Guest guest Posted January 10, 2006 Report Share Posted January 10, 2006 With all that has happened to me this past few weeks. the biopsy, which came back non cancerous, a car wrech the hubby being a jerk, then to top off the whole bloody mess. The doc admitting that he missed the one lump. I was done, my plate was full. I have not slept very well. The landlord tried to evict us on Sunday, then Monday begged us to stay. I have my family Doc all up to date with the lump that was not removed. It is amazing how these Doctors can be so " carefree " about someone with a cancer history such as mine. I told him that I would be making the DR remove the lump. HE looked at me and said, " pushy aren't ya " I said well, " if i get some peace of mind and vanquish all the doubt and concern about the remaining lump. Of course I'll be adimant. " HE said " good. " I still don't understand why the didn't test a piece of lymphnodes, being that the area in question was just mm away from them. My troubles seem so petty when I read all of the posts with ppl very ill. SOmetimes it is just nice to vent and do it with ppl that may offer support and or understanding. My prayers to all that are undergoing treatments. and please fogive my whinning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 10, 2006 Report Share Posted January 10, 2006 , You are not whinning. I am glad you feel comfortable sharing with us. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com on some meds With all that has happened to me this past few weeks. the biopsy, which came back non cancerous, a car wrech the hubby being a jerk, then to top off the whole bloody mess. The doc admitting that he missed the one lump.I was done, my plate was full. I have not slept very well. The landlord tried to evict us on Sunday, then Monday begged us to stay.I have my family Doc all up to date with the lump that was not removed. It is amazing how these Doctors can be so " carefree" about someone with a cancer history such as mine. I told him that I would be making the DR remove the lump. HE looked at me and said, " pushy aren't ya" I said well, " if i get some peace of mind and vanquish all the doubt and concern about the remaining lump. Of course I'll be adimant." HE said " good." I still don't understand why the didn't test a piece of lymphnodes, being that the area in question was just mm away from them. My troubles seem so petty when I read all of the posts with ppl very ill. SOmetimes it is just nice to vent and do it with ppl that may offer support and or understanding.My prayers to all that are undergoing treatments. and please fogive my whinning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 10, 2006 Report Share Posted January 10, 2006 , You are not whinning. I am glad you feel comfortable sharing with us. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com on some meds With all that has happened to me this past few weeks. the biopsy, which came back non cancerous, a car wrech the hubby being a jerk, then to top off the whole bloody mess. The doc admitting that he missed the one lump.I was done, my plate was full. I have not slept very well. The landlord tried to evict us on Sunday, then Monday begged us to stay.I have my family Doc all up to date with the lump that was not removed. It is amazing how these Doctors can be so " carefree" about someone with a cancer history such as mine. I told him that I would be making the DR remove the lump. HE looked at me and said, " pushy aren't ya" I said well, " if i get some peace of mind and vanquish all the doubt and concern about the remaining lump. Of course I'll be adimant." HE said " good." I still don't understand why the didn't test a piece of lymphnodes, being that the area in question was just mm away from them. My troubles seem so petty when I read all of the posts with ppl very ill. SOmetimes it is just nice to vent and do it with ppl that may offer support and or understanding.My prayers to all that are undergoing treatments. and please fogive my whinning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 10, 2006 Report Share Posted January 10, 2006 , You are not whinning. I am glad you feel comfortable sharing with us. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com on some meds With all that has happened to me this past few weeks. the biopsy, which came back non cancerous, a car wrech the hubby being a jerk, then to top off the whole bloody mess. The doc admitting that he missed the one lump.I was done, my plate was full. I have not slept very well. The landlord tried to evict us on Sunday, then Monday begged us to stay.I have my family Doc all up to date with the lump that was not removed. It is amazing how these Doctors can be so " carefree" about someone with a cancer history such as mine. I told him that I would be making the DR remove the lump. HE looked at me and said, " pushy aren't ya" I said well, " if i get some peace of mind and vanquish all the doubt and concern about the remaining lump. Of course I'll be adimant." HE said " good." I still don't understand why the didn't test a piece of lymphnodes, being that the area in question was just mm away from them. My troubles seem so petty when I read all of the posts with ppl very ill. SOmetimes it is just nice to vent and do it with ppl that may offer support and or understanding.My prayers to all that are undergoing treatments. and please fogive my whinning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 10, 2006 Report Share Posted January 10, 2006 You are not whining . I feel really bad because I was so scared last night and acted like a wimp. But, I am so glad that I shared with this group because only ppl who have been through this can really understand. If anybody would be allowed to complain and whine, I think you should be the one. You troubles are not petty at all. We all need each other to validate our feelings...We are all going through tough times. You are having it rough right now and I want you to feel free to tell us all the bad stuff. We are here to support you and love you. God bless Janet Dcis Stage I Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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