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you have come to a great support group that will show

how they care by listening and reading and replying to

your mail.

I am 50 yrs young, I say young because I refuse to let

htis Fibro age me or depress me, I have had fibro all

my life, and I understand what you must be feeling

like at the moment. You probably feel you life is

crashing all around you as more and more you are

unable to do the things you used to do. But we have to

learn to enjoy what little we can do. You have to take

each moment and do what you can when you can and when

you can't do much, leave it as it will still be there

another day. Today for instance, I've had to lie down

most of the day, it took all my effort to get up and

have something to eat, this was due to me going

shopping yesterday. You will find there will be times

when you can't do much more than rest for a day. But

it is worth it to be able to go shopping.

You will find that making long term plans, you can't

always stick too as you may never know how you will

feel when that time comes. I usually say all being

well I will go or do somthing, and If I can't I will

do it another time. If there are any questions you

want to ask about what is happening with you, write

and tell us, or if you just want to have a moan and

gripe then do so. We all understand.

Others have found that their partner finds it hard to

see their loved one suffer so and don't know what to

do to help, as there is little they can do, other than

accept that there will be times when you can't do as

much and have to rest. They can be supportive by

perhaps doing little things around the house or just

bringing you a meal whilst you rest and just be there

for you to talk too. But remember if you can't talk to

anyone about what you are going through you can always

talk to our support group, because we know and

understand what you are going through.

I hope this is of help to you. Keep writing.

God bless

Lorraine UK

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am<BR>

having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad

marital<BR>

experience at the moment. I have no energy what so<BR>

every can anyone help<BR>

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> Subject: hello

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> I am 40yrs old-have had fibromyalgia since '99 and am

> having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad marital

> experience at the moment. I have no energy what so

> every can anyone help

Hi

Just to say hello and welcome to the group. This has been a wonderful list

for me, I just went through a very intense crisis and the people who

responded were so kind and helpful to me, it really lifted me up and I

didn't feel so alone. FM isolates you so much, it is one of the most

insidious aspects of it I think. Because people just don't BELIEVE you can

be in that much pain, and the whole thing tends to distance them from you. I

don't know if your marital troubles have to do with the FM or not... I was

married for almost 10 years during which I had a bad accident and then got

FM, and my husband couldn't handle it and became abusive, so we had to

divorce, which left me in severely compromised financial straits (we didn't

live in a community property state, his family were millionaires, so they

just filed motion after motion until I could no longer afford to pay my

attorneys and had to give up).

Then I moved back to my home place and within a couple of weeks had

emergency surgery, which added another $25,000 to my already $20,000 debt --

no help at all from family, friends jumped ship, and I was finally, after

two years of fighting, awarded SSI Disability with Medicaid.

Then just as everything was settling down I fell in love again, five years

later, with somebody who promised me my FM was not a problem with him, we

were together for a year, he bought me an engagement ring, he promised to be

there forever, he seemed so NORMAL, he talked me into filing bankruptcy on

my debt so we could get married, quitting my part time at-home job so I

could take care of my health, etc etc, then one day a few weeks ago he just

up and said, the engagement is off, I'm leaving you, I can't live with

somebody who can't hike and ski. I'm sure there are hundreds of people with

similar stories with FM, especially if you have it severely and it seems to

be degenerating. But at least this is a place where you can " download " your

troubles, ask for help, and have some invisible friends who offer their

shoulders for you to cry on and who know what FM is and what you might be

going through, and who will not think you are crazy or exaggerating.

Because of what my ex fiancee did, I am bankrupt for 10 years, I will lose

my Disability money, maybe my Medicaid which pays for the medications which

cost hundreds of dollars alone every month. What he did, after months and

months of promising me my FM was no problem for him, that we would work out

anything and everything and never give up, is beyond despicable. Now I have

to put my energy into becoming financially independent at a time when my

body can hardly navigate its way around the house, I don't know how I could

possibly do any kind of job outside my home -- I'm not sure anyone would

even hire me with the meds I have to take. I just got out of the hospital

after being there several days with severe gastritis, anemia, a bunch of

other stuff, but basically a nervous breakdown over this situation which was

like having a brick building dropped on my head.

Anyway, don't be shy, just jump in and tell your story and you WILL receive

support here, that's what this list is for, at least I think so.

love,

Vimala

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> Subject: hello

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> I am 40yrs old-have had fibromyalgia since '99 and am

> having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad marital

> experience at the moment. I have no energy what so

> every can anyone help

Hi

Just to say hello and welcome to the group. This has been a wonderful list

for me, I just went through a very intense crisis and the people who

responded were so kind and helpful to me, it really lifted me up and I

didn't feel so alone. FM isolates you so much, it is one of the most

insidious aspects of it I think. Because people just don't BELIEVE you can

be in that much pain, and the whole thing tends to distance them from you. I

don't know if your marital troubles have to do with the FM or not... I was

married for almost 10 years during which I had a bad accident and then got

FM, and my husband couldn't handle it and became abusive, so we had to

divorce, which left me in severely compromised financial straits (we didn't

live in a community property state, his family were millionaires, so they

just filed motion after motion until I could no longer afford to pay my

attorneys and had to give up).

Then I moved back to my home place and within a couple of weeks had

emergency surgery, which added another $25,000 to my already $20,000 debt --

no help at all from family, friends jumped ship, and I was finally, after

two years of fighting, awarded SSI Disability with Medicaid.

Then just as everything was settling down I fell in love again, five years

later, with somebody who promised me my FM was not a problem with him, we

were together for a year, he bought me an engagement ring, he promised to be

there forever, he seemed so NORMAL, he talked me into filing bankruptcy on

my debt so we could get married, quitting my part time at-home job so I

could take care of my health, etc etc, then one day a few weeks ago he just

up and said, the engagement is off, I'm leaving you, I can't live with

somebody who can't hike and ski. I'm sure there are hundreds of people with

similar stories with FM, especially if you have it severely and it seems to

be degenerating. But at least this is a place where you can " download " your

troubles, ask for help, and have some invisible friends who offer their

shoulders for you to cry on and who know what FM is and what you might be

going through, and who will not think you are crazy or exaggerating.

