Guest guest Posted November 29, 2010 Report Share Posted November 29, 2010 Hi all, Don't want to see nada. Don't want to see foo. Don't care about why anymore. Here's the point - when I talk to them, I feel down. When I see them, I feel like I'd rather be cleaning out the septic tank with a metal tape and bare hands... You get the point. (Yes, I got to do that job - I was shit, so it doesn't hurt shit to touch shit.) I used to worry so much about the list of " charges " against them. I actually made a little notebook with reference tabs to remind me when the FOG rolled in. Finally I got tired of taking nada and the others to court in my mind trying to absolve them of guilt and working out all of these perfectly phrased responses, role playing with my dog or whatever. (I know these things can be very necessary, just that I'm kind of tired of it now.) So, what about the OBLIGATION part? Yep, it's still there. I have 2 kids who like to see nada for toys and candy and every once in a while I get stupid/crazy/high on sugar enough to think it would be " fun " to have her come over or meet for lunch. I am still working it through in my mind, but it's getting on my nerves - this obligation that I need to call her or see her every week. Should I set a schedule like for community service or what? -Coal Miner's Daughter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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