NADA CONTACTED ME...................HELP

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Hi All,

Hope you guys are all well..Sorry I have not been around in a while, got caught

up in life.

I start my CBT therapy this week after being on a waiting list for over 12

months............yipeeee finally!

Although, I went on my facebook today and there was a message from my nada using

her new boyfriends account it basically said, that she is doing really well and

she is moving house with her boyfriend, our family home has been sold and that

my gran her mom is ok but she is getting old now as in she is 72. Mentioned

that my sister and my nephew are doing well etc, and then on the end wishing me

a lovely christmas and that she loves me and thinks of me every minute of the

day...........(my beautiful daughter) thank kinda freaked me out.

My hubby seems to think that she is hoovering me as it is coming up to

christmas, and he thinks that I should stay strong and wait until Im done with

therapy etc, if I want to contact her contact her then when I am strong enough.

However, he says whatever I decided to do he will support me 100% but he can see

from an outsiders view what she is doing. As in the message was all about her

and the bit on the end as in (my beautiful daughter) he seems to think that she

is like still getting at the fact she owns me and i will always be hers.

I am so confused

Any thoughts on this

Thanks