Because of what my ex fiancee did, I am bankrupt for 10 years, I will lose

my Disability money, maybe my Medicaid which pays for the medications which

cost hundreds of dollars alone every month. What he did, after months and

months of promising me my FM was no problem for him, that we would work out

anything and everything and never give up, is beyond despicable. Now I have

to put my energy into becoming financially independent at a time when my

body can hardly navigate its way around the house, I don't know how I could

possibly do any kind of job outside my home -- I'm not sure anyone would

even hire me with the meds I have to take. I just got out of the hospital

after being there several days with severe gastritis, anemia, a bunch of

other stuff, but basically a nervous breakdown over this situation which was

like having a brick building dropped on my head.

Anyway, don't be shy, just jump in and tell your story and you WILL receive

support here, that's what this list is for, at least I think so.

love,

Vimala

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> Subject: hello

>

> I am 40yrs old-have had fibromyalgia since '99 and am

> having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad marital

> experience at the moment. I have no energy what so

> every can anyone help

Hi

Just to say hello and welcome to the group. This has been a wonderful list

for me, I just went through a very intense crisis and the people who

responded were so kind and helpful to me, it really lifted me up and I

didn't feel so alone. FM isolates you so much, it is one of the most

insidious aspects of it I think. Because people just don't BELIEVE you can

be in that much pain, and the whole thing tends to distance them from you. I

don't know if your marital troubles have to do with the FM or not... I was

married for almost 10 years during which I had a bad accident and then got

FM, and my husband couldn't handle it and became abusive, so we had to

divorce, which left me in severely compromised financial straits (we didn't

live in a community property state, his family were millionaires, so they

just filed motion after motion until I could no longer afford to pay my

attorneys and had to give up).

Then I moved back to my home place and within a couple of weeks had

emergency surgery, which added another $25,000 to my already $20,000 debt --

no help at all from family, friends jumped ship, and I was finally, after

two years of fighting, awarded SSI Disability with Medicaid.

Then just as everything was settling down I fell in love again, five years

later, with somebody who promised me my FM was not a problem with him, we

were together for a year, he bought me an engagement ring, he promised to be

there forever, he seemed so NORMAL, he talked me into filing bankruptcy on

my debt so we could get married, quitting my part time at-home job so I

could take care of my health, etc etc, then one day a few weeks ago he just

up and said, the engagement is off, I'm leaving you, I can't live with

somebody who can't hike and ski. I'm sure there are hundreds of people with

similar stories with FM, especially if you have it severely and it seems to

be degenerating. But at least this is a place where you can " download " your

troubles, ask for help, and have some invisible friends who offer their

shoulders for you to cry on and who know what FM is and what you might be

going through, and who will not think you are crazy or exaggerating.

Because of what my ex fiancee did, I am bankrupt for 10 years, I will lose

my Disability money, maybe my Medicaid which pays for the medications which

cost hundreds of dollars alone every month. What he did, after months and

months of promising me my FM was no problem for him, that we would work out

anything and everything and never give up, is beyond despicable. Now I have

to put my energy into becoming financially independent at a time when my

body can hardly navigate its way around the house, I don't know how I could

possibly do any kind of job outside my home -- I'm not sure anyone would

even hire me with the meds I have to take. I just got out of the hospital

after being there several days with severe gastritis, anemia, a bunch of

other stuff, but basically a nervous breakdown over this situation which was

like having a brick building dropped on my head.

Anyway, don't be shy, just jump in and tell your story and you WILL receive

support here, that's what this list is for, at least I think so.

love,

Vimala

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Dearest Vimala

I'm so sorry you are going through so much at this

time. I wish I understood the system over there to be

able to give you some advice. One thing puzzles me as

to how they can take disability benefit off you when

you are definatly finding it too hard to go out to do

any form of work. there must be some agency there

that can help you in your situation. We have what we

call Social Services and Social Security, it's not

much to have but it is some form of security that

helps us. I do so hope that you get some help soon so

as to give you some peace of mind. I hope will soon

sort itself out for you.

God bless

Lorraine UK

--- Vimala McClure wrote:

