Guest guest Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 It even gets complicated when there are siblings involved. My BPD mom asked for some money to buy a small fridge from someone else in the nursing home. I gave her some money for her birthday and went with her to pay for it. Today, my brother called asking if he could borrow $30 and asked me to take it to mom so she could buy the small fridge. I nicely told him no as I really didn't have the money. Not to mention she has already paid for the fridge. He told me that she told him that the lady is still waiting for the money. I couldn't believe it! > > Annie wrote > > That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to > your bpd > parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. > > No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. > We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, > because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what > have we done for them lately? > > Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with > new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? > She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. > Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought > his mom a new car. > > It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life > imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. > > > And damn them for making us believe that. > > Doug > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 It even gets complicated when there are siblings involved. My BPD mom asked for some money to buy a small fridge from someone else in the nursing home. I gave her some money for her birthday and went with her to pay for it. Today, my brother called asking if he could borrow $30 and asked me to take it to mom so she could buy the small fridge. I nicely told him no as I really didn't have the money. Not to mention she has already paid for the fridge. He told me that she told him that the lady is still waiting for the money. I couldn't believe it! > > Annie wrote > > That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to > your bpd > parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. > > No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. > We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, > because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what > have we done for them lately? > > Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with > new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? > She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. > Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought > his mom a new car. > > It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life > imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. > > > And damn them for making us believe that. > > Doug > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 Dear Doug, I am so glad to read these words. But sad too. You are so right. I cannot say enough about how much better I feel knowing other people like you and everyone on this forum exist and know the truth. Because you write words and share your heartbreak you are good to the core. You need to take that to heart. Take it to heart and remember you are good and keep telling yourself the truth. The truth is this it's NOT YOU it's not YOUR FAULT and you DESERVE a LIFE! I just wanted to say thank you and tell you YOU ARE GOOD! I don't have much of a chance to write on this forum but I will say this. My life has been a living hell and it's getting worse because of my BPD mother. I have tried to love myself and failed and failed and failed. But if there is hope of ever learning how I will get my strength from just reading this forum! Simply reading about what other people are going through calms me. Simply reading it makes me see how important I am as a person. Because of this forum I know that I am a great mom and wife and I have NOTHING WRONG WITH ME. Because of this forum I know that although I am not as successful in my career as I'd like to be, I have a right to admit I've had very crappy circumstances and that I'm not just making excuses to get out of the hard work it takes to get where I want to be. I have the right without worrying about covering up my pain to admit I've lost out on far too much and it's not all my fault. I know that time after time my BPD nada has sabatoged my life and destroyed my dreams. I am not imagining my pain and I know I can be more successful because I'm SMART ENOUGH AND GOOD ENOUGH! But isolation is the enemy. We all need support and help and in my case this forum changed my life forever. Before I read this forum (I rarely write on it) I felt 100% alone 100% of the time. So once again, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for writing down how you feel and sharing it with all of us (and me:)). It's not so easy to do but believe me you are GOOD and YOU DESERVE TO BE TOLD SO! You helped me today! It takes very hard work to retrain the mind to learn the truth. The truth is YOU ARE GOOD. I AM GOOD. So today you have directly helped me to start again to keep to my good habits and not regress and believe the lies. Keep the Faith Brother! E ________________________________ To: WTOAdultChildren1 Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 10:41:02 AM Subject: Never enough Annie wrote That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to your bpd parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what have we done for them lately? Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought his mom a new car. It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. And damn them for making us believe that. Doug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 Dear Doug, I am so glad to read these words. But sad too. You are so right. I cannot say enough about how much better I feel knowing other people like you and everyone on this forum exist and know the truth. Because you write words and share your heartbreak you are good to the core. You need to take that to heart. Take it to heart and remember you are good and keep telling yourself the truth. The truth is this it's NOT YOU it's not YOUR FAULT and you DESERVE a LIFE! I just wanted to say thank you and tell you YOU ARE GOOD! I don't have much of a chance to write on this forum but I will say this. My life has been a living hell and it's getting worse because of my BPD mother. I have tried to love myself and failed and failed and failed. But if there is hope of ever learning how I will get my strength from just reading this forum! Simply reading about what other people are going through calms me. Simply reading it makes me see how important I am as a person. Because of this forum I know that I am a great mom and wife and I have NOTHING WRONG