Guest guest Posted December 28, 2008 Report Share Posted December 28, 2008 Marilyn Marilyn, I get so frustrated learning how we all get treated and thrown around as if we don't know our own bodies, our state of health. ARGH!!! I am so sorry you have to go through this. If Docs would just understand the stress they put patients under. Maybe you need to look for a new GI someone on the SCD pals list? Perhaps it will be covered through insurance? I don't like it that he doesn't understand your needs- I mean maybe there would be some way to prep you supplement wise.. Doesn't seem like a doc that thinks outside of the box one bit or is willing to work with you... My mom had a procedure and her surgeon was in great communication with her PCP (which is also an integrative doc) GI's are a miserable breed. Jodi SCD 15 months Crohn's/Colitis Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 Jodi, I get very frustrated, too. I think I frightened my PCP this morning, screaming and cursing at him. Yeah, I know -- I stay so calm on the lists, for the most part, that people can't really imagine we losing it... but the fear of anesthesia, and the fear of going off this life-saving diet (on which I made so DARN many mistakes in the first year!) will do it every time. <wry grin> This IS a new gastro -- I don't have one, because I fired the one in 2001 who told me food had nothing to do with gut issues, and hinted darkly that the high liver enzyme levels at the time of my gall bladder surgery indicated liver cancer. Since the liver enzyme levels returned to normal within six weeks of starting SCD, I felt no qualms about kicking him out the door. SCD has healed 25 years of gut spasm, urgency, and soft, mushy stool with diarrhea. I had to find a gastro in order to have this colonoscopy. I doubt, unless there's something serious wrong, that I'll go back to him -- and maybe not then. My discussion of those needs apparently went in one ear and out the other, with no orders given to the office staff to accommodate them. I'll be mentioning it to both my gynecologist and my oncologist -- both of whom were wonderful in accommodating my needs for the cancer surgery. The oncologist was completely cool about it -- I bribed her with apple-pecan muffins! I agree. GIs are a miserable breed. Must come from the fact that they spend all their time looking up people's rears. No, wait... that's proctologists. I think they're related. — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2008 Report Share Posted December 31, 2008 Marilyn,I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. You've been through so much this past year and it just keeps coming. There is a special place in 'you know where' for these doctors who treat people so badly and have such a lack of respect for their patient's needs. It is your body, you are the one that has lived in it 24/7 for a few years now yet he is so arrogant that he thinks he knows it better than you. I don't understand why someone would become a doctor if they didn't want to help people. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope all goes well with your prep and procedure. And I hope that 2009 holds only good things for you!Kim H. Just wanted to say thanks to everyone who had helpful hints re: testing for celiac. Pardon me if things are a trifle shattered on this end over the next week. I saw the gastro last Monday, and while he SEEMED nice, it's become patently clear that, in common with almost every gastro we on this list are familiar with, everything I said about my special needs went in one ear and out the other. The instructions I have received for the clean-out are impossible for me to carry out, and I am going to have to try to see either my PCP or the gastro first thing tomorrow. I am forbidden to take the meds which prevent muscle spasm in my back because they are oily and will stimulate the liver and pancreas to produce their usual digestive juices which will, in turn, obscure the view. If I could take a dose on Thursday, before the clean-out starts, I might be able to make it through until after the test on Friday, but that is not permitted according to the written orders. Apparently he thinks that because the spasms are controlled with nutrition and supplements, they aren't very bad, and I can just endure the pain for 48 hours. No prescription med which has worked in the past is safe for me to take prior to having anesthesia. The last time I went without the supplements was for my cancer surgery -- and my surgeon knew, and compensated in the meds. The time before that, I landed in the hospital, in the emergency room because I could not stop throwing up because of the pain. The gastro doesn't care. He basically shrugged, and said, "Well, you have to do what you have to do, but if you don't follow my directions, I'll come out and tell you it was a bad test." In other words, I'll go through the clean-out and the pain and have no useful information. Of course, his instructions also say that if I start throwing up during the prep, I should call the doctor immediately. Problem is, I know in advance, that without my supplements, I will be throwing up before things even get started. Harry says I should just cancel the test. I don't feel I can do that, because the PCP has hinted darkly that my recent blood tests indicate that I am bleeding internally, and that it may mean that the cancer has spread to the colon. If it has, I need to know, so that steps can be taken. I finally got to go over the instructions Christmas Eve. Great present, huh? And I've spent the whole holiday weekend in misery because of them. Oh, and did I mention that I'm not allowed to bring my Bipap for the procedure? I won't need it, says the gastro, because if I stop breathing during the procedure, they'll just shake me and wake me up. Patently obvious he knows nothing about sleep apnea, let alone complex sleep apnea. I know there's not much ya'll can do... and the test is essential. But I'm not happy, and I am upset because of the total failure to take into account special needs. I hate "one size fits all" medicine. Apologies for dumping on you all. — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 Marilyn, I am appalled, but not surprised, at the #$^%# & *!!!