Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 > > Every time someone posts a wonderful poem, I think, " Gee, it would be cool > if we collaborated and made a book of our writings & art to tell the story > of BPD from an adult survivor's standpoint " . Mia, I would be interested depending upon what you want. Do you want just poems and songs and drawings, or do you want essays, true stories, fictionalized accounts. I'm guessing you need to come up with what the book has room to hold and how you'll arrange it and then if we have anything that fits into one of your categories we can send it along. Kay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 > > Every time someone posts a wonderful poem, I think, " Gee, it would be cool > if we collaborated and made a book of our writings & art to tell the story > of BPD from an adult survivor's standpoint " . Mia, I would be interested depending upon what you want. Do you want just poems and songs and drawings, or do you want essays, true stories, fictionalized accounts. I'm guessing you need to come up with what the book has room to hold and how you'll arrange it and then if we have anything that fits into one of your categories we can send it along. Kay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 > > Every time someone posts a wonderful poem, I think, " Gee, it would be cool > if we collaborated and made a book of our writings & art to tell the story > of BPD from an adult survivor's standpoint " . Mia, I would be interested depending upon what you want. Do you want just poems and songs and drawings, or do you want essays, true stories, fictionalized accounts. I'm guessing you need to come up with what the book has room to hold and how you'll arrange it and then if we have anything that fits into one of your categories we can send it along. Kay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Kay, I think we're thinking along the non-fiction route for this book, and we'd be open to poems, song lyrics, essays, memoir short writings, art (keeping in mind that black/white would probably be how it'll be reproduced) etc. Pretty much anything goes. We're still in the conceptual stage for the formatting and planning, so I'm really glad everyone is asking questions and throwing ideas out there! As for the length, I don't have a specific max page limit. maybe 20pgs double spaced? I don't know, so feedback from anyone would be nice Holly > > >> >> Every time someone posts a wonderful poem, I think, " Gee, it would be cool >> if we collaborated and made a book of our writings & art to tell the story >> of BPD from an adult survivor's standpoint " . > > Mia, I would be interested depending upon what you want. Do you want just poems and songs and drawings, or do you want essays, true stories, fictionalized accounts. I'm guessing you need to come up with what the book has room to hold and how you'll arrange it and then if we have anything that fits into one of your categories we can send it along. > Kay > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Kay, I think we're thinking along the non-fiction route for this book, and we'd be open to poems, song lyrics, essays, memoir short writings, art (keeping in mind that black/white would probably be how it'll be reproduced) etc. Pretty much anything goes. We're still in the conceptual stage for the formatting and planning, so I'm really glad everyone is asking questions and throwing ideas out there! As for the length, I don't have a specific max page limit. maybe 20pgs double spaced? I don't know, so feedback from anyone would be nice Holly > > >> >> Every time someone posts a wonderful poem, I think, " Gee, it would be cool >> if we collaborated and made a book of our writings & art to tell the story >> of BPD from an adult survivor's standpoint " . > > Mia, I would be interested depending upon what you want. Do you want just poems and songs and drawings, or do you want essays, true stories, fictionalized accounts. I'm guessing you need to come up with what the book has room to hold and how you'll arrange it and then if we have anything that fits into one of your categories we can send it along. > Kay > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Twenty pages sounds very short to me to be the kind of non-fiction book a commercial publisher would be interested in picking up for publication. There are children's books that are that short or shorter, though. Are you thinking more in terms of self-publishing, perhaps? For comparison, I'm holding a book right now that is a paperback, " Lost in the Mirror, an Inside Look at BPD " by Moskvitz, MD, and its not very thick, just over a half-inch thick at 206 pages, 6 inches by 9 inches, and retailed at $14.95 back when I bought it about 8 years ago. (The cover is CMYK or full color, glossy stock, and the interior is standard black-only text with no illustrations.) Just more factors to take into consideration, i.e. self-publishing vs commercial publishing. -Annie > >> > >> Every time someone posts a wonderful poem, I think, " Gee, it would be > cool > >> if we collaborated