess their destress much more quickly recover and recover more healthily. With me a small stress can go swirling around me for days and days. I do know the diet helps, but I think some for of exercise would help me too at these times, trouble is stress makes me so very tired and I do not get motivated this way Also, something else I have noticed is that when thee episodes occur, on top of the anguish, the terror or the sadness or what ever it is I am feeling, enormous shame always accompanies it. Like at the time when this was going on, I went to church and started to feel faint. Folk saw me holding my head and stomach and were asking me if I was OK. As they asked, I got in a terrible panic thinkig they will think I am weak and useless, and I started to try to deny what was happening. the more they asked me if I was fine the more I tried to hide it and the more I got in a state. This too, is a thing with me, I do feel enormous shame around illness, my own illness that is, not other peoples, for other people I always feel deep compasion, sometimes too much compasion but with me it is shame Even today when I was at church a lady that does not know me well asked how I was this week. she had seen me last time, when I was feeling faint and was asking because of that. Again an enormous feeling of deep shame overcame me, and I wanted to just run away from this woman. I bearly new her but just did not want her to think that I am a sickly person. I think this goes back to all the many doctors visits in the past when I told them I was ill and they said there was nothing wrong with me, and my family said that too. they said I was attention seeking, and this was both when I was a child and as an adult. It was clearly fibro, or the build up to fibro in the past that was making me ill, but I did not know that and when everybody in the past was telling me there was nothing wrong with me, I did in the end doubt it. I was so hard on myself because of this, telling myself to get my act together, and really talking to myself in the wrong way. I do believe this harshness led to more damage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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