@#^^ & attitude of the GI you saw. Is there anyone else you can go to? I'm thinking of you and praying you find the answers you need to move forward. You are such a fortress of strength for all of us here on this list and I hope we can all be there for you. Peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 At 02:53 PM 12/31/2008, you wrote: I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. You've been through so much this past year and it just keeps coming. There is a special place in 'you know where' for these doctors who treat people so badly and have such a lack of respect for their patient's needs. It is your body, you are the one that has lived in it 24/7 for a few years now yet he is so arrogant that he thinks he knows it better than you. I don't understand why someone would become a doctor if they didn't want to help people. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope all goes well with your prep and procedure. And I hope that 2009 holds only good things for you! Kim, Thanks for the kind words. I'm on Day Two of my fast for this procedure. I was able to talk to the endoscopy nurse on TUesday, and she answered a number of my questions -- and helped me find alternatives to the cookie-cutter one-size-fits-all pre-printed directions. If that d@mned office worker would have referred me to her when I said I had questions instead of throwing me out of the office, I would have been spared a week of severe stress and strain. For instance, the legal stool softeners my oncologist prescribed while I was on narcotics after the surgery are just fine for this procedure, too, and I've taken some of those instead of the bisacodyl which contained not one, but FOUR illegals. She explained exactly what would transpire during the procedure, and when I said I had trouble detoxing from demerol, said she would make a note to use a different drug which has a much shorter detox rate on it. She also said to be sure and bring my CPAP, and to make sure that my husband knew how to put it on me. She did not think I would need it during the actual procedure, but I should have it as soon as the procedure was finished, and until I was awake enough to go home. And, of course, I should use it at home any time I was resting. (Which I do anyway.) Now, will someone tell me why that <bleeping> scheduler couldn't have let me take care of my questions before they ruined my holiday? — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 At 09:36 AM 1/1/2009, you wrote: I am appalled, but not surprised, at the #$^%# & *!!!@#^^ & attitude of the GI you saw. Is there anyone else you can go to? I'm thinking of you and praying you find the answers you need to move forward. You are such a fortress of strength for all of us here on this list and I hope we can all be there for you. , I was appalled, too, but not surprised -- I have seen others reports on gastroenterologists and their attitudes for more years than I want to think about. Regrettably, I would have had to wait until March or April for an appointment with anyone else, and my PCP insisted that it was " serious, " though " It MAY only be polyps.... " Given that the first place cancer is likely to spread from the uterus is to the colon, I wasn't willing to wait. I've begun the clean-out for the colonoscopy, which is scheduled for 7:30 AM tomorrow, Friday, 2 January. If you're awake, all prayers gratefully accepted. — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 Marilyn, You have my sincere good wishes and prayers as you undergo your colonoscopy. I am sending you all positive vibes and know that even though it is a pain in the a** ( pardon the pun), you are doing something positive in a prevention way. It's like the stupid mammogram....we all dread it, hate having to go, but early detection of anything or nothing is better than the alternative. I think you should do what is comfortable for you and bring your CPAP just in case and after all is said and done, you can politely tell the GI that you will do it YOUR way next time, that he has to meet you at least halfway in your needs. Sometimes, after you have established a relationship with some of the more arrogant practitioners, they soften up a bit. God Bless and best of luck. Thinking of you, Terry Re: Re: Thanks, re Celiac Info At 09:36 AM 1/1/2009, you wrote: I am appalled, but not surprised, at the #$^%# & *!!!@#^^ & attitude ofthe GI you saw. Is there anyone else you can go to? I'm thinking ofyou and praying you find the answers you need to move forward. Youare such a fortress of strength for all of us here on this list and Ihope we can all be there for you.,I was appalled, too, but not surprised -- I have seen others reports on gastroenterologists and their attitudes for more years than I want to think about.Regrettably, I would have had to wait until March or April for an appointment with anyone else, and my PCP insisted that it was "serious," though "It MAY only be polyps...."Given that the first place cancer is likely to spread from the uterus is to the colon, I wasn't willing to wait. I've begun the clean-out for the colonoscopy, which is scheduled for 7:30 AM tomorrow, Friday, 2 January. If you're awake, all prayers gratefully accepted. - Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 Oh Marilyn, I wrote