Re: Please remember with me

[Guest guest]

So sorry, Girlscout..........hugs to you as you miss the baby brother you never

got to know...........

Alastriona

Subject: Please remember with me

To: " wtoadultchildren1 " <WTOAdultChildren1 >

Date: Thursday, January 13, 2011, 1:52 PM

My little brother was born and died on this day in 1986. As you can imagine,

while nada was never a picnic, this sent her pretty much right over the

edge. It's been the excuse for everything in her entire life. " But I can't

get my annual pap smear because I had a baby die, " no lie that is a direct

quote.

Still, it is not the baby's fault his mother was a horrible person, any more

than it is my fault. Thinking with saddness about how I lost both my

brothers, my mother, my father to this " disease " or just plain evilness that

created a toxic and festering family dynamic. And I guess I'm also feeling a

little joy that I was the one to get away. The only one.

Thought you guys might like to join me in remembering.

XOXO Girlscout

[Guest guest]

So sorry, Girlscout..........hugs to you as you miss the baby brother you never

got to know...........

Alastriona

Subject: Please remember with me

To: " wtoadultchildren1 " <WTOAdultChildren1 >

Date: Thursday, January 13, 2011, 1:52 PM

My little brother was born and died on this day in 1986. As you can imagine,

while nada was never a picnic, this sent her pretty much right over the

edge. It's been the excuse for everything in her entire life. " But I can't

get my annual pap smear because I had a baby die, " no lie that is a direct

quote.

Still, it is not the baby's fault his mother was a horrible person, any more

than it is my fault. Thinking with saddness about how I lost both my

brothers, my mother, my father to this " disease " or just plain evilness that

created a toxic and festering family dynamic. And I guess I'm also feeling a

little joy that I was the one to get away. The only one.

Thought you guys might like to join me in remembering.

XOXO Girlscout

[Guest guest]

I was 10, 5th grade.

On Fri, Jan 14, 2011 at 8:38 AM, Alastriona <

alastriona.smith@...> wrote:

>

>

> So sorry, Girlscout..........hugs to you as you miss the baby brother you

> never got to know...........

>

> Alastriona

>

>

>

> From: Girlscout Cowboy

<girlscout.cowboy@...<girlscout.cowboy%40gmail.com>

> >

> Subject: Please remember with me

> To: " wtoadultchildren1 "

<WTOAdultChildren1 <WTOAdultChildren1%40yahoogroups.com>

> >

> Date: Thursday, January 13, 2011, 1:52 PM

>

>

> My little brother was born and died on this day in 1986. As you can

> imagine,

> while nada was never a picnic, this sent her pretty much right over the

> edge. It's been the excuse for everything in her entire life. " But I can't

> get my annual pap smear because I had a baby die, " no lie that is a direct

> quote.

>

> Still, it is not the baby's fault his mother was a horrible person, any

> more

> than it is my fault. Thinking with saddness about how I lost both my

> brothers, my mother, my father to this " disease " or just plain evilness

> that

> created a toxic and festering family dynamic. And I guess I'm also feeling

> a

> little joy that I was the one to get away. The only one.

>

> Thought you guys might like to join me in remembering.

>

> XOXO Girlscout

>

>

[Guest guest]

Its wonderful that you wanted to honor your brother and remember his brief

existence in this world. Kudos to you.

I can tell you firsthand that losing a child is the worse thing a parent can

ever experience. On my baby's birthday, I began a tradtion of spending quality

time with my other children, taking them on a special outing. We did that up

until my oldest son got involved with his BPD wife. She put an abrupt stop to

that tradition. Later the heartless self-centered BPD did so much damage to my

relationship with him that she caused me to grieve the loss of my living son.

I hate this disease with a passion.

>

> My little brother was born and died on this day in 1986. As you can imagine,

> while nada was never a picnic, this sent her pretty much right over the

> edge. It's been the excuse for everything in her entire life. " But I can't

> get my annual pap smear because I had a baby die, " no lie that is a direct

> quote.

>

> Still, it is not the baby's fault his mother was a horrible person, any more

> than it is my fault. Thinking with saddness about how I lost both my

> brothers, my mother, my father to this " disease " or just plain evilness that

> created a toxic and festering family dynamic. And I guess I'm also feeling a

> little joy that I was the one to get away. The only one.

>

> Thought you guys might like to join me in remembering.

>

> XOXO Girlscout

>

>

>