Re: Lovell: the Power Of Now

[Guest guest]

I will check it out. 

Thanks,

Lovell

________________________________

To: " fibromyalgiacured " <fibromyalgiacured >

Sent: Tuesday, August 28, 2012 4:41 PM

Subject: Lovell: the Power Of Now

 

Lovell

 

There is some stuff re THE POWER OF NOW ON YOUTUBE

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j61Ul9YOD58 & feature=relmfu

 

I have  not had time to listen to much of it, as of yet, but the ideas that I

have listened to are much like the stuff I use

 

Love Joanne

 

 

To: " fibromyalgiacured " <fibromyalgiacured >

Sent: Tuesday, 28 August 2012, 15:45

Subject: Re: Re: Extremely tired and stresses/

 

Tina,

You are very welcome and I hope you will be able to utilize the book.  Please

let me know how it goes.  If you do well with it, I may still order the book.

I know what you mean about your situation and raising kids and all that .  My

kids have turned out to be responsible human beings and I am grateful for that.

 My marriage has always been my problem.  Back before I was diagnosed with

fibromyalgia  they were sending me to a psychiatrist and he told me that many

years ago that if I didn't get out of the mess I was in I would never be well.

 Things are somewhat better now but it really is hard to make a happy marriage

with someone that thinks the world revolves them.  Anyway, enough of that.  I

definitely need to read and apply the " Power of Now.  Please keep me informed

about the book.

________________________________

From: tina <mailto:tinasmith448%40comcast.net>

To: mailto:fibromyalgiacured%40yahoogroups.com

Sent: Tuesday, August 28, 2012 9:30 AM

Subject: Re: Extremely tired and stresses/

 

Lovell,I wanted to thank you for posting this.This is me,I live in the past,and

worry about the future.Sounds like the kind of book I would love to read,and i

just ordered it.Mostly,i guess i live in the past,becasue i hate the way things

are now.My life.My situation.Lonf for the carefree days of youth,when I had no

responsibilities.I love my kids,but,dang,i need a break from them.been raing

kids for 26 years,and my son ,will never grow up,and leave home.Seems,there are

not that many friendly people anymore.Or people that care about anything

important,like their fellow man.Anyway,thankyou again for posting this.

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > Bee will be able to tell you best if you should start the diet now or

later. She has been using ketogenic diets now for over 20 years. i have only

been doing this a few years and only know the basics. Bee will know what to ask

you and will know a lot about how best to do the diet when pregnant, i have no

experience regarding this, but bee has a lot of experience in regards to many

situations.

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > She is also somewhat older than me and Bee can remember a time when the

diet in the west was not so bad as it is now, and she also knows about a lot of

old fashioned remedies. i know some things, mainly what I have learned from Bee,

and the other people i have mentioned on the main email i sent to the board

recently, but still my knowlege is limited, and i am still learning. if it was

my daughter that was pregnant and in similar circumstances to yourself i would

give her a gentle nudge to email Bee via her Candida site, mainly because bee

knows more than me and her info is free. I do like Natasha on the GAPS site and

Dr Mercola on the Mercola site, and many of the other folk I have mentioned, but

consultations with these folk are very expensive, Bee charges $50 for phone

consulations, but me and many of the other folk i know that are doing Bees diet

do not pay for consultations we just ask for help via her candida board and this

is enough

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > Now regarding how i cope with my difficult life

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > My life is hard because i am caring for so many people that are ill and

because i have so little money, and other stuff, like dealing with all the

addiction on my family, and just every day stuff too. I have my own illness too

to contend with, and in my everyday life there is not one person that can help

me at all with that, but luckily there are folk here on this board that can help

me with that

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > Anyway, in the past, when i was younger, i was so very sad because

nothing in my life was going right, and even when I tried really hard to get

myself on my feet and do well, my family would always create dramas and sabotage

everything I tried to do. I got so very ill, it is hard to even explain how bad

things got for me because frankly I did not know things could get that bad for

anybody

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > But when I joined the 12 step groups I learned that there are indeed

many people in this world that get in similar messes to what I got into

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > I had to attend the 12 step groups for a while to understand what these

folk were saying to me, and frankly I could not understand a lot of it. My head

was so fogged up with Candida and what ever else was in my head, it all just

sounded like waffle to me. But as the weeks went by I began to realise that this

deepÃÆ'‚ sad state I was in was far more

serious than I thought it was.ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > I was dying , and I am not exagerating when