to you before I read this post. I'm glad you found someone to help you there. You have to treat the doctor as you would anyplace where you don't get satisfaction; ask for the supervisor. An office clerk deals with 20 wackos a day and does not know you are a woman of intelligence and reason. And I'm glad she said to bring the CPAP--best of luck again. Terry Re: Thanks, re Celiac Info At 02:53 PM 12/31/2008, you wrote: I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. You've been through so much this past year and it just keeps coming. There is a special place in 'you know where' for these doctors who treat people so badly and have such a lack of respect for their patient's needs. It is your body, you are the one that has lived in it 24/7 for a few years now yet he is so arrogant that he thinks he knows it better than you. I don't understand why someone would become a doctor if they didn't want to help people. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope all goes well with your prep and procedure. And I hope that 2009 holds only good things for you!Kim,Thanks for the kind words. I'm on Day Two of my fast for this procedure. I was able to talk to the endoscopy nurse on TUesday, and she answered a number of my questions -- and helped me find alternatives to the cookie-cutter one-size-fits-all pre-printed directions. If that d@mned office worker would have referred me to her when I said I had questions instead of throwing me out of the office, I would have been spared a week of severe stress and strain.For instance, the legal stool softeners my oncologist prescribed while I was on narcotics after the surgery are just fine for this procedure, too, and I've taken some of those instead of the bisacodyl which contained not one, but FOUR illegals.She explained exactly what would transpire during the procedure, and when I said I had trouble detoxing from demerol, said she would make a note to use a different drug which has a much shorter detox rate on it. She also said to be sure and bring my CPAP, and to make sure that my husband knew how to put it on me. She did not think I would need it during the actual procedure, but I should have it as soon as the procedure was finished, and until I was awake enough to go home. And, of course, I should use it at home any time I was resting. (Which I do anyway.)Now, will someone tell me why that <bleeping> scheduler couldn't have let me take care of my questions before they ruined my holiday? - Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 Hey Marilyn.. This makes me so angry that no one was helpful earlier so you would of been spared of the stress and worry!! As it is these things are difficult. It's ironic though since they say " Doctors make the worst patients " If this is the case than where does their compassion go? Obviously, some of these old farts also have to do clean outs and who knows what else... these people have loved ones. ARGH! Anyway, I will be happy when you will be through with all of this at home.. relaxing.. Getting back into the swing of things, writing, cooking.. test cooking.. Having fun with your fur kids.. And all of this will be behind you. Big hugs and of course many thoughts a prayers being sent your way.. Thank you for all of your help Marilyn.. This sure is a giving community- you have all given me so much. Thank you. Jodi SCD 15 months Crohn's/Colitis > Now, will someone tell me why that <bleeping> > scheduler couldn't have let me take care of my > questions before they ruined my holiday? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2009 Report Share Posted January 5, 2009 You have my sincere good wishes and prayers as you undergo your colonoscopy. I am sending you all positive vibes and know that even though it is a pain in the a** ( pardon the pun), you are doing something positive in a prevention way. It's like the stupid mammogram....we all dread it, hate having to go, but early detection of anything or nothing is better than the alternative. I think you should do what is comfortable for you and bring your CPAP just in case and after all is said and done, you can politely tell the GI that you will do it YOUR way next time, that he has to meet you at least halfway in your needs. Sometimes, after you have established a relationship with some of the more arrogant practitioners, they soften up a bit. God Bless and best of luck. Thinking of you, Terry, All the good thoughts and prayers are deeply appreciated. Ironically, the test itself wasn't that difficult -- it was getting the medical personnel to understand that my special needs can't simply be set aside because it's inconvenient for them. (Geesh, I wish I could set them aside! They're darned inconvenient for me!) I did bring my Bipap. but fortunately, did not need it since they modified the meds they gave me. I believe they used a combination of Versed and fentanyl (sp?), and it wore off quickly enough that I could navigate on my own. (I saw a woman whose procedure was before mine, and she was having to be helped to the restroom.) The most difficult issue was doing without the nutriceuticals I use for muscle-spasm relief. The muscle spasms are courtesy of a back injury in 1982. They are not technically related to my gut issues, but if they occur, they pinch the nerves to my gut, and I end up throwing up continuously. One nutriceutical was forbidden because it's a dark green and would interfere with " the view, " and the others were forbidden because they were oily. The problem was that although I was forbidden these, no provision was made for dealing with the inevitable pain which resulted from their removal. The PCP, after my screaming fit, prescribed Lidocaine patches... which worked, in part, for about 6 hours. Except that I had another four