What was your final straw?

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Hello all, I just wanted to pose a question to you.

For those of you who are NC with your nadas, what was your final straw? What

was the deciding factor for why you have NC? How have you felt since then?

Those of you who are LC with your nadas, what are your feelings? Are you

planning on going to NC? How do you handle it when your nada has an episode?

I am posting this question because I have just started LC with my nada. I

haven't talked to her since I left on thanksgiving (except once through e-mail,

and once through text), and I have felt much more emotionally safer and

happier. However, I am really considering NC with my nada. I feel like I have

just given her everything I could, and it wasn't enough, and now its time to

focus on me, and feeling better about everything in general (after all, nadas

have an excellent way of putting a damper on everything).