and made a book of our writings & art to tell the > story > >> of BPD from an adult survivor's standpoint " . > > > > Mia, I would be interested depending upon what you want. Do you want just > poems and songs and drawings, or do you want essays, true stories, > fictionalized accounts. I'm guessing you need to come up with what the book > has room to hold and how you'll arrange it and then if we have anything that > fits into one of your categories we can send it along. > > Kay > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Twenty pages sounds very short to me to be the kind of non-fiction book a commercial publisher would be interested in picking up for publication. There are children's books that are that short or shorter, though. Are you thinking more in terms of self-publishing, perhaps? For comparison, I'm holding a book right now that is a paperback, " Lost in the Mirror, an Inside Look at BPD " by Moskvitz, MD, and its not very thick, just over a half-inch thick at 206 pages, 6 inches by 9 inches, and retailed at $14.95 back when I bought it about 8 years ago. (The cover is CMYK or full color, glossy stock, and the interior is standard black-only text with no illustrations.) Just more factors to take into consideration, i.e. self-publishing vs commercial publishing. -Annie > >> > >> Every time someone posts a wonderful poem, I think, " Gee, it would be > cool > >> if we collaborated and made a book of our writings & art to tell the > story > >> of BPD from an adult survivor's standpoint " . > > > > Mia, I would be interested depending upon what you want. Do you want just > poems and songs and drawings, or do you want essays, true stories, > fictionalized accounts. I'm guessing you need to come up with what the book > has room to hold and how you'll arrange it and then if we have anything that > fits into one of your categories we can send it along. > > Kay > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Twenty pages sounds very short to me to be the kind of non-fiction book a commercial publisher would be interested in picking up for publication. There are children's books that are that short or shorter, though. Are you thinking more in terms of self-publishing, perhaps? For comparison, I'm holding a book right now that is a paperback, " Lost in the Mirror, an Inside Look at BPD " by Moskvitz, MD, and its not very thick, just over a half-inch thick at 206 pages, 6 inches by 9 inches, and retailed at $14.95 back when I bought it about 8 years ago. (The cover is CMYK or full color, glossy stock, and the interior is standard black-only text with no illustrations.) Just more factors to take into consideration, i.e. self-publishing vs commercial publishing. -Annie > >> > >> Every time someone posts a wonderful poem, I think, " Gee, it would be > cool > >> if we collaborated and made a book of our writings & art to tell the > story > >> of BPD from an adult survivor's standpoint " . > > > > Mia, I would be interested depending upon what you want. Do you want just > poems and songs and drawings, or do you want essays, true stories, > fictionalized accounts. I'm guessing you need to come up with what the book > has room to hold and how you'll arrange it and then if we have anything that > fits into one of your categories we can send it along. > > Kay > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 I think this is a fabulous idea. More needs to be done to get people to understand the effects on a child, and on the rest of that child's life, to grow up an invisible victim of a BP parent. If I can help any, let me know. --. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 I think this is a fabulous idea. More needs to be done to get people to understand the effects on a child, and on the rest of that child's life, to grow up an invisible victim of a BP parent. If I can help any, let me know. --. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 I think this is a fabulous idea. More needs to be done to get people to understand the effects on a child, and on the rest of that child's life, to grow up an invisible victim of a BP parent. If I can help any, let me know. --. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Well Mia, I m currently working on a book about the FOG, so my creative juices are flowing into that as far as telling the story, from the child who endured it, from the Fogged Adult still beaten down by it, , and from who I am now, the Recovering adult. That being said, my current project will not be likely to have poetry, so I d be happy to contribute poetry or perhaps drawings. Another thought, we might set up a blog site as an online way to accumulate and share artistic " outrcries from KO s. " Using that as a way to compile sufficient material to put into publishable form. I know there are several on here who are involved in one way or another with the writing or publishing business. So I m sure we have the resources to move the project forward. Doug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Well Mia, I m currently working on a book about the FOG, so my creative