Guest guest Posted April 4, 2006 Report Share Posted April 4, 2006 Hi Ann, I feel your pain as you talk about you and your husband. nne's idea was good to maybe talk to another man about the feelings of intimacy after bc. How long have you been married and what was it like before bc? How is your image to him as a women? I am not a psychologist but something to think about. I like to plan surprizes or wear sexy items. But then again I am not married either. Sharon C SHARON COLEY DIRECTOR OF SALES DOUBLETREE HOTEL LOS ANGELES/ROSEMEAD 888 MONTEBELLO BLVD. ROSEMEAD, CA 91770 Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 4, 2006 Report Share Posted April 4, 2006 Hi I love reading all your responses to each other. When you have BC you form an invisible bond. It's something that if you don't experience it (with Luck) you would not understand. I vented my feelings, there are days and there are days. I have been married 30 years this year. We have had a very active sex life up until the cancer was discovered. I do believe he loves me, he is just having a hard time adjusting to everything. Who doesn't!!!!! It's just that the longer he takes the angrier I get. I would never have guessed in a million years this would have happened. I have a great breast surgeon. She is the most upbeat and brutally honest doctor. Plus she cares an awful lot. She has also been helping me. We have no support group in this town. I also have three great sisters and two daughters, both in college. I will get by this and I will be stronger for it. I am glad there are support groups such as this group out there. It's a little hard to discuss sex life with your daughters (Oh gross!!!) I'm feeling better now, I just did my yoga/pilates class. It's great for lymphdema. Thank you all for listening. My prayers go out to you all. Ann sharon coley wrote: Hi Ann, I feel your pain as you talk about you and your husband. nne's idea was good to maybe talk to another man about the feelings of intimacy after bc. How long have you been married and what was it like before bc? How is your image to him as a women? I am not a psychologist but something to think about. I like to plan surprizes or wear sexy items. But then again I am not married either. Sharon C SHARON COLEY DIRECTOR OF SALES DOUBLETREE HOTEL LOS ANGELES/ROSEMEAD 888 MONTEBELLO BLVD. ROSEMEAD, CA 91770 Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Blab-away for as little as 1¢/min. Make PC-to-Phone Calls using Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 4, 2006 Report Share Posted April 4, 2006 Hi I love reading all your responses to each other. When you have BC you form an invisible bond. It's something that if you don't experience it (with Luck) you would not understand. I vented my feelings, there are days and there are days. I have been married 30 years this year. We have had a very active sex life up until the cancer was discovered. I do believe he loves me, he is just having a hard time adjusting to everything. Who doesn't!!!!! It's just that the longer he takes the angrier I get. I would never have guessed in a million years this would have happened. I have a great breast surgeon. She is the most upbeat and brutally honest doctor. Plus she cares an awful lot. She has also been helping me. We have no support group in this town. I also have three great sisters and two daughters, both in college. I will get by this and I will be stronger for it. I am glad there are support groups such as this group out there. It's a little hard to discuss sex life with your daughters (Oh gross!!!) I'm feeling better now, I just did my yoga/pilates class. It's great for lymphdema. Thank you all for listening. My prayers go out to you all. Ann sharon coley wrote: Hi Ann, I feel your pain as you talk about you and your husband. nne's idea was good to maybe talk to another man about the feelings of intimacy after bc. How long have you been married and what was it like before bc? How is your image to him as a women? I am not a psychologist but something to think about. I like to plan surprizes or wear sexy items. But then again I am not married either. Sharon C SHARON COLEY DIRECTOR OF SALES DOUBLETREE HOTEL LOS ANGELES/ROSEMEAD 888 MONTEBELLO BLVD. ROSEMEAD, CA 91770 Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Blab-away for as little as 1¢/min. Make PC-to-Phone Calls using Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2006 Report Share Posted April 5, 2006 I agree it takes someone that has been in the same position to really understand. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: re: To Ann Hi I love reading all your responses to each other. When you have BC you form an invisible bond. It's something that if you don't experience it (with Luck) you would not understand. I vented my feelings, there are days and there are days. I have been married 30 years this year. We have had a very active sex life up until the cancer was discovered. I do believe he loves me, he is just having a hard time adjusting to everything. Who doesn't!!!!! It's just that the longer he takes the angrier I get. I would never have guessed in a million years this would have happened. I have a great breast surgeon. She is the most upbeat and brutally honest doctor. Plus she cares an awful lot. She has also been helping me. We have no support group in this town. I also have three great sisters and two daughters, both in college. I will get by this and I will be stronger for it. I am glad there are support groups such as this group out there. It's a little hard to discuss sex life with your daughters (Oh gross!!!) I'm feeling better now, I just did my yoga/pilates class. It's great for lymphdema. Thank you all for listening. My prayers go out to you all. Ann sharon coley wrote: Hi Ann, I feel your pain as you talk about you and your husband. nne's idea was good to maybe talk to another man about the feelings of intimacy after bc. How long have you been married and what was it like before bc? How is your image to him as a women? I am not a psychologist but something to think about. I like to plan surprizes or wear sexy items. But then again I am not married either. Sharon C SHARON COLEY DIRECTOR OF SALES DOUBLETREE HOTEL LOS ANGELES/ROSEMEAD 888 MONTEBELLO BLVD. ROSEMEAD, CA 91770 Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Blab-away for as little as 1¢/min. Make PC-to-Phone Calls using Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2006 Report Share Posted April 5, 2006 I agree it takes someone that has been in the same position to really understand. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: re: To Ann Hi I love reading all your responses to each other. When you have BC you form an invisible bond. It's something that if you don't experience it (with Luck) you would not understand. I vented my feelings, there are days and there are days. I have been married 30 years this year. We have had a very active sex life up until the cancer was discovered. I do believe he loves me, he is just having a hard time adjusting to everything. Who doesn't!!!!! It's just that the longer he takes the angrier I get. I would never have guessed in a million years this would have happened. I have a great breast surgeon. She is the most upbeat and brutally honest doctor. Plus she cares an awful lot. She has also been helping me. We have no support group in this town. I also have three great sisters and two daughters, both in college. I will get by this and I will be stronger for it. I am glad there are support groups such as this group out there. It's a little hard to discuss sex life with your daughters (Oh gross!!!) I'm feeling better now, I just did my yoga/pilates class. It's great for lymphdema. Thank you all for listening. My prayers go out to you all. Ann sharon coley wrote: Hi Ann, I feel your pain as you talk about you and your husband. nne's idea was good to maybe talk to another man about the feelings of intimacy after bc. How long have you been married and what was it like before bc? How is your image to him as a women? I am not a psychologist but something to think about. I like to plan surprizes or wear sexy items. But then again I am not married either. Sharon C SHARON COLEY DIRECTOR OF SALES DOUBLETREE HOTEL LOS ANGELES/ROSEMEAD 888 MONTEBELLO BLVD. ROSEMEAD, CA 91770 Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Blab-away for as little as 1¢/min. Make PC-to-Phone Calls using Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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