Guest guest Posted January 3, 2011 Report Share Posted January 3, 2011 Welcome to the Group Danyale. You've found a bunch of other adult children of mentally ill, personality-disordered parents, and we have experienced really similar behaviors and traumas from our mothers that you have and are experiencing with your mother. It really does help to know you're not the only one. -Annie > > Hello everyone. I'm new here and I have bpd mother. The last straw was when she was screaming at me and I thought she was going to hit me. I am 28 years old and have a new son of my own. I don't want him exposed to her craziness. She spent my whole pregnancy telling me how awful my child was going to be. Just like me. She told me my wedding was all about her not about me. She told me that I promised her no holidays with my husband's family. A lie of course. Looking forward to talking with people who are in my position. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 3, 2011 Report Share Posted January 3, 2011 Welcome Danyale. I'm glad you found us, but sorry you had a need to! But like Annie said, you're sure not alone. I'm sorry you're having such a difficult time with your mother. What you said about your pregnancy sounds a lot like my nada (some of us call our mothers 'nada' as in 'nada real mom'). Anyway, my nada said something to me that I think etched into my brain that I just do not want kids of my own. I was holding a friend's new baby and said " Maybe I'll have one of these some day " (I was even at that point leaning towards not having bio kids). She looked at me and said, " You? A mother? " Then she scoffed. " I dread THAT day. " Honestly thinking of that makes me really want to punch her in the face. I will never have bio kids due to health issues, but I do have future step kids who I'm really good with. My nada just can't see any good in me. ly, I'm not sure I see much good in her anymore either. So sorry you have had to deal with all that crap, and I'm sure there's much more. Make your self at home & welcome to the group! Mia > > > Hello everyone. I'm new here and I have bpd mother. The last straw was when > she was screaming at me and I thought she was going to hit me. I am 28 years > old and have a new son of my own. I don't want him exposed to her craziness. > She spent my whole pregnancy telling me how awful my child was going to be. > Just like me. She told me my wedding was all about her not about me. She > told me that I promised her no holidays with my husband's family. A lie of > course. Looking forward to talking with people who are in my position. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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