juices are flowing into that as far as telling the story, from the child who endured it, from the Fogged Adult still beaten down by it, , and from who I am now, the Recovering adult. That being said, my current project will not be likely to have poetry, so I d be happy to contribute poetry or perhaps drawings. Another thought, we might set up a blog site as an online way to accumulate and share artistic " outrcries from KO s. " Using that as a way to compile sufficient material to put into publishable form. I know there are several on here who are involved in one way or another with the writing or publishing business. So I m sure we have the resources to move the project forward. Doug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Guys, Lots of comments and questions about size, format, artwork, ect. It s great everyone is thinking about the project, but just my 2 cents worth: Since this is not a project being submitted as a proposal to a publisher, and since there may be a number of contributors, it might be best to gather material first. Then work with a good copy editor, and trust their judgement, however brutal, as to what to include and in what format. As someone pointed out, few ppl know about BPD, and even fewer about us. If we are serious about wanting to see this project actually published, it has to be something that some market segment will buy. Otherwise, we can do it for our own pleasure, and have copies printed, for ourselves, rather than published. But if publication is the end goal, we must go with what a publisher will take a chance on. Just IMHO, food for thought. Doug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Well,Annie,to answer your questions: " Lesbian Nuns:Breaking Silence " is 383 pages,contains about 52 entries from about 50 contributors and is entirely prose with a couple of free form stream of consciousness pieces but mainly autobiographical accounts that fit into each chapter theme (eg " Deciding to enter the convent " / " Life in the convent " etc).There are also a couple of interviews.The average entry is five or six pages long,with about a quarter being only one to three pages and a couple of entries running eight to ten pages. " This Bridge Called My Back " is 370 pages.I don't have my copy of that,my ex has it.My rough estimate is that it contains a quarter poetry interspersed through out the different chapters and a quarter art work with the rest of the content being autobiographical accounts and point of view essays. I'm certainly not trying to push an agenda by bringing up these two anthologies as examples,just that out of all the " awareness raising " anthologies I've read,these two were the best and the most thought provoking. > > I'm interested to know how many pages are those two anthologies mentioned, just roughly. And roughly how many pages each type of contribution is, percentage-wise? Such as: a third of the pages are prose, a third are poetry and a third are artwork? > Just curious. > Thanks! > -Annie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Well,Annie,to answer your questions: " Lesbian Nuns:Breaking Silence " is 383 pages,contains about 52 entries from about 50 contributors and is entirely prose with a couple of free form stream of consciousness pieces but mainly autobiographical accounts that fit into each chapter theme (eg " Deciding to enter the convent " / " Life in the convent " etc).There are also a couple of interviews.The average entry is five or six pages long,with about a quarter being only one to three pages and a couple of entries running eight to ten pages. " This Bridge Called My Back " is 370 pages.I don't have my copy of that,my ex has it.My rough estimate is that it contains a quarter poetry interspersed through out the different chapters and a quarter art work with the rest of the content being autobiographical accounts and point of view essays. I'm certainly not trying to push an agenda by bringing up these two anthologies as examples,just that out of all the " awareness raising " anthologies I've read,these two were the best and the most thought provoking. > > I'm interested to know how many pages are those two anthologies mentioned, just roughly. And roughly how many pages each type of contribution is, percentage-wise? Such as: a third of the pages are prose, a third are poetry and a third are artwork? > Just curious. > Thanks! > -Annie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 That all sounds great to me,Holly I'm in a just throwing out ideas state of mind right now and I will have to consider whether or not I can seriously devote time to administration tasks as I am somewhat stretched time wise at the moment.At any rate I think this is going to be something of a long haul project and one thing we are going to need to do is continuously generate interest and in order to get enough submissions we will probably need to put out notices of the project beyond this one WTO website. I also find Yahoo mail cumbersome but what I was thinking about using Yahoo groups is to have that group be a private by invitation only