Feelings of being invisible

[Guest guest]

This topic kind of goes along with the " soul sucker " topic. My husband

and I have cared for my elderly parents for 11 years. We've done

EVERYTHING for them. Naturally, not a " thank you " ever; it was mostly we

could

never do enough.................Anyway, my younger brother just visited and

stayed at my parents house. His first visit in years, for six whole days!

(understand my husband and I have recently gone LC with nada and fada).

All I've heard from fada is how wonderful and helpful my brother was,

how wonderful his new neighbors are, bringing them food, cookies, etc.

My sister, too, visited recently for a week (her first visit in years

also). Fada just exclaims how helpful she was, how wonderful she is. WTH!

I'm done with nada & fada. I think they find too much pleasure in

hurting me over and over.

Laurie