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Hello,

Where do you draw the line?

Here is the scenario. (Background) Nada was a hypocondriac who projected

imaginary illnesses onto us kids. I have had numerous horrific experiences

with doctors throughout my life doing thing to be against my wishes. During

the birth of my first daughter I was subjected to a doctor who did what she

wanted without asking and then threatened me if I tried to question her.

On campus a discussion of current issues in society turned to the way

medical care is handled currently. Several of the participants come from

countries with far worse medical care. They were chiming in that our level

of care is excellent. I proposed that it could be better if doctors were

not so rushed and medicine was practiced based on need and not convenience.

I gave the example of cases of unnecessary C-sections performed because the

doctor wants to be home in time for dinner ect.

The response I received is that doctors are people too and deserve a good

dinner with their family. Even if that means performing major abdominal

surgery on a non-consenting woman that she does not need.

Having been forced into numerous unnecessary and painful procedures during

my life I know the emotional damage this does to a person. I had a very

hard time keeping my thoughts and words non-personal. I felt very hurt that

people would find this acceptable. I really enjoy being with this group and

discussing the various topics. I can't decide if I am being over-sensitive

or not. Also, I don't know how to handle it if this comes up again. Do I

politely leave the discussion? Argue the point from a personal standpoint?

I also was the only one with an opposing view which made it hard because

others would over-talk me. Not intentionally but the discussions get

everyone riled up and excited to speak.

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“I have a grip on reality, just not this particular one.”-- Author Unknown*

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