WITH ME. Because of this forum I know that although I am not as successful in my career as I'd like to be, I have a right to admit I've had very crappy circumstances and that I'm not just making excuses to get out of the hard work it takes to get where I want to be. I have the right without worrying about covering up my pain to admit I've lost out on far too much and it's not all my fault. I know that time after time my BPD nada has sabatoged my life and destroyed my dreams. I am not imagining my pain and I know I can be more successful because I'm SMART ENOUGH AND GOOD ENOUGH! But isolation is the enemy. We all need support and help and in my case this forum changed my life forever. Before I read this forum (I rarely write on it) I felt 100% alone 100% of the time. So once again, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for writing down how you feel and sharing it with all of us (and me:)). It's not so easy to do but believe me you are GOOD and YOU DESERVE TO BE TOLD SO! You helped me today! It takes very hard work to retrain the mind to learn the truth. The truth is YOU ARE GOOD. I AM GOOD. So today you have directly helped me to start again to keep to my good habits and not regress and believe the lies. Keep the Faith Brother! E ________________________________ To: WTOAdultChildren1 Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 10:41:02 AM Subject: Never enough Annie wrote That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to your bpd parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what have we done for them lately? Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought his mom a new car. It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. And damn them for making us believe that. Doug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 Amen Doug!! Through this wonderful site and much reading on BPD I realized FINALLY that it wasn't me/ now or ever. I bought/ did/ tried everything to make nada happy. Always felt guilty. DAMN her. I have finally grown up/ Set boundaries/ and life is worth living/ I only have to work on my sense of well being and not fix her or anyone else. Whew!!!! Thanks everyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 I was just telling my husband tonight that I can't do enough work to feel okay. It doesn't matter how much I do; it's never enough. I run a business (30 hrs/week), take counseling classes for my master's, and care for my two asthmatic children (breathing treatments, etc.). But if I ever go to sleep at night without my body and mind aching, I feel like I was lazy. I asked my husband today if there could be some connection with nada. He said, " Everything goes back to how you were raised. I don't think you actually have any other problem. " He said this sincerely, not sarcastically. She's forever calling me asking for things that aren't even necessary, like waiting at her house for a hutch to be delivered or helping her find contractors for home repair instead of looking it up herself. Maybe I am driving myself the way she drove me then? >> > > It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life > imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. > > > And damn them for making us believe that. > > Doug > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 So painfully true. My Dad kept doing things for her - fix this, build that, change this. He finally reached a stage where he stopped jumping to do things. That just made her angry. Now we're on the receiving end of her " needs. " Stupid things like fixing a holder for her puzzle box, changing the door on the doggie door to white instead of brown, make the electric cords look neat in the kitchen, help her find and buy all kinds of ridiculous things that she'll never use but just has to have them. It never ends. > > Annie wrote > > That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to > your bpd > parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. > > No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. > We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, > because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what > have we done for them lately? > > Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with > new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? > She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. > Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought > his mom a new car. > > It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life > imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. > > > And damn them for making us believe that. > > Doug > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 I know what you guys mean...I gave my Dad all my savings to buy a house and he trashed it. He doesn't ask me to do anything; he just gets pissed when I am not hyper-vigilant to " obviously " figure out what he wants, then it's guilt, guilt, guilt. He's so alone, now he's frail(stroke) and in constant pain he doesn't even have to say anything. He just looks sad and pathetic, makes me feel guilty and I cannot f-ing stand it. I hate myself now because I get pleasure from watching him suffer sometimes and so I try to fix " it " . I live with him and am totally dependent on him because of his actions. So, I beat myself up to the extreme when I do anything productive for him and anything I do for myself MUST be secret. He used to be my whole life when I was a kid to when I was 23.(absolutely no friends) Now, since I have to live with him, he says he gonna kill me all the time, in my sleep, when I least expect it, he even says that he lulls me to a sense of security with him so he get away with betraying my trust. I'm really starting to lose my faith in God and society. Who the hell allows this kind of extreme insanity. What helps me when I'm alone is when I pledge myself to Satan and I gotta tell you is very therapeutic. I don't mean it but It helps me to put the responsibility on God who is the one ultimately responsible..I think we forget that. Don't they say that giving all your anger to God is the right thing to do? > > > > Annie wrote > > > > That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to > > your bpd > > parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. > > > > No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. > > We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, > > because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what > > have we done for them lately? > > > > Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with > > new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? > > She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. > > Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought > > his mom a new car. > > > > It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life > > imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. > > > > > > And damn them for making us believe that. > > > > Doug > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 I know what you guys mean...I gave my Dad all my savings to buy a house and he trashed it. He doesn't ask me to do anything; he just gets pissed when I am not hyper-vigilant to " obviously " figure out what he wants, then it's guilt, guilt, guilt. He's so alone, now he's frail(stroke) and in constant pain he doesn't even have to say anything. He just looks sad and pathetic, makes me feel guilty and I cannot f-ing stand it. I hate myself now because I get pleasure from watching him suffer sometimes and so I try to fix " it " . I live with him and am totally dependent on him because of his actions. So, I beat myself up to the extreme when I do anything productive for him and anything I do for myself MUST be secret. He used to be my whole life when I was a kid to when I was 23.