Ive been told this can a great healing process.

[Guest guest]

Im not sure what to say or share, but I know I need some help. Ive been through

a lot and I tend to keep it to myself. I have some agoraphobic tendencies that

ive found tools to deal with that so im not completely trapped. I have some BP

traits from what ive been told and

I can see them now that they have been brought to my attention. I was told that

this forum can be a positive place and I think I need that.

Im tired of these feelings that keep me prisoner. I know they are wrong and I

want to grow. Sorry if this isnt the right place or format but im just

learning.

Ill talk more later.

[Guest guest]

Hi anthem

Thanks for posting. Anthem is my friend in real life. He's a really good guy and

he's been through a lot just like the rest of us. I just wanted to say that I

hope he feels really welcomed here. This group has been soooo healing for me.

Thanks everybody!

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device.

Ive been told this can a great healing process.

Im not sure what to say or share, but I know I need some help. Ive been through

a lot and I tend to keep it to myself. I have some agoraphobic tendencies that

ive found tools to deal with that so im not completely trapped. I have some BP

traits from what ive been told and

I can see them now that they have been brought to my attention. I was told that

this forum can be a positive place and I think I need that.

Im tired of these feelings that keep me prisoner. I know they are wrong and I

want to grow. Sorry if this isnt the right place or format but im just

learning.

Ill talk more later.

[Guest guest]

Hi Anthem,

Welcome to the Group. We're all at different stages of healing from having been

raised by a parent or parents with personality disorder, and figuring out how to

have as healthy and functional a life as possible. Some of us still have our

bpd parent(s) in our life, and are in low contact, some of us have chosen to

have no contact.

It really does help to realize that you've found other KOs (adult Kids Of bpd

parents) who have had really similar experiences to your own, and its amazing

how similar some of our bpd parents' behaviors are to each other.

It might help you to read through some earlier threads and discussions that seem

relevant to your own issues.

There are also many helpful books about borderline pd. I recommend

" Understanding The Borderline Mother " as highly educational on the subject.

" Boundaries " is good, and " Surviving a Borderline Parent " .

Please feel free to share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with, at

your own pace.

-Annie

>

> Im not sure what to say or share, but I know I need some help. Ive been

through a lot and I tend to keep it to myself. I have some agoraphobic

tendencies that ive found tools to deal with that so im not completely trapped.

I have some BP traits from what ive been told and

>

> I can see them now that they have been brought to my attention. I was told

that this forum can be a positive place and I think I need that.

>

> Im tired of these feelings that keep me prisoner. I know they are wrong and I

want to grow. Sorry if this isnt the right place or format but im just

learning.

>

> Ill talk more later.

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks Annie! That's so helpful. I can definitely attest that Anthem is a great

guy and I hope he ll find the kind of healing he deserves!

Please excuse any typos or terseness, this message was sent from a mobile

device.

Re: Ive been told this can a great healing process.

Hi Anthem,

Welcome to the Group. We're all at different stages of healing from having been

raised by a parent or parents with personality disorder, and figuring out how to

have as healthy and functional a life as possible. Some of us still have our

bpd parent(s) in our life, and are in low contact, some of us have chosen to

have no contact.

It really does help to realize that you've found other KOs (adult Kids Of bpd

parents) who have had really similar experiences to your own, and its amazing

how similar some of our bpd parents' behaviors are to each other.

It might help you to read through some earlier threads and discussions that seem

relevant to your own issues.

There are also many helpful books about borderline pd. I recommend

" Understanding The Borderline Mother " as highly educational on the subject.

" Boundaries " is good, and " Surviving a Borderline Parent " .

Please feel free to share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with, at

your own pace.

-Annie

>

> Im not sure what to say or share, but I know I need some help. Ive been

through a lot and I tend to keep it to myself. I have some agoraphobic

tendencies that ive found tools to deal with that so im not completely trapped.

I have some BP traits from what ive been told and

>

> I can see them now that they have been brought to my attention. I was told

that this forum can be a positive place and I think I need that.

>

> Im tired of these feelings that keep me prisoner. I know they are wrong and I

want to grow. Sorry if this isnt the right place or format but im just

learning.

>

> Ill talk more later.

>