IÃÆ'‚ say that. My illness had progressed

to a terribly bad place and nobody was helping me, no doctors were helping, my

family were not helping, and even these folk at Alanon, although really lovely

folk, really lovely folk, there was only so much they could do to help me. But

the one good thing was these folk at Alanon did know the reality

ofÃÆ'‚ all this. They too had suffered a

lot, a very lot in the past, just like I had and they had managed to get

themselves out of the mess they had been in. Some of them had had to move out,

and I realised I had to move away too, but many did not have to, in fact most

managed to stay living in their homes and really this is what Alanon is about,

it is about helping people to stay living with their

familiesÃÆ'‚ even though all this silly

business is

going on

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > Now I can here, on this site share some of how I cope, but

myÃÆ'‚ way is just my way and only really

right for me, to find your own way you would be doing yourself a favour if you

speak to many people thatÃÆ'‚ belong to

theseÃÆ'‚ kinds of groups, there should be

at least a few in your area

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > Anyway, what I do ifÃÆ'‚ go to the

library a lot. Here there are not many roudy people, it is usually peaceful and

I can use the computer and chat to folk here at this site etc. I also go for

walks in the park. IÃÆ'‚ used to struggle

to walk and could only get from bench to

bench,ÃÆ'‚ and at the time

itÃÆ'‚ seemed like a waste of time, but it

was not a waste of time because this was giving me some exercise. I also go and

sit in churches. I am a Catholic and mainly I

visitÃÆ'‚ Catholic churches but I also go

to many other kinds of churches and

IÃÆ'‚ find this so heart warming. When I

visit the churches I often do not speak much with anybody, I just listen to

theÃÆ'‚ sermon and read their

literature and admire their art work and so on. this passes the

dayÃÆ'‚ for me and it helps me not feel so

sad and lonely, it helps me realise

> that God is close to me

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > I also go to many second hand markets. I do not think you have many of

these in the USA, but I think maybe you have what are called garage sales, which

are roughtlyÃÆ'‚ the same thing. At these

markets I have a really good time and I

reallyÃÆ'‚ enjoy it. Sometimes I have only

a tiny amount of money on me but I do find some really

goodÃÆ'‚ bargains an this can make my day.

I have been to one this weekendÃÆ'‚ and

whilst there I found someÃÆ'‚ CDs and DVDs

that were only 50p and they were

allÃÆ'‚ things I really enjoy, like

O'Donnel in concert, and a Bible video about Magdelene

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > As I walk around there markets I talk to myself like I am my very best

friend, like I am a kind teacher, or my own mom. I am really consoling and kind

to myself, I look for everything that is good in me and think about what a gift

it is to be alive and how wonderful it is to be a child of

God.ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > When I look after myself in this gentle way it is much easier for me to

cope with all the craziness in my family, and i do not get down so much

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > I am being shouted now, again, but when I get chance I will be online

again.ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > It is easier to cope with all this if we try to live in the present

moment and find what is good in that moment

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > Love JoanneÃÆ'‚ 

> > > >

> > > > From: marian <mn_211@>

> > > > To: mailto:fibromyalgiacured%40yahoogroups.com

> > > > Sent: Monday, 27 August 2012, 14:11

> > > > Subject: Extremely tired and stresses

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > ÃÆ'‚ 

> > > > Hi Joanne and group.

> > > >

> > > > I've no where to go and feel extremely tired and sick as my sleep is cut

3 hours daily due to loud noise and drama.

> > > >

> > > > I have no where to go not even a vehicle,just this house. It's not safe

to go for walksalone,I always wait until husband off at 6pm to go out.

> > > > I'll be cutting walls very short because of being tired.

> > > >

> > > > I just feel can't eat and force myself to get up to get liquids.

> > > >

> > > > Should I even attempt the bee program at this point?

> > > >

> > > > I do have supplements and right food.

> > > >

> > > > I just sit outside and cry a lot. I've gotten very quiet.

> > > > Thanks

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >