I continue to be tormented and Now threatened by my Father... Poss BPD??? Help.

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Ever since my parents divorce 25 yrs ago, he has been an irrational,

anger/hate-filled, and paranoid person. He imagines that people disrespect him,

blows up in a huge way to anyone for no reason. He has a conflict with Every

person he is in contact with. Has no contact with any of his family except my

brother and I, but I had to separate myself from him. I had peace for 2 yrs, but

then, out of the blue he sent me an email threatening me and reiterating that I

would suffer consequences of spreading lies about him that I would never forget.

I, honestly, don't speak of our about him. I NEVER say anything. He sits at home

and imagines people are out to get him. My husband and I are professionals that

live out of state, but he drags this crap everywhere I go. My life is full of

love and peace when he leaves me alone. He thinks I am " poisoned " from living

with my mom for 3 yrs 25 yrs ago! It is insane. He will never seek help because

he sees others, mainly me, as the problem. I don't have conflicts with anyone in

my life, yet his life is full of it. I need help dealing with him. This email I

received was very, very threatening. He has said the most vile, hatelful things

to me imaginable. I am trying to keep my sense of humor, but I am emotionally

exhausted at this BS. Since this last event this weekend... Anytime I am awake,

my hands shake and my heart races. I didn't think There was ANY WAY IMAGINABLE

that ANYONE else could be dealing the hate-filled craziness that I have dealt

with for so long. I am a praying for him and also for God's protection over

me...

Any advice???