Guest guest Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 Annie wrote That is one of the key issues of bpd: no matter how much you do give to your bpd parent (your time, particularly) or how often, its never enough. No. It never is. This is why we end up forever feeling indadequate. We will never think we have done enough, or done it well enough, because nada taught us that was our truth. No matter what we did, what have we done for them lately? Acts of love or sacrifice are immediately forgotten and replaced with new demands, new needs, new obligations. Did we give nada 500 dollars? She will tell us how so and so s son gives his mom a weekly stipend. Did we spend our Saturday fixing nada s car? Someone elses son bought his mom a new car. It is never enough. It is never good enough. And so, with our life imprint, we come to believe, neither are we. And damn them for making us believe that. Doug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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