one,that when people offer submissions via say the Gmail account that they would then be invited to join the Yahoo (for example) working group.Perhaps in that group the invitees could choose to voluntarily share their intended contribution/s to both give others ideas and to promote transparency about the project in general so that the contributors can decide for themselves whether or not this is a project they would want to be involved with.The fact that the group is private might be reassuring. I also think that once the concept is fleshed out that submissions could be solicited according to specific chapter content needs as well as general solicitations.Otherwise,to my view,there is a risk of getting a pile (hopefully lol!) of submissions that need to be sorted through and assigned to the relevant chapter---if people are contributing along specific themes it might be easier to organize and select the submissions rather than only having a general pile.Offering a selection of specific themes in addition to a call for general content for contributors to write about might also help to generate contributions. I would say that as the submissions come in that if the majority continue to be poetry that a decision will need to be made about perhaps confining the anthology to KO poetry and art and directing submissions requests in that direction. Having autobiographical content would be awesome but in addition to people wanting to use pseudonyms I wonder how many people would also be concerned that any autobiographical accounts would contain too much possibly identifying detail.In that case we would have to see if we get enough submissions from people who are willing to take that risk in order for the purpose of the book to remain coherent and balanced with personal point of view/personal accounts informing the chapters enough for their presence in the book to be inherent to the mission or raison d'etre or purpose of the anthology.Because if there aren't enough of these kinds of autobiographical submissions the entire format/purpose will need to be re-themed in order to attract interest from a publisher.Even though a book about the KO experience is sorely needed,whatever we come up with will need to be stream lined and packaged in order to convince a publisher to invest in selling it. Just some ideas... > > I agree with --arranging the contributions around themes would help > keep it organized, and help the readers follow along. > > Also, depending on how many submissions we get, we could allow people to > submit more than one story/poem/etc. > > For the logistics of organizing the book, we will indeed need a separate > group for it. Looking at the tasks--first off we need a specific email > address that people can submit works to and communicate with. > > Second, we need a corresponding group where we can organize accordingly. > > Third, we need to draft a licensing/permission form (as mentioned in the > Poem about Nada thread) in order to make everything legally hunky-dory, > including whether the submitter wants it published anonymously, by psudonym, > or using their real name, and whether they would prefer to communicate with > the editorial team indirectly (through the organizers) or directly > (providing their contact information.) > > Fourth, we should have a few admins chosen to spearhead the > project--probably me, Mia, and you too , and any others who are > prepared to handle this sort of project. Only the admins would have access > to the permission sheet with the pseudonym and the real names--everybody > else would see pseudonym only. > > Fifth, we need to assemble an editorial team, in addition to the admins, who > are willing to edit and revise the works. These folks will see only the > names (or absence of names) as specified by the legalistic forms. > > Sixth, using the created group, we can have the group help the admins figure > out the order in which to arrange the stories, poems, and art. Keep in mind > artwork *may* have to be in black and white, unless we can have a publisher > include color plates. > > Seventh, someone can assemble it into book format and have a final > readthrough for last minute thoughts, ideas, and suggestions. > > Eight--look for a publisher! > > I find Yahoo really cumbersome, though--would anybody object if the admin > email for the book was a Gmail account? The group can still be > Yahoo-based--but it'd need to be a Gmail account in order to set it up and > have all notifications sent to it, etc. > > For one thing, I can keep track of email through my Droid more easily and > reply quickly, etc. > > I apologize if it seems like I'm taking too much in charge or something---I > kinda like these sorts of group projects, and I find that in my school > groups, if someone lays out the plan, it helps keep the project rolling. > > So...how does this sound? > > Holly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 That all sounds great to me,Holly I'm in a just throwing out ideas state of mind right now and I will have to consider whether or not I can seriously devote time to