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<BR>

& gt; From: brenda odell

& lt;cajungirl1961@... & gt;<BR>

& gt; Subject: hello<BR>

& gt; <BR>

& gt; I am 40yrs old-have had fibromyalgia since '99

and am<BR>

& gt; having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad

marital<BR>

& gt; experience at the moment. I have no energy what

so<BR>

& gt; every can anyone help<BR>

<BR>

Hi <BR>

Just to say hello and welcome to the group. This has

been a wonderful list<BR>

for me, I just went through a very intense crisis and

the people who<BR>

responded were so kind and helpful to me, it really

lifted me up and I<BR>

didn't feel so alone. FM isolates you so much, it is

one of the most<BR>

insidious aspects of it I think. Because people just

don't BELIEVE you can<BR>

be in that much pain, and the whole thing tends to

distance them from you. I<BR>

don't know if your marital troubles have to do with

the FM or not... I was<BR>

married for almost 10 years during which I had a bad

accident and then got<BR>

FM, and my husband couldn't handle it and became

abusive, so we had to<BR>

divorce, which left me in severely compromised

financial straits (we didn't<BR>

live in a community property state, his family were

millionaires, so they<BR>

just filed motion after motion until I could no longer

afford to pay my<BR>

attorneys and had to give up).<BR>

<BR>

Then I moved back to my home place and within a couple

of weeks had<BR>

emergency surgery, which added another $25,000 to my

already $20,000 debt --<BR>

no help at all from family, friends jumped ship, and I

was finally, after<BR>

two years of fighting, awarded SSI Disability with

Medicaid.<BR>

<BR>

Then just as everything was settling down I fell in

love again, five years<BR>

later, with somebody who promised me my FM was not a

problem with him, we<BR>

were together for a year, he bought me an engagement

ring, he promised to be<BR>

there forever, he seemed so NORMAL, he talked me into

filing bankruptcy on<BR>

my debt so we could get married, quitting my part time

at-home job so I<BR>

could take care of my health, etc etc, then one day a

few weeks ago he just<BR>

up and said, the engagement is off, I'm leaving you, I

can't live with<BR>

somebody who can't hike and ski. I'm sure there are

hundreds of people with<BR>

similar stories with FM, especially if you have it

severely and it seems to<BR>

be degenerating. But at least this is a place where

you can & quot;download & quot; your<BR>

troubles, ask for help, and have some invisible

friends who offer their<BR>

shoulders for you to cry on and who know what FM is

and what you might be<BR>

going through, and who will not think you are crazy or

exaggerating.<BR>

<BR>

Because of what my ex fiancee did, I am bankrupt for

10 years, I will lose<BR>

my Disability money, maybe my Medicaid which pays for

the medications which<BR>

cost hundreds of dollars alone every month. What he

did, after months and<BR>

months of promising me my FM was no problem for him,

that we would work out<BR>

anything and everything and never give up, is beyond

despicable. Now I have<BR>

to put my energy into becoming financially independent

at a time when my<BR>

body can hardly navigate its way around the house, I

don't know how I could<BR>

possibly do any kind of job outside my home -- I'm not

sure anyone would<BR>

even hire me with the meds I have to take. I just got

out of the hospital<BR>

after being there several days with severe gastritis,

anemia, a bunch of<BR>

other stuff, but basically a nervous breakdown over

this situation which was<BR>

like having a brick building dropped on my head.<BR>

<BR>

Anyway, don't be shy, just jump in and tell your story

and you WILL receive<BR>

support here, that's what this list is for, at least I

think so.<BR>

<BR>

love,<BR>

Vimala<BR>

<BR>

<BR>

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Dearest Vimala

I'm so sorry you are going through so much at this

time. I wish I understood the system over there to be

able to give you some advice. One thing puzzles me as

to how they can take disability benefit off you when

you are definatly finding it too hard to go out to do

any form of work. there must be some agency there

that can help you in your situation. We have what we

call Social Services and Social Security, it's not

much to have but it is some form of security that

helps us. I do so hope that you get some help soon so

as to give you some peace of mind. I hope will soon

sort itself out for you.

God bless

Lorraine UK

--- Vimala McClure wrote:

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<tt>

<BR>

& gt; From: brenda odell

& lt;cajungirl1961@... & gt;<BR>

& gt; Subject: hello<BR>

& gt; <BR>

& gt; I am 40yrs old-have had fibromyalgia since '99

and am<BR>

& gt; having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad

marital<BR>

& gt; experience at the moment. I have no energy what

so<BR>

& gt; every can anyone help<BR>

<BR>

Hi <BR>

Just to say hello and welcome to the group. This has

been a wonderful list<BR>

for me, I just went through a very intense crisis and

the people who<BR>

responded were so kind and helpful to me, it really

lifted me up and I<BR>

didn't feel so alone. FM isolates you so much, it is

one of the most<BR>

insidious aspects of it I think. Because people just

don't BELIEVE you can<BR>

be in that much pain, and the whole thing tends to

distance them from you. I<BR>

don't know if your marital troubles have to do with

the FM or not... I was<BR>

married for almost 10 years during which I had a bad

accident and then got<BR>

FM, and my husband couldn't handle it and became

abusive, so we had to<BR>

divorce, which left me in severely compromised

financial straits (we didn't<BR>

live in a community property state, his family were

millionaires, so they<BR>

just filed motion after motion until I could no longer

afford to pay my<BR>

attorneys and had to give up).<BR>

<BR>

Then I moved back to my home place and within a couple

of weeks had<BR>

emergency surgery, which added another $25,000 to my

already $20,000 debt --<BR>

no help at all from family, friends jumped ship, and I

was finally, after<BR>

two years of fighting, awarded SSI Disability with

Medicaid.<BR>

<BR>

Then just as everything was settling down I fell in

love again, five years<BR>

later, with somebody who promised me my FM was not a

problem with him, we<BR>

were together for a year, he bought me an engagement

ring, he promised to be<BR>

there forever, he seemed so NORMAL, he talked me into

filing bankruptcy on<BR>

my debt so we could get married, quitting my part time

at-home job so I<BR>

could take care of my health, etc etc, then one day a

few weeks ago he just<BR>

up and said, the engagement is off, I'm leaving you, I

can't live with<BR>

somebody who can't hike and ski. I'm sure there are

hundreds of people with<BR>

similar stories with FM, especially if you have it

severely and it seems to<BR>

be degenerating. But at least this is a place where

you can & quot;download & quot; your<BR>

troubles, ask for help, and have some invisible

friends who offer their<BR>

shoulders for you to cry on and who know what FM is

and what you might be<BR>

going through, and who will not think you are crazy or

exaggerating.<BR>

<BR>

Because of what my ex fiancee did, I am bankrupt for

10 years, I will lose<BR>

my Disability money, maybe my Medicaid which pays for

the medications which<BR>

cost hundreds of dollars alone every month. What he

did, after months and<BR>

months of promising me my FM was no problem for him,

that we would work out<BR>

anything and everything and never give up, is beyond

despicable. Now I have<BR>

to put my energy into becoming financially independent

at a time when my<BR>

body can hardly navigate its way around the house, I

don't know how I could<BR>

possibly do any kind of job outside my home -- I'm not

sure anyone would<BR>

even hire me with the meds I have to take. I just got

out of the hospital<BR>

after being there several days with severe gastritis,

anemia, a bunch of<BR>

other stuff, but basically a nervous breakdown over

this situation which was<BR>

like having a brick building dropped on my head.<BR>

<BR>

Anyway, don't be shy, just jump in and tell your story

and you WILL receive<BR>

support here, that's what this list is for, at least I

think so.<BR>

<BR>

love,<BR>

Vimala<BR>

<BR>

<BR>

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Dearest Vimala

I'm so sorry you are going through so much at this

time. I wish I understood the system over there to be

able to give you some advice. One thing puzzles me as

to how they can take disability benefit off you when

you are definatly finding it too hard to go out to do

any form of work. there must be some agency there

that can help you in your situation. We have what we

call Social Services and Social Security, it's not

much to have but it is some form of security that

helps us. I do so hope that you get some help soon so

as to give you some peace of mind. I hope will soon

sort itself out for you.