hours to go before receiving the sedation and muscle relaxants for the procedure. When my husband called the gastro at 4am because I was in so much pain and dealing with nausea, the gastro had no suggestions except to bring my meds with me so I could take them after the procedure! (Which I did.) I came home, and after I'd gotten something to eat, answered a few SCD questions, and then crawled into bed with my Bipap for about a four hour nap. WRT mammograms... I still have mixed feelings about exposing sensitive breast tissue to X-rays every year. Prevention and/or early detection is a good thing, but the reviews I have seen can be mixed. If they'd find a less dangerous way of scanning, then yes, definitely. Now Pap smears are another issue -- if I'd had those regularly (VERY long story as to why I didn't), then the cellular changes which indicated forthcoming cancer might have been caught early. I'm all in favor of pap smears. Still, the important thing is that the results were all so good! — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 That's infuriating. Seriously, if you don't want to help people, do not choose a career in healthcare! I am so very glad that it all worked out for you though and that they didn't see any signs of anything other than a healthy gut. YAY!!!! Kim H. Kim,Thanks for the kind words. I'm on Day Two of my fast for this procedure. I was able to talk to the endoscopy nurse on TUesday, and she answered a number of my questions -- and helped me find alternatives to the cookie-cutter one-size-fits- all pre-printed directions. If that d@mned office worker would have referred me to her when I said I had questions instead of throwing me out of the office, I would have been spared a week of severe stress and strain.For instance, the legal stool softeners my oncologist prescribed while I was on narcotics after the surgery are just fine for this procedure, too, and I've taken some of those instead of the bisacodyl which contained not one, but FOUR illegals.She explained exactly what would transpire during the procedure, and when I said I had trouble detoxing from demerol, said she would make a note to use a different drug which has a much shorter detox rate on it. She also said to be sure and bring my CPAP, and to make sure that my husband knew how to put it on me. She did not think I would need it during the actual procedure, but I should have it as soon as the procedure was finished, and until I was awake enough to go home. And, of course, I should use it at home any time I was resting. (Which I do anyway.)Now, will someone tell me why that <bleeping> scheduler couldn't have let me take care of my questions before they ruined my holiday? — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 At 09:32 AM 1/6/2009, you wrote: That's infuriating. Seriously, if you don't want to help people, do not choose a career in healthcare! I am so very glad that it all worked out for you though and that they didn't see any signs of anything other than a healthy gut. YAY!!!! Kim, Amen to that! Not wanting to help people equals " you shouldn't work in health care. " It worked out, but it was a real zoo, especially when my back started locking up at 4a just the way I told them it would -- and they had nothing to suggest. It's very gratifying to know there were no signs of anything but healthy gut! (Now I just have to worry about what the PCP will come up with next.) — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 It worked out, but it was a real zoo, especially when my back started locking up at 4a just the way I told them it would -- and they had nothing to suggest.That's horrible! Their purpose is *supposed* to be to ease pain, not cause more! (Now I just have to worry about what the PCP will come up with next.)They gotta make their money somehow....Kim H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 Kim, That's horrible! Their purpose is *supposed* to be to ease pain, not cause more! Yes. Unfortunately, neither the gastro nor the PCP really believed that my back would lock up. The PCP had given me some lidoderm patches which helped, but it was still going under. I said " To bleep with this, " and took some bromelain, which is an anti-inflammatory on an empty stomach, and it, along with pantothenic acid and taurine eased things enough that I could hang on until they shot me full of the meds for the procedure. And unfortunately, I'm having trouble getting my back on an even keel. I'm not even sure if I'll be able to make our trip to Atlanta this weekend for the annual music conference I enjoy going to so much. My gut? Well, I popped some s. boulardii and some Lyo-San on walking out of the place (along with my nutriceutical for my back) and the gut has recovered just fine from all the insults. (Now I just have to worry about what the PCP will come up with next.) They gotta make their money somehow.... As far as I'm concerned, they can make it experimenting on someone else. At least I know my gut is healthy! — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 And unfortunately, I'm having trouble getting my back on an even keel. I'm not even sure if I'll be able to make our trip to Atlanta this weekend for the annual music conference I enjoy going to so much.That stinks! I hope things get back to normal for you before the weekend. My gut? Well, I popped some s. boulardii and some Lyo-San on walking out of the place (along with my nutriceutical for my back) and the gut has recovered just fine from all the insults. Well that's great!! As far as I'm concerned, they can make it experimenting on someone else. At least I know my gut is healthy!That's for sure!Kim H._._,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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