administration tasks as I am somewhat stretched time wise at the moment.At any rate I think this is going to be something of a long haul project and one thing we are going to need to do is continuously generate interest and in order to get enough submissions we will probably need to put out notices of the project beyond this one WTO website. I also find Yahoo mail cumbersome but what I was thinking about using Yahoo groups is to have that group be a private by invitation only one,that when people offer submissions via say the Gmail account that they would then be invited to join the Yahoo (for example) working group.Perhaps in that group the invitees could choose to voluntarily share their intended contribution/s to both give others ideas and to promote transparency about the project in general so that the contributors can decide for themselves whether or not this is a project they would want to be involved with.The fact that the group is private might be reassuring. I also think that once the concept is fleshed out that submissions could be solicited according to specific chapter content needs as well as general solicitations.Otherwise,to my view,there is a risk of getting a pile (hopefully lol!) of submissions that need to be sorted through and assigned to the relevant chapter---if people are contributing along specific themes it might be easier to organize and select the submissions rather than only having a general pile.Offering a selection of specific themes in addition to a call for general content for contributors to write about might also help to generate contributions. I would say that as the submissions come in that if the majority continue to be poetry that a decision will need to be made about perhaps confining the anthology to KO poetry and art and directing submissions requests in that direction. Having autobiographical content would be awesome but in addition to people wanting to use pseudonyms I wonder how many people would also be concerned that any autobiographical accounts would contain too much possibly identifying detail.In that case we would have to see if we get enough submissions from people who are willing to take that risk in order for the purpose of the book to remain coherent and balanced with personal point of view/personal accounts informing the chapters enough for their presence in the book to be inherent to the mission or raison d'etre or purpose of the anthology.Because if there aren't enough of these kinds of autobiographical submissions the entire format/purpose will need to be re-themed in order to attract interest from a publisher.Even though a book about the KO experience is sorely needed,whatever we come up with will need to be stream lined and packaged in order to convince a publisher to invest in selling it. Just some ideas... > > I agree with --arranging the contributions around themes would help > keep it organized, and help the readers follow along. > > Also, depending on how many submissions we get, we could allow people to > submit more than one story/poem/etc. > > For the logistics of organizing the book, we will indeed need a separate > group for it. Looking at the tasks--first off we need a specific email > address that people can submit works to and communicate with. > > Second, we need a corresponding group where we can organize accordingly. > > Third, we need to draft a licensing/permission form (as mentioned in the > Poem about Nada thread) in order to make everything legally hunky-dory, > including whether the submitter wants it published anonymously, by psudonym, > or using their real name, and whether they would prefer to communicate with > the editorial team indirectly (through the organizers) or directly > (providing their contact information.) > > Fourth, we should have a few admins chosen to spearhead the > project--probably me, Mia, and you too , and any others who are > prepared to handle this sort of project. Only the admins would have access > to the permission sheet with the pseudonym and the real names--everybody > else would see pseudonym only. > > Fifth, we need to assemble an editorial team, in addition to the admins, who > are willing to edit and revise the works. These folks will see only the > names (or absence of names) as specified by the legalistic forms. > > Sixth, using the created group, we can have the group help the admins figure > out the order in which to arrange the stories, poems, and art. Keep in mind > artwork *may* have to be in black and white, unless we can have a publisher > include color plates. > > Seventh, someone can assemble it into book format and have a final > readthrough for last minute thoughts, ideas, and suggestions. > > Eight--look for a publisher! > > I find Yahoo really cumbersome, though--would anybody object if the admin > email for the book was a Gmail account? The group can still be > Yahoo-based--but it'd need to be a Gmail account in order to set it up and > have all notifications sent to it, etc. > > For one thing, I can keep track of email through my Droid more easily and > reply quickly, etc. > > I apologize if