(absolutely no friends) Now, since I have to live with him, he says he gonna kill me all the time, in my sleep, when I least expect it, he even says that he lulls me to a sense of security with him so he get away with betraying my trust. I'm really starting to lose my faith in God and society. Who the hell allows this kind of extreme insanity. What helps me when I'm alone is when I pledge myself to Satan and I gotta tell you is very therapeutic. I don't mean it but It helps me to put the responsibility on God who is the one ultimately responsible..I think we forget that. Don't they say that giving all your anger to God is the right thing to do? > > > > Annie wrote > > > > That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to > > your bpd > > parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. > > > > No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. > > We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, > > because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what > > have we done for them lately? > > > > Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with > > new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? > > She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. > > Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought > > his mom a new car. > > > > It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life > > imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. > > > > > > And damn them for making us believe that. > > > > Doug > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 I know what you guys mean...I gave my Dad all my savings to buy a house and he trashed it. He doesn't ask me to do anything; he just gets pissed when I am not hyper-vigilant to " obviously " figure out what he wants, then it's guilt, guilt, guilt. He's so alone, now he's frail(stroke) and in constant pain he doesn't even have to say anything. He just looks sad and pathetic, makes me feel guilty and I cannot f-ing stand it. I hate myself now because I get pleasure from watching him suffer sometimes and so I try to fix " it " . I live with him and am totally dependent on him because of his actions. So, I beat myself up to the extreme when I do anything productive for him and anything I do for myself MUST be secret. He used to be my whole life when I was a kid to when I was 23.(absolutely no friends) Now, since I have to live with him, he says he gonna kill me all the time, in my sleep, when I least expect it, he even says that he lulls me to a sense of security with him so he get away with betraying my trust. I'm really starting to lose my faith in God and society. Who the hell allows this kind of extreme insanity. What helps me when I'm alone is when I pledge myself to Satan and I gotta tell you is very therapeutic. I don't mean it but It helps me to put the responsibility on God who is the one ultimately responsible..I think we forget that. Don't they say that giving all your anger to God is the right thing to do? > > > > Annie wrote > > > > That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to > > your bpd > > parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. > > > > No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. > > We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, > > because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what > > have we done for them lately? > > > > Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with > > new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? > > She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. > > Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought > > his mom a new car. > > > > It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life > > imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. > > > > > > And damn them for making us believe that. > > > > Doug > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Yes, because as a child of a BPD...you are supposed to immediately know what he wants and needs...how DARE he have to tell you? If only I had a buck for each time my mother has said " Why don't you know? Why haven't you figured it out? " How the hell am I supposed to figure out someone else's moods, wants, and needs??? > > He doesn't ask me to do anything; he just gets pissed when I am not hyper-vigilant to " obviously " figure out what he wants, then it's guilt, guilt, guilt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Yes, because as a child of a BPD...you are supposed to immediately know what he wants and needs...how DARE he have to tell you? If only I had a buck for each time my mother has said " Why don't you know? Why haven't you figured it out? " How the hell am I supposed to figure out someone else's moods, wants, and needs??? > > He doesn't ask me to do anything; he just gets pissed when I am not hyper-vigilant to " obviously " figure out what he wants, then it's guilt, guilt, guilt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Yes, because as a child of a BPD...you are supposed to immediately know what he wants and needs...how DARE he have to tell you? If only I had a buck for each time my mother has said " Why don't you know? Why haven't you figured it out? " How the hell am I supposed to figure out someone else's moods, wants, and needs??? > > He doesn't ask me to do anything; he just gets pissed when I am not hyper-vigilant to " obviously " figure out what he wants, then it's guilt, guilt, guilt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 It's enough that he totally destroyed my life and alienated me from the whole family and any and all financial help to get me back on my feet. I hate to say it but right now I'm glad he's paralyzed(stroke). He's been much nicer because he needs me to do household chores and has even admitted he's be an extreme a-hole to me if he didn't need me. It's been 7 years since I was independent 'cuz of him and if he ever causes me another financial problem or public humiliation again I'm goin' straight to state prison. Rocketship to prison.  