God bless

Lorraine UK

--- Vimala McClure wrote:

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<html><body>

<tt>

<BR>

& gt; From: brenda odell

& lt;cajungirl1961@... & gt;<BR>

& gt; Subject: hello<BR>

& gt; <BR>

& gt; I am 40yrs old-have had fibromyalgia since '99

and am<BR>

& gt; having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad

marital<BR>

& gt; experience at the moment. I have no energy what

so<BR>

& gt; every can anyone help<BR>

<BR>

Hi <BR>

Just to say hello and welcome to the group. This has

been a wonderful list<BR>

for me, I just went through a very intense crisis and

the people who<BR>

responded were so kind and helpful to me, it really

lifted me up and I<BR>

didn't feel so alone. FM isolates you so much, it is

one of the most<BR>

insidious aspects of it I think. Because people just

don't BELIEVE you can<BR>

be in that much pain, and the whole thing tends to

distance them from you. I<BR>

don't know if your marital troubles have to do with

the FM or not... I was<BR>

married for almost 10 years during which I had a bad

accident and then got<BR>

FM, and my husband couldn't handle it and became

abusive, so we had to<BR>

divorce, which left me in severely compromised

financial straits (we didn't<BR>

live in a community property state, his family were

millionaires, so they<BR>

just filed motion after motion until I could no longer

afford to pay my<BR>

attorneys and had to give up).<BR>

<BR>

Then I moved back to my home place and within a couple

of weeks had<BR>

emergency surgery, which added another $25,000 to my

already $20,000 debt --<BR>

no help at all from family, friends jumped ship, and I

was finally, after<BR>

two years of fighting, awarded SSI Disability with

Medicaid.<BR>

<BR>

Then just as everything was settling down I fell in

love again, five years<BR>

later, with somebody who promised me my FM was not a

problem with him, we<BR>

were together for a year, he bought me an engagement

ring, he promised to be<BR>

there forever, he seemed so NORMAL, he talked me into

filing bankruptcy on<BR>

my debt so we could get married, quitting my part time

at-home job so I<BR>

could take care of my health, etc etc, then one day a

few weeks ago he just<BR>

up and said, the engagement is off, I'm leaving you, I

can't live with<BR>

somebody who can't hike and ski. I'm sure there are

hundreds of people with<BR>

similar stories with FM, especially if you have it

severely and it seems to<BR>

be degenerating. But at least this is a place where

you can & quot;download & quot; your<BR>

troubles, ask for help, and have some invisible

friends who offer their<BR>

shoulders for you to cry on and who know what FM is

and what you might be<BR>

going through, and who will not think you are crazy or

exaggerating.<BR>

<BR>

Because of what my ex fiancee did, I am bankrupt for

10 years, I will lose<BR>

my Disability money, maybe my Medicaid which pays for

the medications which<BR>

cost hundreds of dollars alone every month. What he

did, after months and<BR>

months of promising me my FM was no problem for him,

that we would work out<BR>

anything and everything and never give up, is beyond

despicable. Now I have<BR>

to put my energy into becoming financially independent

at a time when my<BR>

body can hardly navigate its way around the house, I

don't know how I could<BR>

possibly do any kind of job outside my home -- I'm not

sure anyone would<BR>

even hire me with the meds I have to take. I just got

out of the hospital<BR>

after being there several days with severe gastritis,

anemia, a bunch of<BR>

other stuff, but basically a nervous breakdown over

this situation which was<BR>

like having a brick building dropped on my head.<BR>

<BR>

Anyway, don't be shy, just jump in and tell your story

and you WILL receive<BR>

support here, that's what this list is for, at least I

think so.<BR>

<BR>

love,<BR>

Vimala<BR>

<BR>

<BR>

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Dearest Vimala

I'm so sorry you are going through so much at this

time. I wish I understood the system over there to be

able to give you some advice. One thing puzzles me as

to how they can take disability benefit off you when

you are definatly finding it too hard to go out to do

any form of work. there must be some agency there

that can help you in your situation. We have what we

call Social Services and Social Security, it's not

much to have but it is some form of security that

helps us. I do so hope that you get some help soon so

as to give you some peace of mind. I hope will soon

sort itself out for you.

God bless

Lorraine UK

--- Vimala McClure wrote:

