what is this behavior called?

November 22, 2010

Nada has this way of doing crazy/evil things then accusing ME of the behavior. I

once got grounded for calling her a bitch. I hadn't said ANYTHING but agree with

whatever she was ranting about. I just wanted it to be over ASAP. She kept

raging on and on. I was crying and apologizing for her percieved offense. She

called me a bitch then gasped and screamed " GO TO YOUR ROOM! You are grounded!

Don't you EVER call me a bitch again! " I burst into tears (it was so

crazymaking!). I ran to my room and my sis came in and tried to comfort me. I

felt so insane. I asked my sis if I was going crazy because I thought maybe I

was so upset that I somehow said it and didn't remember. My sis assured me that

nada said it but told me to just go along with the punishment. It would be

easier that way.

Another time nada was beating the crap out of me shrieking " call the police! I'm

being assaulted by your sister! " I was curled up in ball and never swung at her!

My 8 yo bro ran to get the neighbor rather than call the police because I wasnt

doing ANYTHING!!!

And still yet another time my husband was frustrated with her and threw up his

arms in exasperation and walked away. She ducked and coward against the

counter, saying " help! He's gonna hit me! HE'S GONNA HIT ME!!! "

The 1st 2 behaviors are some sort of weirdass projection. The 3rd is some weird

kind of madeup crap...is there a NAME for these types of behaviors?

Also, do nadas REALLY not remember the badstuff they do...or are they lying to

cover their tracks?

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