Nada's too funny!

[Guest guest]

My sis and I did not participate with nada this year for Thanksgiving. When I

informed the " queen " I would not be doing the holiday with her, she told me she

had " other plans " and was glad I " understood. "

She went so far on Thanksgiving to telling whoever called she was meeting

friends later. " Just getting into the shower " , " ...finishing up our dish to

pass.

But then when the phone was passed to dad, he told each of us that mom had just

gotten the turkey into the oven and he was just doing the " same old dinner. "

Poor dad, she probably reamed him a new one each time he got off the phone. He's

almost completely deaf and isn't able to follow her trail of bread crumbs to

keep up appearances.

Must be horrible to have 2 kids that do not want to soil any more holidays with

BPD toxicity.

Even sadder here is that nada and DD have a couple sets of friends who would

have asked them over in a heartbeat--but nada could never bear the shame of them

finding out they were not wanted at their children's holiday table.