it seems like I'm taking too much in charge or something---I > kinda like these sorts of group projects, and I find that in my school > groups, if someone lays out the plan, it helps keep the project rolling. > > So...how does this sound? > > Holly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 YES YES YES!!! Wonderful idea - helpful for others and therapeutic for us. +Coal Miner's Daughter p.s. I think it would be important for people to submit and then have an editorial board to choose entries (preferably not including any contributors) and some " qualified " psychologists or experts to kind of sign off on it also. Perhaps a forward explaining the situation kind of like Randi Kreger has on this site. (Especially since the world's position is that we have to be politically correct and not show our hurt or anger since these poor abusers are mentally ill, or as Annie says, " It's your moooother... " ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 I also thought about an editorial board, I'm not sure who we could get to do that though. My fiance suggested having a forward or something by a psychologist or BPD expert. Sorry guys, I'm not feeling so hot. I have an injury from my surgery that my doc said was probably from the retractor that left a blistery bruise that's looking infected. Going to my doc in a while. Just what I need, post-op infection. Yay? But I am loving the ideas coming in and will do what I can to help. Just gotta bear with me since I'm all gimpy & stuff right now lol. Wish me luck on this weird blister thing. Mia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 I also thought about an editorial board, I'm not sure who we could get to do that though. My fiance suggested having a forward or something by a psychologist or BPD expert. Sorry guys, I'm not feeling so hot. I have an injury from my surgery that my doc said was probably from the retractor that left a blistery bruise that's looking infected. Going to my doc in a while. Just what I need, post-op infection. Yay? But I am loving the ideas coming in and will do what I can to help. Just gotta bear with me since I'm all gimpy & stuff right now lol. Wish me luck on this weird blister thing. Mia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 I also thought about an editorial board, I'm not sure who we could get to do that though. My fiance suggested having a forward or something by a psychologist or BPD expert. Sorry guys, I'm not feeling so hot. I have an injury from my surgery that my doc said was probably from the retractor that left a blistery bruise that's looking infected. Going to my doc in a while. Just what I need, post-op infection. Yay? But I am loving the ideas coming in and will do what I can to help. Just gotta bear with me since I'm all gimpy & stuff right now lol. Wish me luck on this weird blister thing. Mia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 I'm writing down everybody's 2 cents (and keep the ideas and thoughts coming!) and putting them all together, and so far we've got a fairly good framework in the works! I'm glad you brought up the idea of an editorial board--I was struggling with how to decide what goes in the book and what doesn't. An editorial board to choose entries would be a perfect solution. Depending on how many submissions we get, some people on the board may be allowed to submit their own works, only if they promise not to take too much offense if the rest of the board decides against the entry. For one thing, going off of Doug's idea, and the fact that many books have websites nowadays, I will probably set up a blog of sorts where we can publish works that couldn't fit in the book, etc. And if we get enough entries in this blog, we can create another book...but I don't want to jinx anything by looking too far into the future, lol. And I agree, if we had somebody explain in one of the forewords that it is okay to express anger, it's okay to show our hurt, it's okay not to be PC, and it's okay not to put up with abuse. That's the whole point of the book--to help others see that they don't have to put up with abuse either. Or in other words, they can " stop walking on eggshells! " I'm of the belief that righteous anger is healthy and helps us toward healing. Hey, Jesus was angry too. I will be setting up a Yahoo group for this project soon, so we're not hogging all the communication channels on this group, lol. Also, will set up a blog at some point, too, with the help of geeky husband since he can work with all the HTML stuff. Holly On Tue, Jan 18, 2011 at 9:04 AM, coalminersdotter < coalminersdotter@...