Guest guest Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 Good morning to all! I have seen " nada " and " fada " used consistently throughout these posts. I am unfamiliar with these terms. If someone can explain them to me I would appreciate it, please. I assumed it refers to " mother " and " father " , but it appears to be more than that. Blessings to you all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 " Nada " means " not a mother, " and " fada " is based off of that, meaning " not a father. " The idea being that they didn't do right by us KOs, (kids of BPD parents), and weren't really " parenting " us. They were more into manipulating us, abusing us verbally, emotionally, mentally, and in some cases, physically or sexually, which is NOT a parental thing to do. There is a document somewhere in this Yahoo group that lists all the terms commonly used by people here on the board, and the definitions. It gets emailed once in a while. There's probably a better explanation than mine, out there, but hope it helps Holly On Thu, Jan 6, 2011 at 7:25 AM, finallytsquared wrote: > > > Good morning to all! I have seen " nada " and " fada " used consistently > throughout these posts. I am unfamiliar with these terms. If someone can > explain them to me I would appreciate it, please. I assumed it refers to > " mother " and " father " , but it appears to be more than that. > > Blessings to you all! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 " Nada " means " not a mother, " and " fada " is based off of that, meaning " not a father. " The idea being that they didn't do right by us KOs, (kids of BPD parents), and weren't really " parenting " us. They were more into manipulating us, abusing us verbally, emotionally, mentally, and in some cases, physically or sexually, which is NOT a parental thing to do. There is a document somewhere in this Yahoo group that lists all the terms commonly used by people here on the board, and the definitions. It gets emailed once in a while. There's probably a better explanation than mine, out there, but hope it helps Holly On Thu, Jan 6, 2011 at 7:25 AM, finallytsquared wrote: > > > Good morning to all! I have seen " nada " and " fada " used consistently > throughout these posts. I am unfamiliar with these terms. If someone can > explain them to me I would appreciate it, please. I assumed it refers to > " mother " and " father " , but it appears to be more than that. > > Blessings to you all! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 Thanks Holly! Hope you have a fantabulous day! Tekla > > > Good morning to all! I have seen " nada " and " fada " used consistently > throughout these posts. I am unfamiliar with these terms. If someone can > explain them to me I would appreciate it, please. I assumed it refers to > " mother " and " father " , but it appears to be more than that. > > Blessings to you all! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 Thanks Holly! Hope you have a fantabulous day! Tekla > > > Good morning to all! I have seen " nada " and " fada " used consistently > throughout these posts. I am unfamiliar with these terms. If someone can > explain them to me I would appreciate it, please. I assumed it refers to > " mother " and " father " , but it appears to be more than that. > > Blessings to you all! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 Thanks Holly! Hope you have a fantabulous day! Tekla > > > Good morning to all! I have seen " nada " and " fada " used consistently > throughout these posts. I am unfamiliar with these terms. If someone can > explain them to me I would appreciate it, please. I assumed it refers to > " mother " and " father " , but it appears to be more than that. > > Blessings to you all! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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