Guest guest Posted November 23, 2010 Report Share Posted November 23, 2010 I wish I could hug you guys. Two hugs for Doug the sailor. > > > Just a couple of things to keep in mind folks. > > 1. We sometimes get BP s and drama queens in here. > 2. KO s are often covered with fleas, and thus mimic some of the overly > dramatic behaviors of their nadas. > 3. You are not responsible for other people, whether a nada, or a group > member. You are responsible for your own cordiality and politeness as > you express your views. > 4. People will get pissed. You can t change it. Deal with it. > > 5. You are a KO. The FOG is always there. Never forget it. Take a > breath. > > May we all heal. > > Doug > > > > > > > > Attention seeking behavior turns me off, and I tend to ignore it so > I have no idea what happened and why the dramatic exit was necessary. If > they didn't feel safe/validated/worshipped/whatever they could have just > left without saying anything. To me, even having a post like that is > attention seeking. Reminds me of my mothers antics too much. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 24, 2010 Report Share Posted November 24, 2010 You know she didn't. However, she did teach me to never trust a left-handed woman, which made a hell of a lot of sense. . . > > > Girlscout, didnt your Momma warn you about hugging sailors? > > But, oh, of course not. She was a nada. > > Doug > > > > > > > > > > > > > Just a couple of things to keep in mind folks. > > > > > > 1. We sometimes get BP s and drama queens in here. > > > 2. KO s are often covered with fleas, and thus mimic some of the > overly > > > dramatic behaviors of their nadas. > > > 3. You are not responsible for other people, whether a nada, or a > group > > > member. You are responsible for your own cordiality and politeness > as > > > you express your views. > > > 4. People will get pissed. You can t change it. Deal with it. > > > > > > 5. You are a KO. The FOG is always there. Never forget it. Take a > > > breath. > > > > > > May we all heal. > > > > > > Doug > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2010 Report Share Posted November 27, 2010 DOUG - that explains it!!! A left handed sailor!!! Can I bring you home to nada? She will be horrified! You risk being burned at the stake for your handedness. Mwah! On Fri, Nov 26, 2010 at 9:32 PM, coalminersdotter < coalminersdotter@...> wrote: > > > Dear , > > Thank you for your post and explanation. I never thought of the possibility > of causing concern to the author of the post to newer members. I was using > this as an illustration of my reactivity and response to a personal trigger > for me. At home, I was always trying to keep from " getting in trouble, " > so-to-speak. > > I actually found your post helpful and informative; just the title was a > trigger for me. This helped me understand what everyone was talking about > when they said there are triggers in life or even in this group that might > cause an unexpected emotional reaction. > > I don't have training or experience regarding infant abuse and neglect > aside from basic psychological concepts. Your points were well-made and > appropriate in my opinion. > > Thank You, > Coal Miner's Daughter > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2010 Report Share Posted November 27, 2010 DOUG - that explains it!!! A left handed sailor!!! Can I bring you home to nada? She will be horrified! You risk being burned at the stake for your handedness. Mwah! On Fri, Nov 26, 2010 at 9:32 PM, coalminersdotter < coalminersdotter@...> wrote: > > > Dear , > > Thank you for your post and explanation. I never thought of the possibility > of causing concern to the author of the post to newer members. I was using > this as an illustration of my reactivity and response to a personal trigger > for me. At home, I was always trying to keep from " getting in trouble, " > so-to-speak. > > I actually found your post helpful and informative; just the title was a > trigger for me. This helped me understand what everyone was talking about > when they said there are triggers in life or even in this group that might > cause an unexpected emotional reaction. > > I don't have training or experience regarding infant abuse and neglect > aside from basic psychological concepts. Your points were well-made and > appropriate in my opinion. > > Thank You, > Coal Miner's Daughter > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2010 Report Share Posted November 27, 2010 DOUG - that explains it!!! A left handed sailor!!! Can I bring you home to nada? She will be horrified! You risk being burned at the stake for your handedness. Mwah! On Fri, Nov 26, 2010 at 9:32 PM, coalminersdotter < coalminersdotter@...> wrote: > > > Dear , > > Thank you for your post and explanation. I never thought of the possibility > of causing concern to the author of the post to newer members. I was using > this as an illustration of my reactivity and response to a personal trigger > for me. At home, I was always trying to keep from " getting in trouble, " > so-to-speak. > > I actually found your post helpful and informative; just the title was a > trigger for me. This helped me understand what everyone was talking about > when they said there are triggers in life or even in this group that might > cause an unexpected emotional reaction. > > I don't have training or experience regarding infant abuse and neglect > aside from basic psychological concepts. Your points were well-made and > appropriate in my opinion. > > Thank You, > Coal Miner's Daughter > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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