Guest guest Posted April 29, 2001 Report Share Posted April 29, 2001 AmyR, Very scary.......just another thing for us to worry about. Makes me want to scream - and I'm not even the one going through it. How are you feeling otherwise??? Terri amrichey@... wrote: I had NO idea it would be this way when I got pg. My dr was so nice, kind, compassionate when I had the ep and told me to be sure to be in immediately if I was late and I'd start to be monitored...um, I think maybe mistake was asking for their definition of " monitored " ? Obviously it doesn't mean the same to me as it does to them. -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 2, 2001 Report Share Posted May 2, 2001 Just wishing you good luck!!!! ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 6, 2001 Report Share Posted May 6, 2001 Hey Terri, I'm glad to hear you're doing well in the 2ww. You sound pretty patient about the whole thing, which is great! I always tell myself at the start of the month that it's ok if it's not this month and that things will work out soon enough, but by the end I'm a basket-case and assuming a negative this month means it will never happen for me. It's funny, it seems so natural to me that women around here WILL get pg again after ectopics because I see it all the time. However, when it comes to myself it sometimes seems so far-fetched and I don't know why. I hate it when bms becomes a chore, but that always seems to happen by the end. It's a funny sort of pressure to put on your partner, but luckily dh has a sense of humor about it all! Hope things go well for you. Dominique Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 6, 2001 Report Share Posted May 6, 2001 Sending positive thoughts that this " love fest " worked for you and dh ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Darci _______________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2001 Report Share Posted May 7, 2001 Terri, I just wanted to say, I understand about letting that thought pop up into your head. I thought that myself before, sometimes you just can't help the fear and negative thoughts. I think all our minds think about having another ep but you stay strong and when you are feeling alittle negative...we will be here praying for you! You are going to be ok and when you get pg again, you and baby will be ok too! Terri Sears wrote: Dominique, Yeah, I'm pretty positive but I'm only five days into my first 2ww..........I'm sure it gets more difficult as time goes on. I know what you mean about thinking it's not going to happen for YOU....I keep thinking that since so many people have been having success getting pg (which is wonderful!!!), that someone here is bound to have a repeat ep and it will probably be me... Then I just quickly push that thought out of my head. Anyway, thanks for the positive wishes - and I wish the same for you. Terri dkcarlton@... wrote: Hey Terri, I'm glad to hear you're doing well in the 2ww. You sound pretty patient about the whole thing, which is great! I always tell myself at the start of the month that it's ok if it's not this month and that things will work out soon enough, but by the end I'm a basket-case and assuming a negative this month means it will never happen for me. It's funny, it seems so natural to me that women around here WILL get pg again after ectopics because I see it all the time. However, when it comes to myself it sometimes seems so far-fetched and I don't know why. I hate it when bms becomes a chore, but that always seems to happen by the end. It's a funny sort of pressure to put on your partner, but luckily dh has a sense of humor about it all! Hope things go well for you. Dominique Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2001 Report Share Posted May 8, 2001 Terri, Hello! Thanks, that was nice of you to say but I just try to give back alittle of what I have gotten here, ya know? (smile) Take care. Terri Sears wrote: , As always, thank you so much for your positive thoughts and encouragement...you are a very special person and you always go out of your way to help! Terri Mei wrote: Terri, I just wanted to say, I understand about letting that thought pop up into your head. I thought that myself before, sometimes you just can't help the fear and negative thoughts. I think all our minds think about having another ep but you stay strong and when you are feeling alittle negative...we will be here praying for you! You are going to be ok and when you get pg again, you and baby will be ok too! Terri Sears wrote: Dominique, Yeah, I'm pretty positive but I'm only five days into my first 2ww..........I'm sure it gets more difficult as time goes on. I know what you mean about thinking it's not going to happen for YOU....I keep thinking that since so many people have been having success getting pg (which is wonderful!!!), that someone here is bound to have a repeat ep and it will probably be me... Then I just quickly push that thought out of my head. Anyway, thanks for the positive wishes - and I wish the same for you. Terri dkcarlton@... wrote: Hey Terri, I'm glad to hear you're doing well in the 2ww. You sound pretty patient