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& gt; From: brenda odell

& lt;cajungirl1961@... & gt;<BR>

& gt; Subject: hello<BR>

& gt; <BR>

& gt; I am 40yrs old-have had fibromyalgia since '99

and am<BR>

& gt; having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad

marital<BR>

& gt; experience at the moment. I have no energy what

so<BR>

& gt; every can anyone help<BR>

<BR>

Hi <BR>

Just to say hello and welcome to the group. This has

been a wonderful list<BR>

for me, I just went through a very intense crisis and

the people who<BR>

responded were so kind and helpful to me, it really

lifted me up and I<BR>

didn't feel so alone. FM isolates you so much, it is

one of the most<BR>

insidious aspects of it I think. Because people just

don't BELIEVE you can<BR>

be in that much pain, and the whole thing tends to

distance them from you. I<BR>

don't know if your marital troubles have to do with

the FM or not... I was<BR>

married for almost 10 years during which I had a bad

accident and then got<BR>

FM, and my husband couldn't handle it and became

abusive, so we had to<BR>

divorce, which left me in severely compromised

financial straits (we didn't<BR>

live in a community property state, his family were

millionaires, so they<BR>

just filed motion after motion until I could no longer

afford to pay my<BR>

attorneys and had to give up).<BR>

<BR>

Then I moved back to my home place and within a couple

of weeks had<BR>

emergency surgery, which added another $25,000 to my

already $20,000 debt --<BR>

no help at all from family, friends jumped ship, and I

was finally, after<BR>

two years of fighting, awarded SSI Disability with

Medicaid.<BR>

<BR>

Then just as everything was settling down I fell in

love again, five years<BR>

later, with somebody who promised me my FM was not a

problem with him, we<BR>

were together for a year, he bought me an engagement

ring, he promised to be<BR>

there forever, he seemed so NORMAL, he talked me into

filing bankruptcy on<BR>

my debt so we could get married, quitting my part time

at-home job so I<BR>

could take care of my health, etc etc, then one day a

few weeks ago he just<BR>

up and said, the engagement is off, I'm leaving you, I

can't live with<BR>

somebody who can't hike and ski. I'm sure there are

hundreds of people with<BR>

similar stories with FM, especially if you have it

severely and it seems to<BR>

be degenerating. But at least this is a place where

you can & quot;download & quot; your<BR>

troubles, ask for help, and have some invisible

friends who offer their<BR>

shoulders for you to cry on and who know what FM is

and what you might be<BR>

going through, and who will not think you are crazy or

exaggerating.<BR>

<BR>

Because of what my ex fiancee did, I am bankrupt for

10 years, I will lose<BR>

my Disability money, maybe my Medicaid which pays for

the medications which<BR>

cost hundreds of dollars alone every month. What he

did, after months and<BR>

months of promising me my FM was no problem for him,

that we would work out<BR>

anything and everything and never give up, is beyond

despicable. Now I have<BR>

to put my energy into becoming financially independent

at a time when my<BR>

body can hardly navigate its way around the house, I

don't know how I could<BR>

possibly do any kind of job outside my home -- I'm not

sure anyone would<BR>

even hire me with the meds I have to take. I just got

out of the hospital<BR>

after being there several days with severe gastritis,

anemia, a bunch of<BR>

other stuff, but basically a nervous breakdown over

this situation which was<BR>

like having a brick building dropped on my head.<BR>

<BR>

Anyway, don't be shy, just jump in and tell your story

and you WILL receive<BR>

support here, that's what this list is for, at least I

think so.<BR>

<BR>

love,<BR>

Vimala<BR>

<BR>

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Dearest Vimala

I'm so sorry you are going through so much at this

time. I wish I understood the system over there to be

able to give you some advice. One thing puzzles me as

to how they can take disability benefit off you when

you are definatly finding it too hard to go out to do

any form of work. there must be some agency there

that can help you in your situation. We have what we

call Social Services and Social Security, it's not

much to have but it is some form of security that

helps us. I do so hope that you get some help soon so

as to give you some peace of mind. I hope will soon

sort itself out for you.

God bless

Lorraine UK

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& gt; From: brenda odell

& lt;cajungirl1961@... & gt;<BR>

& gt; Subject: hello<BR>

& gt; <BR>

& gt; I am 40yrs old-have had fibromyalgia since '99

and am<BR>

& gt; having a very bad yr. I am going through a bad

marital<BR>

& gt; experience at the moment. I have no energy what

so<BR>

& gt; every can anyone help<BR>

<BR>

Hi <BR>

Just to say hello and welcome to the group. This has

been a wonderful list<BR>

for me, I just went through a very intense crisis and

the people who<BR>

responded were so kind and helpful to me, it really

lifted me up and I<BR>

didn't feel so alone. FM isolates you so much, it is

one of the most<BR>

insidious aspects of it I think. Because people just

don't BELIEVE you can<BR>

be in that much pain, and the whole thing tends to

distance them from you. I<BR>

don't know if your marital troubles have to do with

the FM or not... I was<BR>

married for almost 10 years during which I had a bad

accident and then got<BR>

FM, and my husband couldn't handle it and became

abusive, so we had to<BR>

divorce, which left me in severely compromised

financial straits (we didn't<BR>

live in a community property state, his family were

millionaires, so they<BR>

just filed motion after motion until I could no longer

afford to pay my<BR>

attorneys and had to give up).<BR>

<BR>

Then I moved back to my home place and within a couple

of weeks had<BR>

emergency surgery, which added another $25,000 to my

already $20,000 debt --<BR>

no help at all from family, friends jumped ship, and I

was finally, after<BR>

two years of fighting, awarded SSI Disability with

Medicaid.<BR>

<BR>

Then just as everything was settling down I fell in

love again, five years<BR>

later, with somebody who promised me my FM was not a

problem with him, we<BR>

were together for a year, he bought me an engagement

ring, he promised to be<BR>

there forever, he seemed so NORMAL, he talked me into

filing bankruptcy on<BR>

my debt so we could get married, quitting my part time

at-home job so I<BR>

could take care of my health, etc etc, then one day a

few weeks ago he just<BR>

up and said, the engagement is off, I'm leaving you, I

can't live with<BR>

somebody who can't hike and ski. I'm sure there are

hundreds of people with<BR>

similar stories with FM, especially if you have it

severely and it seems to<BR>

be degenerating. But at least this is a place where

you can & quot;download & quot; your<BR>

troubles, ask for help, and have some invisible

friends who offer their<BR>

shoulders for you to cry on and who know what FM is

and what you might be<BR>

going through, and who will not think you are crazy or

exaggerating.<BR>

<BR>

Because of what my ex fiancee did, I am bankrupt for

10 years, I will lose<BR>

my Disability money, maybe my Medicaid which pays for

the medications which<BR>

cost hundreds of dollars alone every month. What he

did, after months and<BR>

months of promising me my FM was no problem for him,

that we would work out<BR>

anything and everything and never give up, is beyond

despicable. Now I have<BR>

to put my energy into becoming financially independent

at a time when my<BR>

body can hardly navigate its way around the house, I

don't know how I could<BR>

possibly do any kind of job outside my home -- I'm not

sure anyone would<BR>

even hire me with the meds I have to take. I just got

out of the hospital<BR>

after being there several days with severe gastritis,

anemia, a bunch of<BR>

other stuff, but basically a nervous breakdown over

this situation which was<BR>

like having a brick building dropped on my head.<BR>

<BR>

Anyway, don't be shy, just jump in and tell your story

and you WILL receive<BR>

support here, that's what this list is for, at least I

think so.<BR>

<BR>

love,<BR>

Vimala<BR>

<BR>

<BR>

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You certainly sound like you are a wonderful candidate for fibro. I

self diagnosed myself long before I could get any doctor to agree to

even look at me for anything like that. I'm still in the process of

dealing with this. Have you seen a rheumatologist for your symptoms?

They are the ones best able to diagnose it. Call your local arthritis

foundation for help in finding a good doctor.

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You certainly sound like you are a wonderful candidate for fibro. I

self diagnosed myself long before I could get any doctor to agree to

even look at me for anything like that. I'm still in the process of

dealing with this. Have you seen a rheumatologist for your symptoms?

They are the ones best able to diagnose it. Call your local arthritis

foundation for help in finding a good doctor.

Darcy

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You certainly sound like you are a wonderful candidate for fibro. I

self diagnosed myself long before I could get any doctor to agree to

even look at me for anything like that. I'm still in the process of

dealing with this. Have you seen a rheumatologist for your symptoms?

They are the ones best able to diagnose it. Call your local arthritis

foundation for help in finding a good doctor.

Darcy

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Char,

I think most of us know how you feel. After several months of waiting, I'm

finally going to get into the Rhuematologist in a few weeks. Hubby wants to

know if I want him to come with me. To be honest, I really don't know. Any

ideas, anyone? Also, a good friend of mine that is also a Dr., and is the

one who helped me drive puppy home, had a talk with me about asking for a

handicap sticker for my car. She felt that it would help to some degree,

and that I should try to get all the help I can. I talked to my husband,

and he told me that he'd been thinking of it for awhile, but didn't know how

I'd handle it. I still don't know how I feel about it.

