Re: Live my own life finally

January 15, 2011

Good for you Amy. You have to do what is right for you regardless of the BPD's

critiques! Sounds like you are on the very best track for you and that is THE

most important thing.

Many blessings!

Jaie

January 16, 2011

Amy,

It sounds like you've made a very good decision for yourself. No adult can be

expected to live their lives catering to someone else or live on their schedule.

I hope you are able to schedule in time to savor the good and fun things in

life. We all need a little laughter!

Best,

Grace

>

> After decades of catering to her every whim and irrational need, I've learned

to put my decisions and needs first.

> The results are the same anyway.

>

> I've learned that the circumstances are always the same.

> I make my plans, and she reacts to them.

> But now, the plans are on my schedule, not hers.

> So, if it works out or not, I can be happy in the results and not have to

blame her for every outcome.

>

> It's a little bit of balance in a very unbalanced world of a borderline

relationship.

>

> Amy

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