> wrote: > > > YES YES YES!!! > > Wonderful idea - helpful for others and therapeutic for us. > > +Coal Miner's Daughter > > p.s. I think it would be important for people to submit and then have an > editorial board to choose entries (preferably not including any > contributors) and some " qualified " psychologists or experts to kind of sign > off on it also. Perhaps a forward explaining the situation kind of like > Randi Kreger has on this site. (Especially since the world's position is > that we have to be politically correct and not show our hurt or anger since > these poor abusers are mentally ill, or as Annie says, " It's your > moooother... " ) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 I'm writing down everybody's 2 cents (and keep the ideas and thoughts coming!) and putting them all together, and so far we've got a fairly good framework in the works! I'm glad you brought up the idea of an editorial board--I was struggling with how to decide what goes in the book and what doesn't. An editorial board to choose entries would be a perfect solution. Depending on how many submissions we get, some people on the board may be allowed to submit their own works, only if they promise not to take too much offense if the rest of the board decides against the entry. For one thing, going off of Doug's idea, and the fact that many books have websites nowadays, I will probably set up a blog of sorts where we can publish works that couldn't fit in the book, etc. And if we get enough entries in this blog, we can create another book...but I don't want to jinx anything by looking too far into the future, lol. And I agree, if we had somebody explain in one of the forewords that it is okay to express anger, it's okay to show our hurt, it's okay not to be PC, and it's okay not to put up with abuse. That's the whole point of the book--to help others see that they don't have to put up with abuse either. Or in other words, they can " stop walking on eggshells! " I'm of the belief that righteous anger is healthy and helps us toward healing. Hey, Jesus was angry too. I will be setting up a Yahoo group for this project soon, so we're not hogging all the communication channels on this group, lol. Also, will set up a blog at some point, too, with the help of geeky husband since he can work with all the HTML stuff. Holly On Tue, Jan 18, 2011 at 9:04 AM, coalminersdotter < coalminersdotter@...> wrote: > > > YES YES YES!!! > > Wonderful idea - helpful for others and therapeutic for us. > > +Coal Miner's Daughter > > p.s. I think it would be important for people to submit and then have an > editorial board to choose entries (preferably not including any > contributors) and some " qualified " psychologists or experts to kind of sign > off on it also. Perhaps a forward explaining the situation kind of like > Randi Kreger has on this site. (Especially since the world's position is > that we have to be politically correct and not show our hurt or anger since > these poor abusers are mentally ill, or as Annie says, " It's your > moooother... " ) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 I'm writing down everybody's 2 cents (and keep the ideas and thoughts coming!) and putting them all together, and so far we've got a fairly good framework in the works! I'm glad you brought up the idea of an editorial board--I was struggling with how to decide what goes in the book and what doesn't. An editorial board to choose entries would be a perfect solution. Depending on how many submissions we get, some people on the board may be allowed to submit their own works, only if they promise not to take too much offense if the rest of the board decides against the entry. For one thing, going off of Doug's idea, and the fact that many books have websites nowadays, I will probably set up a blog of sorts where we can publish works that couldn't fit in the book, etc. And if we get enough entries in this blog, we can create another book...but I don't want to jinx anything by looking too far into the future, lol. And I agree, if we had somebody explain in one of the forewords that it is okay to express anger, it's okay to show our hurt, it's okay not to be PC, and it's okay not to put up with abuse. That's the whole point of the book--to help others see that they don't have to put up with abuse either. Or in other words, they can " stop walking on eggshells! " I'm of the belief that righteous anger is healthy and helps us toward healing. Hey, Jesus was angry too. I will be setting up a Yahoo group for this project soon, so we're not hogging all the communication channels on this group, lol. Also, will set up a blog at some point, too, with the help of geeky husband since he can work with all the HTML stuff. Holly On Tue, Jan 18, 2011 at 9:04 AM, coalminersdotter < coalminersdotter@...> wrote: > > > YES YES YES!!! > > Wonderful idea - helpful for others and therapeutic for us. > > +Coal Miner's Daughter > > p.s. I think it would be important for people to submit and then have an > editorial board to choose entries (preferably not including any > contributors) and some " qualified " psychologists or experts to kind of sign > off on it also. Perhaps a forward explaining the situation kind of like > Randi Kreger has on this site. (Especially since the world's position is > that we have to be politically correct and not show our hurt or anger since > these poor abusers are mentally ill, or as Annie says, " It's your > moooother... " ) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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