about the whole thing, which is great! I always tell myself at the start of the month that it's ok if it's not this month and that things will work out soon enough, but by the end I'm a basket-case and assuming a negative this month means it will never happen for me. It's funny, it seems so natural to me that women around here WILL get pg again after ectopics because I see it all the time. However, when it comes to myself it sometimes seems so far-fetched and I don't know why. I hate it when bms becomes a chore, but that always seems to happen by the end. It's a funny sort of pressure to put on your partner, but luckily dh has a sense of humor about it all! Hope things go well for you. Dominique Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 13, 2001 Report Share Posted May 13, 2001 Thanks ...it helps to know you guys understand. I swear my husband thinks I am crazy..all this charting, and temp taking, and breast poking, etc.! Mei wrote: Terri- I just wanted to say, I am sending lots of positive ++thoughts to you. I know, it is hard to know what is really real and what you might be imagining because you want it so bad. Please take care. ********* Terri Sears wrote: HI there! Thanks for thinking of me. I haven't had access to a computer since my hard drive crashed on my 1.5 month old computer a couple of days ago! I'm visiting my dad right now so am finally able to attempt to catch up (yeah, right!) Anyway, no major signs of anything here. I am 11 days post ov. now. My breasts are a little sore but they always are. You???? I might take a test tomorrow b/c I have some very mild intermitent lower right abdominal pain (or am I imagining it???). How are you holding up? Terri dkcarlton@... wrote: Hey there! Just wanted to see how your wait was going. Any positive signs yet? Lots and lots of baby dust to you!************** take care, Dominique Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 14, 2001 Report Share Posted May 14, 2001 Terri, I know they really don't get it. That is why I am so glad we have each other! Terri Sears wrote: Thanks ...it helps to know you guys understand. I swear my husband thinks I am crazy..all this charting, and temp taking, and breast poking, etc.! Mei wrote: Terri- I just wanted to say, I am sending lots of positive ++thoughts to you. I know, it is hard to know what is really real and what you might be imagining because you want it so bad. Please take care. ********* Terri Sears wrote: HI there! Thanks for thinking of me. I haven't had access to a computer since my hard drive crashed on my 1.5 month old computer a couple of days ago! I'm visiting my dad right now so am finally able to attempt to catch up (yeah, right!) Anyway, no major signs of anything here. I am 11 days post ov. now. My breasts are a little sore but they always are. You???? I might take a test tomorrow b/c I have some very mild intermitent lower right abdominal pain (or am I imagining it???). How are you holding up? Terri dkcarlton@... wrote: Hey there! Just wanted to see how your wait was going. Any positive signs yet? Lots and lots of baby dust to you!************** take care, Dominique Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 14, 2001 Report Share Posted May 14, 2001 Terri, I am glad you are going to take another hpt in a couple of days. I am thinking of you. I am also so sorry to hear about your mom, it must of been hard on you but I am glad you spent the day with your dad, I am sure he was happy to have you too!! Terri Sears wrote: Dominique, So many things can influence your temperature....don't just assume it's an anovulatory cycle. Do you take it the same time every day? Mine post-ov temps are not quite as high as they usually are, which is weird. I took the First Response hpt, which is supposedly accurate 3 days before af is expected, although as I mentioned is only identifies 59% of the pregnancies at that time. (what a ripoff!) I'm having an ok time at my Dad's. I miss my Mom today though (and every day). She died about 4 years ago....as a matter of fact, I attribute her death as one of those factors that made me really want a baby. Although, the thought of not having her support as a mother and a grandmother before, during, and after giving birth makes me very, very sad. Think +++++ thoughts!!! If positive energy really can influence events, there is more than enough here to go around! Terri dkcarlton@... wrote: Terri, I'm sorry to hear the test was negative, but it's still too early to give up hope yet! Especially depending on the HPT you took, they all measure different hcg levels from 20-400, so please hang in there for now! I'm having weird temperature fluctations that make me worry I didn't really ovulate this month:( I guess I'll know more after the progesterone test next week. It doesn't look to good though as far as that goes - abnormal even for me. I hope you're having a nice time at your father's. It's days like these I wish my family were closer so I could pop over and give my mom a hug on Mother's Day! Take care, Dominique Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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