Guest guest Posted May 29, 2011 Report Share Posted May 29, 2011 OMG! I thought it was me writing! I'm struggling with eating at it too. Thanks for sharing. Talking about it helps me - hope it works for you as well. To: IntuitiveEating_Support From: adriana13us@...Date: Mon, 30 May 2011 00:46:41 +0000Subject: Abandonment AbandonmentWhy is abandonment so hard to digest?In theory, I know that if he does not want to be around me, it might be for the best. What's the point of having someone by your side who is ONLY giving a small percent?I also know that overeating will not solve any issue but just add issues to the feeling of being abandoned…but it feels so nice and warm in my throat and stomach when I numb these feelings…oh well..just venting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2011 Report Share Posted May 30, 2011 hugs Foggy p.s. are you familiar with Surrendered Single? > > Abandonment > Why is abandonment so hard to digest? > In theory, I know that if he does not want to be around me, it might be for the best. What's the point of having someone by your side who is ONLY giving a small percent? > I also know that overeating will not solve any issue but just add issues to the feeling of being abandoned…but it feels so nice and warm in my throat and stomach when I numb these feelings… > oh well..just venting > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2011 Report Share Posted May 30, 2011 Oh my, I could copy and paste what you wrote in my own " venting " post and I wouldn't neet to change a word! I can relate. And the worste part is that I repeat the same mistakes ...turning to food. And I don't honestly understand why? I'm an intelligent, logical person, and I know that outcome of overeating=not filling good about myself. Why do you participate in self-destructive behaviors to remedy other bad situations? This is my biggest life question right now- why do i do this to myself? And why does it feel so inevitable? how can I change this behavior and learn to love myself? > > Abandonment > Why is abandonment so hard to digest? > In theory, I know that if he does not want to be around me, it might be for the best. What's the point of having someone by your side who is ONLY giving a small percent? > I also know that overeating will not solve any issue but just add issues to the feeling of being abandoned…but it feels so nice and warm in my throat and stomach when I numb these feelings… > oh well..just venting > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2011 Report Share Posted May 30, 2011 Why are ALL uncomfortable feelings so hard to digest, when overeating leads to the most uncomfortable feelings both emotional and physical? does not make sense. Yet this is my struggle too. it's like trying avoid a splinter in on hand by burning the other...? > > > OMG! I thought it was me writing! I'm struggling with eating at it too. Thanks for sharing. Talking about it helps me - hope it works for you as well. > > > > > To: IntuitiveEating_Support > From: adriana13us@... > Date: Mon, 30 May 2011 00:46:41 +0000 > Subject: Abandonment > > > > > > > Abandonment > Why is abandonment so hard to digest? > In theory, I know that if he does not want to be around me, it might be for the best. What's the point of having someone by your side who is ONLY giving a small percent? > I also know that overeating will not solve any issue but just add issues to the feeling of being abandoned…but it feels so nice and warm in my throat and stomach when I numb these feelings… > oh well..just venting > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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