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 It's enough that he totally destroyed my life and alienated me from the whole family and any and all financial help to get me back on my feet. I hate to say it but right now I'm glad he's paralyzed(stroke). He's been much nicer because he needs me to do household chores and has even admitted he's be an extreme a-hole to me if he didn't need me. It's been 7 years since I was independent 'cuz of him and if he ever causes me another financial problem or public humiliation again I'm goin' straight to state prison. Rocketship to prison.  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 It's enough that he totally destroyed my life and alienated me from the whole family and any and all financial help to get me back on my feet. I hate to say it but right now I'm glad he's paralyzed(stroke). He's been much nicer because he needs me to do household chores and has even admitted he's be an extreme a-hole to me if he didn't need me. It's been 7 years since I was independent 'cuz of him and if he ever causes me another financial problem or public humiliation again I'm goin' straight to state prison. Rocketship to prison.  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 , I feel the same anger as you. It turns inward and I get depressed. I should have vented that anger toward the person who has always deserved it. amy Re: Never enough It's enough that he totally destroyed my life and alienated me from the whole family and any and all financial help to get me back on my feet. I hate to say it but right now I'm glad he's paralyzed(stroke). He's been much nicer because he needs me to do household chores and has even admitted he's be an extreme a-hole to me if he didn't need me. It's been 7 years since I was independent 'cuz of him and if he ever causes me another financial problem or public humiliation again I'm goin' straight to state prison. Rocketship to prison. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 , I feel the same anger as you. It turns inward and I get depressed. I should have vented that anger toward the person who has always deserved it. amy Re: Never enough It's enough that he totally destroyed my life and alienated me from the whole family and any and all financial help to get me back on my feet. I hate to say it but right now I'm glad he's paralyzed(stroke). He's been much nicer because he needs me to do household chores and has even admitted he's be an extreme a-hole to me if he didn't need me. It's been 7 years since I was independent 'cuz of him and if he ever causes me another financial problem or public humiliation again I'm goin' straight to state prison. Rocketship to prison. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Amy, did that person pass away?  I'm so sorry if they did. I kinda regret my outbursts at my Dad, but they did a good thing which was set boundaries. My Dad is a special person in the fact he has the training and skills to torture, kill and dispose of my body. I seriously think he's done it before. Several times to Thai citizens he has admitted to in Vietnam and alluded to killing here in the U.S. He's dangerous but now he is paralyzed and It's a good thing too..unfortunately.  I think about revenge a lot, it makes me depressed. The worst thing is now we have kinda like a truce, but he still threatens me with backstabbing and I think he's doing it now. So, now i have to figure a way into his laptop and find a way to listen to his phone calls to accurately gauge the damage to my reputation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Amy, did that person pass away?  I'm so sorry if they did. I kinda regret my outbursts at my Dad, but they did a good thing which was set boundaries. My Dad is a special person in the fact he has the training and skills to torture, kill and dispose of my body. I seriously think he's done it before. Several times to Thai citizens he has admitted to in Vietnam and alluded to killing here in the U.S. He's dangerous but now he is paralyzed and It's a good thing too..unfortunately.  I think about revenge a lot, it makes me depressed. The worst thing is now we have kinda like a truce, but he still threatens me with backstabbing and I think he's doing it now. So, now i have to figure a way into his laptop and find a way to listen to his phone calls to accurately gauge the damage to my reputation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Amy, did that person pass away?  I'm so sorry if they did. I kinda regret my outbursts at my Dad, but they did a good thing which was set boundaries. My Dad is a special person in the fact he has the training and skills to torture, kill and dispose of my body. I seriously think he's done it before. Several times to Thai citizens he has admitted to in Vietnam and alluded to killing here in the U.S. He's dangerous but now he is paralyzed and It's a good thing too..unfortunately.  I think about revenge a lot, it makes me depressed. The worst thing is now we have kinda like a truce, but he still threatens me with backstabbing and I think he's doing it now. So, now i have to figure a way into his laptop and find a way to listen to his phone calls to accurately gauge the damage to my reputation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2010 Report Share Posted November 19, 2010 amen brenda!! best wishes on your healing journey.  ann Subject: never enough To: WTOAdultChildren1 Date: Wednesday, November 17, 2010, 5:01 PM  Amen Doug!! Through this wonderful site and much reading on BPD I realized FINALLY that it wasn't me/ now or ever. I bought/ did/ tried everything to make nada happy. Always felt guilty. DAMN her. I have finally grown up/ Set boundaries/ and life is worth living/ I only have to work on my sense of well being and not fix her or anyone else. Whew!!!! Thanks everyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2010 Report Share Posted November 19, 2010 amen brenda!! best wishes on your healing journey.  ann Subject: never enough To: WTOAdultChildren1 Date: Wednesday, November 17, 2010, 5:01 PM  Amen Doug!! Through this wonderful site and much reading on BPD I realized FINALLY that it wasn't me/ now or ever. I bought/ did/ tried everything to make nada happy. Always felt guilty. DAMN her. I have finally grown up/ Set boundaries/ and life is worth living/ I only have to work on my sense of well being and not fix her or anyone else. Whew!!!! Thanks everyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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