Char, I also know the feeling of thinking you are going crazy, because none

of it makes any sense, does it? Then, finally, the word fibromyalgia comes

up, and suddenly it all makes sense! I guess it does make us feel better to

at least be able to attach a name to it.

I've also noticed I have NO energy lately. I don't know about the weather

in other parts of the country, but ours is turning a bit chilly, and a very

cold winter is being predicted. Oh goody.

One piece of very good news, though, our son's football team won last Friday

night! Yippee!! You don't know how much that means to our team, since they

lost all their games last year! It's fun hearing your son's name get called

on the intercom for making a good play. I'm just glad it's not me out there

playing!

Well, it's time for beddy bye! Talk to you all later, and Char, we are glad

you are here!

Carol

Hi,

Just wanted to introduce myself to the group. Though I haven't been

officially diagnosed yet, I recently read an article about fibromyalgia and

cried for an hour to know I wasn't nuts or alone. I was finally able to

tie together all the weird symptoms after so many tests and doctors

told me nothing.

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Char,

I think most of us know how you feel. After several months of waiting, I'm

finally going to get into the Rhuematologist in a few weeks. Hubby wants to

know if I want him to come with me. To be honest, I really don't know. Any

ideas, anyone? Also, a good friend of mine that is also a Dr., and is the

one who helped me drive puppy home, had a talk with me about asking for a

handicap sticker for my car. She felt that it would help to some degree,

and that I should try to get all the help I can. I talked to my husband,

and he told me that he'd been thinking of it for awhile, but didn't know how

I'd handle it. I still don't know how I feel about it.

Char, I also know the feeling of thinking you are going crazy, because none

of it makes any sense, does it? Then, finally, the word fibromyalgia comes

up, and suddenly it all makes sense! I guess it does make us feel better to

at least be able to attach a name to it.

I've also noticed I have NO energy lately. I don't know about the weather

in other parts of the country, but ours is turning a bit chilly, and a very

cold winter is being predicted. Oh goody.

One piece of very good news, though, our son's football team won last Friday

night! Yippee!! You don't know how much that means to our team, since they

lost all their games last year! It's fun hearing your son's name get called

on the intercom for making a good play. I'm just glad it's not me out there

playing!

Well, it's time for beddy bye! Talk to you all later, and Char, we are glad

you are here!

Carol

Hi,

Just wanted to introduce myself to the group. Though I haven't been

officially diagnosed yet, I recently read an article about fibromyalgia and

cried for an hour to know I wasn't nuts or alone. I was finally able to

tie together all the weird symptoms after so many tests and doctors

told me nothing.

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Char,

I think most of us know how you feel. After several months of waiting, I'm

finally going to get into the Rhuematologist in a few weeks. Hubby wants to

know if I want him to come with me. To be honest, I really don't know. Any

ideas, anyone? Also, a good friend of mine that is also a Dr., and is the

one who helped me drive puppy home, had a talk with me about asking for a

handicap sticker for my car. She felt that it would help to some degree,

and that I should try to get all the help I can. I talked to my husband,

and he told me that he'd been thinking of it for awhile, but didn't know how

I'd handle it. I still don't know how I feel about it.

Char, I also know the feeling of thinking you are going crazy, because none

of it makes any sense, does it? Then, finally, the word fibromyalgia comes

up, and suddenly it all makes sense! I guess it does make us feel better to

at least be able to attach a name to it.

I've also noticed I have NO energy lately. I don't know about the weather

in other parts of the country, but ours is turning a bit chilly, and a very

cold winter is being predicted. Oh goody.

One piece of very good news, though, our son's football team won last Friday

night! Yippee!! You don't know how much that means to our team, since they

lost all their games last year! It's fun hearing your son's name get called

on the intercom for making a good play. I'm just glad it's not me out there

playing!

Well, it's time for beddy bye! Talk to you all later, and Char, we are glad

you are here!

Carol

Hi,

Just wanted to introduce myself to the group. Though I haven't been

officially diagnosed yet, I recently read an article about fibromyalgia and

cried for an hour to know I wasn't nuts or alone. I was finally able to

tie together all the weird symptoms after so many tests and doctors

told me nothing.

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Carol Lugg wrote:

> After several months of waiting, I'm

> finally going to get into the Rhuematologist in a few weeks. Hubby wants to

> know if I want him to come with me. To be honest, I really don't know. Any

> ideas, anyone?

I think it's a excellent idea! I got my husband to come with me to all

of my neurology and rheumatology appointments. I'm not a person that

normally does that, but I felt it was to my benefit in this case. I

felt like he should be there as a support in case I needed it, as a back

up in case the doctor thought I was exaggerating at all, and to remember

things to them them or that they said to me. It really worked out great

to have him there. When I get an appointment for the new

rheumatologist, I'll take him again.

> Also, a good friend of mine that is also a Dr., and is the

> one who helped me drive puppy home, had a talk with me about asking for a

> handicap sticker for my car. She felt that it would help to some degree,

> and that I should try to get all the help I can. I talked to my husband,

> and he told me that he'd been thinking of it for awhile, but didn't know how

> I'd handle it. I still don't know how I feel about it.

I think you should take every advantage that you can to help yourself.

(please repeat this back to me if I get to be in your position and say

the same things you do.) Get a hanging plaque and use it when you feel

like you need it and don't when you feel better. My FIL was entitled to

one because of heart and breathing problems. The way he dealt with it

was, if he pulled in to a store or restaurant and there were 3 handicap

spaces, he took one, if there was only one, he used a regular spot. He

felt like he could walk the extra distance if necessary even though it

cost him, he didn't want to take a spot from anyone who was worse than

he was.

Darcy

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Carol Lugg wrote:

> After several months of waiting, I'm

> finally going to get into the Rhuematologist in a few weeks. Hubby wants to

> know if I want him to come with me. To be honest, I really don't know. Any

> ideas, anyone?

I think it's a excellent idea! I got my husband to come with me to all

of my neurology and rheumatology appointments. I'm not a person that

normally does that, but I felt it was to my benefit in this case. I

felt like he should be there as a support in case I needed it, as a back

up in case the doctor thought I was exaggerating at all, and to remember

things to them them or that they said to me. It really worked out great

to have him there. When I get an appointment for the new

rheumatologist, I'll take him again.

> Also, a good friend of mine that is also a Dr., and is the

> one who helped me drive puppy home, had a talk with me about asking for a

> handicap sticker for my car. She felt that it would help to some degree,

> and that I should try to get all the help I can. I talked to my husband,

> and he told me that he'd been thinking of it for awhile, but didn't know how

> I'd handle it. I still don't know how I feel about it.

I think you should take every advantage that you can to help yourself.

(please repeat this back to me if I get to be in your position and say

the same things you do.) Get a hanging plaque and use it when you feel

like you need it and don't when you feel better. My FIL was entitled to

one because of heart and breathing problems. The way he dealt with it

was, if he pulled in to a store or restaurant and there were 3 handicap

spaces, he took one, if there was only one, he used a regular spot. He

felt like he could walk the extra distance if necessary even though it

cost him, he didn't want to take a spot from anyone who was worse than

he was.

Darcy

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I am of the opinion that this is the way a lot of us are diagnosed.

Take care,

Irene

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> . I was diagnosed with

> fibro about three years ago (actually I should say I finally

> diagnosed my illness and my doc agreed after putting me through all

> kind of unrelated tests).

>

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Hello Bernadette

My name is Lorraine and I live in the UK, I found what

helped me was a book by Dale Carnegie called 'How to

Stop Worrying and Start Living' It helped turn my life

around and I have never looked back since. I bought

that book around 1979-1980. So you can see that I am

still going strong.

I have had Fibro all my life and I too went through

some meaningful tests and extremely painful ones as I

was only diagnosed about 8 years ago, but I had had

problems since birth. And when the time came that I

was at a low I sought help but couldn't get it and so

I found this book that turned my life around. I hope

it can do the same for you.

God Bless

Lorraine UK

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Hi,<BR>

My name is Bernadette. I live in Cincinnati,Oh. I was

diagnosed with <BR>

fibro about three years ago (actually I should say I

finally <BR>

diagnosed my illness and my doc agreed after putting

me through all <BR>

kind of unrelated tests). <BR>

<BR>

I used to have a very stressful job working for a

major health system <BR>

until I was downsized and that was actually a good

thing. I was <BR>

getting sicker and sicker and not able to function as

well as I would <BR>

have liked. That gave me the opportunity to open my

own business <BR>

which had been a dream. I own Strictly Dogs, a dog day

care and fun <BR>

center. I enjoy it but it is also quite a task on some

days. <BR>

<BR>

I find exhaustion is my biggest problem and trying to

get out of bed <BR>

in the morning. I can tell the weather better than a

meteorologist. <BR>

Some days I cope better than others. I also have a lot

of other <BR>

personal issues happening at the same time which

really don't help <BR>

anything. I'm sure not any different from all of you.

<BR>

<BR>

I'd love to hear tricks on remaining positive that is

a hard one, <BR>

especially when all else seems to be wrong.<BR>

<BR>

Thanks<BR>

Bernie<BR>

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Hello Bernadette

My name is Lorraine and I live in the UK, I found what

helped me was a book by Dale Carnegie called 'How to

Stop Worrying and Start Living' It helped turn my life

around and I have never looked back since. I bought

that book around 1979-1980. So you can see that I am

still going strong.

I have had Fibro all my life and I too went through

some meaningful tests and extremely painful ones as I

was only diagnosed about 8 years ago, but I had had

problems since birth. And when the time came that I

was at a low I sought help but couldn't get it and so

I found this book that turned my life around. I hope

it can do the same for you.

God Bless

Lorraine UK

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Hi,<BR>

My name is Bernadette. I live in Cincinnati,Oh. I was

diagnosed with <BR>

fibro about three years ago (actually I should say I

finally <BR>

diagnosed my illness and my doc agreed after putting

me through all <BR>

kind of unrelated tests). <BR>

<BR>

I used to have a very stressful job working for a

major health system <BR>

until I was downsized and that was actually a good

thing. I was <BR>

getting sicker and sicker and not able to function as

well as I would <BR>

have liked. That gave me the opportunity to open my

own business <BR>

which had been a dream. I own Strictly Dogs, a dog day

care and fun <BR>

center. I enjoy it but it is also quite a task on some

days. <BR>

<BR>

I find exhaustion is my biggest problem and trying to

get out of bed <BR>

in the morning. I can tell the weather better than a

meteorologist. <BR>

Some days I cope better than others. I also have a lot

of other <BR>

personal issues happening at the same time which

really don't help <BR>

anything. I'm sure not any different from all of you.

<BR>

<BR>

I'd love to hear tricks on remaining positive that is

a hard one, <BR>

especially when all else seems to be wrong.<BR>

<BR>

Thanks<BR>

Bernie<BR>

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Hello Bernadette

My name is Lorraine and I live in the UK, I found what

helped me was a book by Dale Carnegie called 'How to

Stop Worrying and Start Living' It helped turn my life

around and I have never looked back since. I bought

that book around 1979-1980. So you can see that I am

still going strong.

I have had Fibro all my life and I too went through

some meaningful tests and extremely painful ones as I

was only diagnosed about 8 years ago, but I had had

problems since birth. And when the time came that I

was at a low I sought help but couldn't get it and so

I found this book that turned my life around. I hope

it can do the same for you.

God Bless

Lorraine UK

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Hi,<BR>

My name is Bernadette. I live in Cincinnati,Oh. I was

diagnosed with <BR>

fibro about three years ago (actually I should say I

finally <BR>

diagnosed my illness and my doc agreed after putting

me through all <BR>

kind of unrelated tests). <BR>

<BR>

I used to have a very stressful job working for a

major health system <BR>

until I was downsized and that was actually a good

thing. I was <BR>

getting sicker and sicker and not able to function as

well as I would <BR>

have liked. That gave me the opportunity to open my

own business <BR>

which had been a dream. I own Strictly Dogs, a dog day

care and fun <BR>

center. I enjoy it but it is also quite a task on some

days. <BR>

<BR>

I find exhaustion is my biggest problem and trying to

get out of bed <BR>

in the morning. I can tell the weather better than a

meteorologist. <BR>

Some days I cope better than others. I also have a lot

of other <BR>

personal issues happening at the same time which

really don't help <BR>

anything. I'm sure not any different from all of you.

<BR>

<BR>

I'd love to hear tricks on remaining positive that is

a hard one, <BR>

especially when all else seems to be wrong.<BR>

<BR>

Thanks<BR>

Bernie<BR>

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> My other problem is that writing becomes harder to do

> because my grip is not what it used to be-- I drop things alot-- I

> say I have the dropsys---luckily my family is very supportive and I

> have a very understanding husband-- my 14 yrold and 12 yr old sons

> will even push my wheel chair for me ( of course then I have to

> endure the obligatory wheelies and fast stops ( I installed a

> seatbelt hahah))

Welcome to the group. Glad to hear that you have family support. I had

to laugh over the wheelies, at least they aren't saying they're too cool

to be seen with a mom in a wheel chair!! Few years ago, I was using a

wheelchair a lot for a bad knee. We rented one for my MIL and one for

me when we were all in San . I confess to having wheelchair

races at the Alamo (no one was around) with my MIL. Being able to laugh

helps.

I can drop stuff a lot too, particularly my keys or pens. I usually

drop my keys when trying to lock my door, so I really was watching today

so I hopefully wouldn't. I didn't drop my keys, but it feels like I

dropped everything else between here and the doctors.

The meds I am currently taking are Relafen,

> Zanaflex and darvocet when ever I need it-- I am also taking

> temazepam but my doctor gave me a prescription for Doxipin and I am

> not sure if I want to switch-- Any opinions??

Sorry, I am not on any medication for fibro, so I'll let someone else

with experience answer this one.

> Next time I am in Heaven and God asks me if I want a little

> pain and then a lot more pain I'll pay more attention I thought he

> said do ypu want a nice terain and then to own a plane -- Of course I

> must of said sure bring it on!!!Hahaha

Great sense of humor, I must have been standing next to you in line,

just chattering away since I'm in the same position of obviously not

listening well.

Darcy

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>

> My other problem is that writing becomes harder to do

> because my grip is not what it used to be-- I drop things alot-- I

> say I have the dropsys---luckily my family is very supportive and I

> have a very understanding husband-- my 14 yrold and 12 yr old sons

> will even push my wheel chair for me ( of course then I have to

> endure the obligatory wheelies and fast stops ( I installed a

> seatbelt hahah))

Welcome to the group. Glad to hear that you have family support. I had

to laugh over the wheelies, at least they aren't saying they're too cool

to be seen with a mom in a wheel chair!! Few years ago, I was using a

wheelchair a lot for a bad knee. We rented one for my MIL and one for

me when we were all in San . I confess to having wheelchair

races at the Alamo (no one was around) with my MIL. Being able to laugh

helps.

I can drop stuff a lot too, particularly my keys or pens. I usually

drop my keys when trying to lock my door, so I really was watching today

so I hopefully wouldn't. I didn't drop my keys, but it feels like I

dropped everything else between here and the doctors.

The meds I am currently taking are Relafen,

> Zanaflex and darvocet when ever I need it-- I am also taking

> temazepam but my doctor gave me a prescription for Doxipin and I am

> not sure if I want to switch-- Any opinions??

Sorry, I am not on any medication for fibro, so I'll let someone else

with experience answer this one.

> Next time I am in Heaven and God asks me if I want a little

> pain and then a lot more pain I'll pay more attention I thought he

> said do ypu want a nice terain and then to own a plane -- Of course I

> must of said sure bring it on!!!Hahaha

Great sense of humor, I must have been standing next to you in line,

just chattering away since I'm in the same position of obviously not

listening well.

Darcy

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a-morale@... wrote:

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> My other problem is that writing becomes harder to do

> because my grip is not what it used to be-- I drop things alot-- I

> say I have the dropsys---luckily my family is very supportive and I

> have a very understanding husband-- my 14 yrold and 12 yr old sons

> will even push my wheel chair for me ( of course then I have to

> endure the obligatory wheelies and fast stops ( I installed a

> seatbelt hahah))

Welcome to the group. Glad to hear that you have family support. I had

to laugh over the wheelies, at least they aren't saying they're too cool

to be seen with a mom in a wheel chair!! Few years ago, I was using a

wheelchair a lot for a bad knee. We rented one for my MIL and one for

me when we were all in San . I confess to having wheelchair

races at the Alamo (no one was around) with my MIL. Being able to laugh

helps.

I can drop stuff a lot too, particularly my keys or pens. I usually

drop my keys when trying to lock my door, so I really was watching today

so I hopefully wouldn't. I didn't drop my keys, but it feels like I

dropped everything else between here and the doctors.

The meds I am currently taking are Relafen,

> Zanaflex and darvocet when ever I need it-- I am also taking

> temazepam but my doctor gave me a prescription for Doxipin and I am

> not sure if I want to switch-- Any opinions??

Sorry, I am not on any medication for fibro, so I'll let someone else

with experience answer this one.

> Next time I am in Heaven and God asks me if I want a little

> pain and then a lot more pain I'll pay more attention I thought he

> said do ypu want a nice terain and then to own a plane -- Of course I

> must of said sure bring it on!!!Hahaha

Great sense of humor, I must have been standing next to you in line,

just chattering away since I'm in the same position of obviously not

listening well.

Darcy

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Hi Ed and Regina!

Congratulations on finding out you are having a baby girl! My husband and I

found out that our little daughter was going to born with clubfeet at our 19

week ultrasound as well (last year). I remember feeling very scared because

we knew nothing about clubfeet. She was born last June with just a right

clubbed foot. We had three " Ponseti " casts during her first, second, and

third weeks of life. I have to admit, it was a little crazy that first month

but it was truly amazing having this wonderful new baby in the house (casts

or not). Her feet were corrected after those casts and now and since then

she has worn leather shoes with a bar attached to keep her feet in the

proper alignment (first 23 hours a day and then just at nap and nighttime).

I'm sure you are feeling very overwhelmed with the news...but do not worry

about little . With proper treatment she will do quite well! Our

daughter is no different than any other one year old (her feet even look

wonderful!). You are fortunate, as we were, to have the time to research

which treatment method you want for Baby and to find a doctor who can

meet your needs!

Best wishes,

Amy & 6-10-01

Hello

>Hi, we are Ed and Regina and our baby to be born in another 20 weeks

>was just diagnosed as having a right clubbed foot. What does this

>mean to us and her? I know this is a pretty open ended question, but

>we just found out so any and all responses would be helpful.

>

>Tks,

>

>Ed, Regina and baby .

>

>

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